https://youtu.be/yAZgvRVCT3s?t=1272
This is the clip. the actual song starts at 21:15. very popular song but I just can't remember the actual name.
Not opening one (sadly) just need some stuff for a playlist and idk this is just the best way to describe that genre.
Here's the song if you want a re listen
First of all, there are no female customers at this bar. Literally every bar patron mentioned is a man. The only woman mentioned at all is a waitress.
At the beginning of the song you have an old man talking about "when I wore a younger man's clothes"
You have a "real estate novelist who's never had time for a wife" and "Davy who is in the navy and probably will be for life" talking to each other.
You have a dude who is "quick with a joke or to light up my smoke who gets me my drinks for free" who is clearly hitting on the piano player.
Fellas, I rest my case.
Me(28M) and my husband (30M) both have raised by single moms and we have met while we were in high school via our moms (they were at the same mom group of volunteers in our school). We have fallen in love at our school and we have been together since I am 15 so we are definitely a high school romance.
We were planning to get married at Summer 2020 but thanks to the world, we managed to get married at 2021 Summer and both of our moms have survived from cancer in last 2 years so we also decided to have this celebration about them. They were always wondering about gay bars and strip clubs but we being little dicks while we were at university and them having rough times, we never had the opportunity to bring them to a gay bar so we decided to honor their request and have the post-wedding party at one of the wildest gay bars in London. They really liked the idea and we invited everyone who was invited to our wedding. This caused a tremendous amount of shit and we got calls from every family member saying we were triggering our alcoholic relatives. Both of our families have generations of alcoholics and they don't drink. We said "Not our problem." and moved with the original plan. This resulted no one from our extended families coming to the ceremony and to the party . Luckily all of our friends and our moms made the enough crowd and our mothers had one of a night and I don't change it to one bit but I can not stop but feel guilty. Both of our families had very severe problems due to alcoholism,our dads were also alcoholic and they have very severe traumas about it and we might have been dicks.So,AITA?
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I went out to a gay bar last night and hit it off with a woman. We were making out and then her boyfriend comes over and starts touching me and her up and trying to get involved. When I say ‘no, I’m not into men’ he’s like ‘I’m happy to watch you both make out then.’ Like… fuck off?! I don’t come to a queer space to be fetishised thank you and I’m not going to indulge in your threesome fantasies. Have some knowledge of consent before you touch me as well, asshole.
There I was thinking I might have ‘game’ in the wild but I was just the prey of unicorn hunters 😣 how disheartening 💔
The answer to this will solve a 5 year old mystery
So I came out last year and explored dating a little bit through apps,but once I move to a better city I will have more options and more gay spaces to be in,but from what I have gathered from this subreddit most guys my age are no longer interested in gay bars or typical gay spaces most people my age are married and settled down. All my straight friends and family are all married now and im one of the only few left still single. I'm really starting to think I missed my chance to be gay and I should just give up because I came out too late in life thats what it feels like.
For me: Music.
More genres please…please. Something else other than a techno dance remix of Whitney Houston…I wish I could plug in my phone…
So this happened to me before covid hit, and I believe it was the main reason I stopped going to bars completely. I was out at a gay bar/nightclub looking for a potential partner (this was before I knew how to install apps). I was approached by a very good looking guy, we bought each other drinks and chatted for ages. We even got up and danced together and I honestly thought I'd found a great guy. So night starts to wind down and I ask if he'd like my number cause 'i had a great time with him'. Thought I was being real smooth :/
"Thanks, but I'm probably going to go back to my regular bar, I'm not gay". I was both shocked and very embarrassed. After some more talking I found out that he tried the gay bar because he was tired of loud women hitting on him and just wanted a break from the shitty music, because 'we play better music' (which is definitely true). I ended up walking home feeling like a right fool. Now I'm not against separating bars and clubs based on sexuality, but I was kinda hoping a gay bar would be a great place to find someone. I haven't gone back as every time I see that place I remember that night and feel like sh@. Anyone else have a similar experience?
Edit: Just realized a better question would be "how do you tune your gayday so you can tell?"
Where do the LGBTQ+ community have fun in Dublin, Ireland?
I’m a 22yo Bi guy in SF and I just can’t get myself to go out alone, due to a combination of social anxiety and poor past experiences (Folsom had more downs than ups). How do you approach it?
I was with a bar with my girlfriend and her gay best friend motor boated her chest. She said most guys wouldn’t care about that since he’s gay. And that I was being insecure. Is that true? Am I being insecure for being uncomfortable by it? It made me feel weird especially out in public my girlfriend having her chest pressed in by another man’s face. She’s also cool sharing a small bed with him or getting her ass slapped by him.
For what it’s worth in quite positive he’s gay, he’s married to a man and came out as gay like 8 years ago. I know I can’t control her actions but I want to know if this is normal. If this is normal and something most guys wouldn’t care about I want to do my best to be comfortable with it. Just any advice would help
Hey everyone!
Somewhat new to the area, 38 years old. Finally easing into my new house after a year. I'd love to get out and meet some single men, having trouble finding anything but hookups or guys super far away.
Anyone know of any good gay friendly bars or meet ups in the area?
I went to a gay bar last weekend and they said "do you know what kind of bar this is?" and I said "yes" and they said "it's for gay men. Are you a man?" I said "no" and they turned me away.
I've never had this happen before and I've been going to gay bars for quite some time. Is this a common thing that I wasn't aware of? Doesn't seem very fair especially considering lesbians don't have our own bars anymore.
Thoughts?
Edit: Just had a epiphany. It could be a LGBT bar and I happened to stumble into a gay men only event or night. Does that seem likely?
I stand up, hand on my heart, and shout with a fury only matched by Roger Waters towards Rick Wright during the making of their underrated (tbh) album The Wall: "Time/Breathe(Reprise)-2011 Remastered Version!"
I forget that my DSOTM shirt and tattoos don't make me the wisest potsmoking human the world has ever seen, and that Time/Breathe(Reprise) is the only other song except Another Brick in the Wall and Comfortably Numb that I listen to. I get booed.
The queers then beat me for my ignorance. I think I brought all this riff-raff into the room.
There's one smoking a joint and another with spots!
If I had my way, I'd have all of them shot.
In my shame, I leave the bar and enter the next one, where an acoustic...
Edit: This really got a lot more traction than I expected. Thanks everyone for your responses. Sorry if I don’t get to your comments to respond.
Also, thank you for whoever anonymously gave me a hug! That’s my first Reddit award. So much appreciated.
So I (22M) am currently studying in Brighton and it is well known for it's queer community and I am also bisexual. When I came out first 5 years ago,my parents were very concerned about my safety because I was an introvert and they said they fucked up a lot in their university years so my dad insisted on coming with me to the bars and stay as an observer and I had to accept it(because I wasn't working and did not have time to work at a part time job) and this lasted till I was 19,when they said they could trust me as an individual and they were sure I could take care of myself but honestly,my dad was a very fun guy to go out with and he is my best wingman. Also it helped that he was a catch and everyone in the bar would flirt with him and it really. boosted his self confidence so even though I started to go out alone or with my friends,my dad is still my best man if I go to somewhere and my dad is currently the supportive dad figure who listens everyones problems at the bar.
Last weekend,while I was at a gay bar with my friends, I saw my dad at the same bar and he was with a bunch of "youngsters"(as his term) and one of my friends said grudgingly "They must be someone else's dad,oh god" and I said "Yes he is mine" and yelled enthusiastically to him. Turns out,he was a regular customer of that bar and he was best friends with the couple who owned the bar. When he came to our table, I told about the adventures and the partying I did with my dad and most of my friends were shocked but they were very nice and my dad left our table after 20 minutes of chat. The day after,all of.my.friends called me out for bringing a parental figure,let alone a straight guy to one of our sacred places and ruining it. Honestly, I don't think I did anything wrong but they were very uncomfortable with it and I decided to think that I was an asshole.So,AITA?
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