I'm saying uo front that this is my problem and not necessarily online sites, but this time around I just feel drained by it. Is this normal?
I have been divorced for over 2 years. Almost immediately, I met a man who swept me off my feet. Our first date was something out of a fairytale. It didn't take too long to figure out this wasn't going to be my happily ever after. Unfortunately, for some reason, it took me a long time to break it off, but a year and a half later, I managed to.
I thought the best thing to do would be to get right back out there. It wasn't like this past relationship was going anywhere. I had reservations that it was good for me long term, so it wasn't like this was the love of my life I was trying to get over. Still, I miss talking to someone daily. Even though he was terrible for me, he was still providing me with companionship and it was nice to have the friendship, even though I know he wasn't a even a good friend. He actually was a drain on my (minimal) financial resources and manipulative and dishonest. He was nothing what he appeared to be early on. Quite the opposite, in fact. I'm still trying to sort it all out.
I decided I don't like being alone. I figured I've learned my lessons and will spot the red flags sooner. I got back out there and have been flooded with request to meet. I swiped right on any guys who seemed stable and semi attractive on Bumble and never expected I'd hear back from all of them. Now that I'm talking to men, I'm questioning if I am really intersted in any of these guys. They all seem very nice and don't appear to have the over the top traits of the last guy...but are also not as funny or entertaining. Ugh. I guess the right thing to do is be honest and tell these guys I'm taking a break from online dating for a while and if they are availiable later on, I'd love the opportunity to date once my head is back on right.
I realize trying to deal with lonliness via online dating is not a good coping mechanism.
I had an '07 R1 for six years. I lived in the South so I rode all the time, did track days and I LOVED riding. It's all I could think about when I wasn't doing it. Fast forward, I sold that bike and took a break for 3 years because I was overseas. Now I'm back, upgraded to a '16 R1. It's beautiful and I really like it as far as looks but I don't have that same enjoyment when I ride anymore. Riding is just not fun anymore for some reason. It's not the bike but the actual act of riding that I don't enjoy anymore. I'm 34 now so is it just an age thing or is this just a funk? Anyone else experience this? Just a loss for the passion?
Finished all levels, got all medal/bonuses and passed 100 000 000, I still like to play the game but I can’t get satisfaction vs score: perfect games give me lower scores than the high-scorers (117 000 000 is the highest of my friends) and I struggle to make gains, even with the maximum fire rate card.
Tried different plane/copilots combos without discovering anything more effective than classic+slowmo. So I am now considering stopping the play — unless there is some “alternative approach” that unlocks scoring opportunities?
https://youtu.be/BqyZFiZ3C3E
Advice/opinions?
Picked guitar up again last year after a few years hiatus and just recently started hitting open mic nights up
Went to a blues jam last week and got to sit in with Texas Slim! I'm the other guitarist. Vid
My new jam guitar solo :
