Pedicure Puns

For the first time since last year, my 46F husband 48M have a three day weekend! We were discussing what we wanted to do that day, and i suggested that we go get pedicures since I wanted to get a manicure that day anyway. My husband normally goes with me every other month to get pedicure, so I made the appointment. We also made plans to do some shopping and go to a late lunch/early dinner when we were done.

Last week my husband told me that his friend Jeff needed his help on Friday (the same day that we had our pedicure/shopping date), and I told him that we had plans that day. My husband asked if I could change the appointment time, so I called the salon and they said they were booked full until the following day. I told my husband this and he said that his friend needs his help, maybe we could go another time. So I told him that was fine, he could go help his friend and asked my son 18M if he wanted to go instead. My son agreed and we have a whole mother/son day planned.

My husband is now upset with me, and basically said that I was being over dramatic and inconsiderate. I disagreed and told him that this is not the first time he has ditched me for Jeff. Last month we had plans to take care of a project in our house, and he ditched me to go bring Jeff a ladder and help him clean his gutters so I ended up doing the project myself. He also brings him to date nights because "he is all alone and has no girlfriend or other friends."

I told my husband that I was tired of him putting his friendship with Jeff over spending time with me, and that it only seems like he needs his help on days when we have something planned to do together. This has happened at least 15 times in the last 6 months. The first couple times, I was okay with it because i feel like if someone needs help, and you can help, it is a nice thing to do, but after the 4th or 5th time, I felt like he was taking advantage.

My husband said that we could go again next weekend, and I told him that we could do something else, but that I am now looking forward to my mother/son day and that I wasn't canceling. Now he is pouting and making me feel guilty about it.

AITA for changing our date to a mother/son day because he wants to help his friend?

**Edit**

Thank you for all of your comments. I appreciate them and while reading them I did a lot of reflection on things, particularly things involving Jeff. I left work this afternoon early and went home. My son had to work today, so when my husban

I have an opportunity to go this weekend. My gf really wants me to go with her because she thinks it would funny to see me awkwardly sit next to her and a bunch of old ladies lol. I dunno. My finger nails grow at different rates so maybe they could “reset” them. But I know I would feel so lame and stupid. Do I humor her?

My (27F) fiance (28M)'s mom's bday is this week, and we'll be celebrating this weekend. Originally, we were scheduled to have lunch on Sunday. My fiance asked me if I wanted to go Saturday and stay the night. Now for a bit of background: I am on the pill and my period is usually fine, but sometimes I randomly miss a month. When that happens, the following month is absolutely horrible. I spend the entire weekend curled up on the couch with a heating pad and barf bucket (pain barfs). Anyway, I missed last month, and this weekend is when I am scheduled to feel like crap. I reminded my fiance of this and said I'd rather not spend the night, but he seemed upset so I just said fine. Later, the party got moved to Saturday. That brings us to today: I got a phone call from my fiance's mom asking if I would like to get a pedicure with her and her mom on Saturday. Knowing that I was going to feel terrible, I politely declined. This is where things went sideways. My fiance was sitting next to me when I got the call and was obviously upset with my "no", and got super upset and even raised his voice a bit once I got off the phone. He couldn't believe I said no. Turns out, he knew his mom was going to ask me to get a pedi with her, and fiance told her I would be super excited. He even told me I probably offended her. At this point I was crying and trying to figure out how to fix this situation, and then my fiance got a text from his mom asking if they should just move the party back to Sunday. Turns out, the whole reason the party was moved from Sunday to Saturday in the first place was because the nail salon was closed on Sunday and she had already planned on having pedicures. So now I feel even worse about this whole thing because I feel like I am screwing up her whole weekend. If I knew ahead of time, I wouldn't have said no, even if I wanted to. I would have said yes just to be nice and tried to suck it up. But I was knee-deep in my dissertation when she called and I didn't expect it, so I just gave the honest answer, which is that I didn't want to go.

Here is where I may have been an asshole: I am blaming my fiance. I told him he should have told me about the pedicures instead of letting it be a surprise, since he already knew I was going to be miserable and wasn't looking forward to leaving the house in the first place. I mean, he even talked up how excited I would be about it. Ugh. If I knew she was going to ask me, I could have said yes. In the heat of the

Not sure if this is the right place for this, but I got a pedicure today and the woman asked if I wanted her to use what I now know is a razor on my calluses. Being a child and naïve I said “go ahead use what you need!”

Told my mom about this when I got home and she bugged out and said that was foolish and that they’re illegal in most states!! Now after going down a Google hole I’m afraid my foot is going to need to be amputated.

Can anyone provide some after care for this so I can have some peace of mind?

TIA my peelie friends 💛

My mother (70+) requested a pedicure for Mother's Day next week (May 9th this year y'all). We (I am a 40+ F) need a recommendation for somewhere in Springfield or even south of town in Nixa/Ozark. We are both fully vaccinated so her main concern is that the place is clean. She has never had a pedicure and won't wear her new sandals because she can't reach her toes to paint 'em herself anymore!

I haven’t had a pedicure since well before I was diagnosed with t2. My feet are pretty healthy with no neuropathy and no unhealed wounds. Are there safety concerns with salons as far as caring for diabetic feet?

I literally just want to have my toenails cut, not painted or anything, because it's always such a pain to do it myself. I'm not flexible whatsoever and I can be one lazy mf. Would I get weird looks for doing this? If not, how do I find a place to go to?

Where do you get your toes done in the valley? Does anywhere do jelly pedicures?

repost, original post by /u/t-away789456 (AITA for taking my son to get pedicures instead of my husband?)

For the first time since last year, my 46F husband 48M have a three day weekend! We were discussing what we wanted to do that day, and i suggested that we go get pedicures since I wanted to get a manicure that day anyway. My husband normally goes with me every other month to get pedicure, so I made the appointment. We also made plans to do some shopping and go to a late lunch/early dinner when we were done.

Last week my husband told me that his friend Jeff needed his help on Friday (the same day that we had our pedicure/shopping date), and I told him that we had plans that day. My husband asked if I could change the appointment time, so I called the salon and they said they were booked full until the following day. I told my husband this and he said that his friend needs his help, maybe we could go another time. So I told him that was fine, he could go help his friend and asked my son 18M if he wanted to go instead. My son agreed and we have a whole mother/son day planned.

My husband is now upset with me, and basically said that I was being over dramatic and inconsiderate. I disagreed and told him that this is not the first time he has ditched me for Jeff. Last month we had plans to take care of a project in our house, and he ditched me to go bring Jeff a ladder and help him clean his gutters so I ended up doing the project myself. He also brings him to date nights because "he is all alone and has no girlfriend or other friends."

I told my husband that I was tired of him putting his friendship with Jeff over spending time with me, and that it only seems like he needs his help on days when we have something planned to do together. This has happened at least 15 times in the last 6 months. The first couple times, I was okay with it because i feel like if someone needs help, and you can help, it is a nice thing to do, but after the 4th or 5th time, I felt like he was taking advantage.

My husband said that we could go again next weekend, and I told him that we could do something else, but that I am now looking forward to my mother/son day and that I wasn't canceling. Now he is pouting and making me feel guilty about it.

AITA for changing our date to a mothe