Okok, I’m 18F and I can’t count the amount of times I’ve been fooled by men.
Last week, this guy I didn’t really know asked if I wanted to go to a party with him. I said sure, but when I told my friends they gave me a very confused look.
They told me that he probably wanted to get me drunk so I’d have sex with him, and they told me more about his character that he’d hidden from me.
I’ve been in 2 sexually abusive relationships because of this. I misread guys, think they’re nice (taking at face value), and get into dangerous situations.
I have a boyfriend now who treats me exactly how I deserve to be treated. He and my friends help decipher when guys are hitting on me. They’ve probably saved me a lot of trouble.
I have to learn this for myself before I go off to college. Does anyone else have any tips to help me detect this stuff???
Location: Lake County, Ohio
Hi everyone.
My mom is getting ready to put her house up on the market soon and our neighbours are making this a nightmare situation. The city has all but given up on even coming over to the house because of the combative nature of the father. The father also happens to be the son of our most beloved Mayor, who passed away 6 years ago, this is important.
I’m going to state essentials first, then elaborate.
It is important to describe the layout of our houses and driveways. Our driveways are side by side, sandwiched between our houses with no separation. It is clear whos driveway is whose. Our properties are basically mirror images. We allow each other to use the others to maneuver out, but never for parking. Our houses are on the main 4 lane boulevard through the city. The speed limit is 35, but routinely cops and people speed up to 50 mph. It is also important to note that this house is not our main residence anymore, we check on the property once a week to keep the grass cut and renovate for sale. Our city is extremely strict on curb appeal.
And now the laundry list:
Child Safety: They have 6 kids, three are autistic to varying degrees. The oldest is 10, the youngest is 2 and 1-2 years aged between the rest. Numerous times, the second youngest has been seen running down the street in nothing but diaper and it’s usually a neighbour or concerned citizen that helps. This has happened at all hours of the day, and many times there is only one parent present. Many of the kids also play in our yard unsupervised when my mom is not there. They leave toys and garbage on our property. The conditions of the back yard are unsafe at present. Our houses are 20 feet apart and we can see in each other’s windows, the last time I could see in before they covered the windows, the house looked the same as the yard.
Property and Trash: The back yard is abhorrent. Toys are destroyed by the elements, cars running over them and there is so much trash piling up because they cannot afford to have trash services collect it. They have a mature magnolia tree in the front which drops flower petals that are extremely slippery when allowed to accumulate. They have never once shoveled them off the driveway. There are window panes lying about, board with nails and dog poop everywhere from their two untrained and aggressive dogs. Numerous times, they have had the water shut off from not paying, all of the windows are covered with blankets and it ree
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My Wizard very recently got turned into a dhampir, and has been struggling with blood cravings since. In the last session, he failed a series of rolls to resist bloodlust, and had it not been for his party holding him back, would have probably killed a kid. I've been playing him as true neutral, and I would like for him to keep his alignment; but I have no idea how to roleplay someone not only dealing with cravings, but dealing with the trauma of losing control and trying to kill an innocent person, much less a kid.
How should I try and play this, and what actions could my character take to try to mitigate these cravings until he gets better at resisting them?
This came up elsewhere, but as someone who is extremely passionate about prolicide it’s been bothering me ever since.
He was told so clearly that she should not have more children, that she was enough of a danger to her children that she should not be left alone with them, and that she needed her medication to function.
Yet. There she was, off her meds and alone with her children, when he was the one liable for her care.
How was he never brought to trial?
There’s a big risk of contracting and spreading stds and stis and just general nastiness. The person you cheated with could become a stalker and try to kill me or kill me I feel like there needs to be compensation and or punishment It would really help the person who was betrayed mentally and emotionally as well because they wouldn’t be just sitting around wondering if you’re ok and moving on happily they’ll find solace in knowing they’ll be punished and or relieve repetitions so the perpetrator won’t get off Scott free
we've known each other over a decade and lived together the past 5 years. I'm not a germaphobe, but having a messy house stresses me out. she can't do any cleaning consistently, including leaving snacks and empty wrappers/dirty dishes in her bedroom. we have a bug problem, so this is irritating, but I also have an elderly dog that will eat whatever garbage he can find. After accepting that she won't clean her room reliably, I asked her to start closing her door when she leaves/the house is empty. She can't do that consistently either. I don't know the last time she swept or cleaned the bathroom. She doesn't cook for the two of us ever, but I cook a few times a week and if she eats it, then she does the clean up but then leaves food on dishes and in the bottom of the sink. She doesn't empty trash very often or put the bins out on trash day. she doesn't do yardwork even though when we moved to this house she claimed she'd do all of it. she left it for so long she wouldn't be strong enough to push the mower (low weight and poorly healed fractured wrists) so i'd end up doing it.
Throughout our friendship, we've both been up front with our mental problems and trauma. But about 3 years ago, I got a DUI and then found out she's a habitual liar. I'm trying to control my drinking, but living with someone who can't be responsible for her own food waste management stresses me out bc I still don't have a license or a car, so I've only really left the house since last march to work or exercise. I've had multiple talks with her about it, about how important cleaning up trash and food is, and how dangerous it is for my dog. She's never been able to keep it up without me consistently reminding her.
At this point, I want to start looking for other living arrangements. It's been the problems since we started living together. Each time I talk to her about it, she shuts down and then when she starts talking to me again, it's a lot of self-deprecation and over apologizing. I used to just suck it up and take care of things myself bc it was easier than dealing her reaction. She's seeing a therapist now, but I don't know if she's being honest with him so I don't know if it's going to help.
Should I move out at this point? How can I word my requests to get through to someone depressed/adhd/ptsd? Am I overreacting/expecting too much?
tl;dr: roommate/friend lies and doesn't do her share of housework. she leaves food (including chocolate) where my dog can get to it. I've tried f
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We were never married. We have been separated for 7 months. She still has full custody. We are negotiating an agreement, but she wants the final say on everything. So that's a no from me till we get a true 50 50. I have him 4 night a week and do not pay child support. I also watch him additional days throughout the month. She has an onlyfans, but I am finding that that doesn't matter to the judges. So does her roommate, who has a child full time. She uses Adderall and doesn't have a prescription.
My question to the group, she was pulled over speeding 20 over in north carolina, with the child in the car. She now is facing a speeding ticket, reckless driving with endangerment of a child.
Is that enough for an emergency custody order, or should I just use that information at trial?
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