Woman Chaser Puns

I have been approached by a guy on a dating site. He's in his forties. I'm 25.

He told me that he " had experience with trans as he had been together with a trans in a previous life (with which he meant long ago) ".

I mentioned in my dating profile that I'm trans, pre-op and intending to get SRS.

Does this guy sound like a chaser?

He's a lawyer and he is married to a cis woman.

Lawyers are not the types that I personally envisioned to be chasers. But I could be wrong.

I just don't know if he's worth giving a try or if he's a creep.

Okay, but have you considered not having one in the first place?

Checkmate.

TW Trans Chaser, Sexual Harassment

So here's the thing. I'm a transfeminine NB and I mostly pass as a woman, today.

I was at a new year's party in 2017 with mostly queer people which took place in a squat.

The situation with my partner (ex-partner, now) was very dire at that time. They were in an abusive relationship with another queer person with whom they had kids. They were physically disabled, mentally ill, and non binary trans in the closet. I didn't really knew how to help them get away of this relationship and I tried to get in touch with people who would knew, maybe, help them relocate. I was mostly at this party for this reason. There were sex workers at this party, mostly queer, and considering how dire the situation was, I was considering starting sex work myself, so I started chatting with some of them around some drinks.

One of them, a cis woman, younger than me, asked another cis woman who was her friend if she was bisexual, because she was tired of being single. The other one said, that no, she tried with girls but that it didn't worked out and that she liked dicks to much (a bit cis-sexist but OK). The other girl responded by saying that if she wanted it, she could put a strap on. I thought of it as playful joke at that time.

Seemingly disappointed, she then turned to me, asking me if I was bi. It was a bit awkward but I confirmed. We talked a bit, mostly of our disabilities and after this, I added some of the people I had met this night to my Facebook account. We talked a bit by direct messages on the app and that was all.

Around one year later, my ex partner who had started sex work again was raped by one of their clients and given this cis woman was one of the sex workers in the City, she offered support to my ex. I DMed her to thank her for helping them and we started chatting again.

She tried to get closer to me. I was having a pretty rough time around that time. My relationship with my ex partner was falling apart due to hardship, their traumas and the harassment by their abusive ex partner. I was very vulnerable, had a very low self esteem, was very isolated and in need of advices and contacts to do sex work (I've since let go of that project because after the break up with my partner and their situation lightening up, it was no longer a necessity). She had the connections I needed, some experience in this area and she gave me a lot of compliments and I needed that.

I thought they were just compliments but she was, in re

Trans reddit: Of course thats totally different than be cis male chaser. You clearly are not just fetishizing trans women.

I’m a chaser. And I saw what I thought was a perfect trans goddess sitting at a table with some friends. She was tall, wearing a skirt and striped thigh highs, had an anime shirt on, and even had an intro to C# programming book covering her crotch!

I asked her what her name was, and she said it was Alice. ALL THE SIGNS WERE THERE, DAMNIT!

I just found out she’s been railing me with a strap on for the past year while telling me we should only do it with the lights out because of her dysphoria.

I just feel so confused and betrayed right now, like I’m questioning my own sexuality. Please help.

Does this mean when she called me a sissy little faggot who loves mommy’s cock, that was just a lie??????

I'll fall for literally anyone who calls me a pretty girl and can go a few hours without misgendering me.

/uj Yes.

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is that a relationship between two perverted men is a sin against God.

Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but it got booted from confessions (and I'm not entirely sure why).

I'm politically (if it matters) right(ish) leaning married man. My wife and I had some pretty severe marital issues last year and I was pretty certain she was going to leave me. I started dating around and I fell in love with a trans girl. She's sexy and very passable, but her voice is a bit husky and her vagina was a bit weird and that's the only reason I was able to figure it out (she didn't hide it, but she used some terminology I wasn't familiar with).

Anyway, I didn't really have a crisis about whether I'm straight or not. My wife eventually reversed her decision to leave me and while I am so glad, I found I really had feelings for this girl. To make matters worse, she knows (I wasn't exactly hiding my relationship status either), knew I was seeing other women, doesn't care and just hopes I'll see her again.

I've also started watching a lot of "shemale porn" since I hooked up with her. She had a vagina, but for some reason that kind of triggered me to be attracted to girls with penises (though not exclusively).

I thought about posting this in the trans issues forums, but the politics there just seems so illogical I think I'd rather not deal with those types.

I mean, you can go to trans clubs and meet guys, but chances are, they are chasers. Like..... I dunno. It's odd. I feel like most guys who I will meet ARE chasers, and I don't like that. :/

Hi friends!

So I've been trying to think lately of some signs that would show if someone is a chaser, and I've drawn a blank.

What do you all look for when trying to avoid chasers?

I don't understand squashing. Also, I was once asked to eat food off someone's wife. More than a couple requests have involved spaghetti. (For the record, I am not interested in participating in these types of activities.) What gives, CC's?

I'm so unsure as to whether or not I pass. I just went full time last week and I'm super self-conscious. So, today as I was putting groceries in my trunk at the store, a man in his late-30s came up and said, "Can I ask you something?" I think, 'Oh, great. Just got clocked. Do I even want to know his question?' But I indulged him. "Sure," I replied.

Turns out he wanted to know my age for some reason. I told him.

Then he said something like "I think we should live our lives honestly, that's why I feel like I need to tell you that you're gorgeous -- when I saw you back there, you just made me smile."

"Oh, well thanks," I said and opened my drivers door to get away from slightly creepy, slightly flattering, slightly older man.

"Are you dating anyone, or engaged?" He asked.

"Married."

"Good. You should be." (whatever that means).

I said thanks and drove away. So I view it as one part creepy and one part validating, with just a pinch of "or was he just a chaser?" But I'm going to imagine that I'm actually being seen as the beautiful woman I know I am.

please help!

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edit: just to clarify, i know i’m bisexual(i’ve known for a while) i’m just feeling dysphoric and knew i could come here for support!