Ungenerous Puns

Obviously I'm talking about the fandom in general, not every single individual but the negativity is off the charts. Other fandoms don't take their shows too seriously. They know it's just a show, they know that overused tropes are going to be thrown in and there's going to be repetition. Small errors are laughed about or not spoken about at all. They have fun with their show.

Not so with Fire. People are sending death threats to an actress for doing her job. "Fans" nitpick the smallest errors and act like it's a personal attack on them from the writers. They spend more time talking about what they don't want to see than what they do want to see. They complain about things that have been on the show since forever. Don't like in-house romance? Why are you still watching? It's been like that since season 1. Don't like certain characters or relationships? They're not going anywhere so why don't you focus on the parts you do enjoy rather than spending more time complaining about the ones you don't.

I get wanting a show to do better (or at least what you class as better) but damn. The writers could come up with Emmy winning episodes and they'd still be inundated with complaints. Some people on here and elsewhere are capable of having interesting and necessary discussions about the aspects of the show they dislike without being rude or non-stop whiny. Some people need to find a different show to watch because Fire is never going to be what you want it to be. I don't understand why some of you spend your free time watching and talking about something that doesn't seem to bring any enjoyment.

I was thinking about how the show has 8 core characters, and how everyone else kind of gets left in the lurch in terms of screentime and relevance.

Logan

Kendall

Roman

Shiv

Connor

Tom

Greg

Gerri

If you aren't these 8 characters after season 1, you basically don't matter. What was the last notable thing Karolina did? Frank? Carl? Hugo? Stewie? Marsha? Even when Roman had a regular girlfriend, her only real role was to tell him off for being unable to fuck. Kendall's girlfriend has way less screen presence and characterization post her debut episode. The only love interest who gets to do stuff is Willa, and even she goes have a season without saying a word or even appearing.

This isn't necessarily a full-on criticism, just something I've noticed. I remember some twitter stans attacking Comfrey for appearing too much, and me thinking she doesn't really appear all that much at all, and then realizing that the majority of side characters actually show up even less.

The editors on this show are brutal is what I'm saying.

You can check my history for background. I am ready to end a relationship with a selfish lover. I plan to do this in person, but I also wrote a letter (both to help me form my thoughts and to give to him so things don't get twisted later...)

Here it is:

Dear …,

I no longer feel it is healthy to be in a long-term romantic relationship with you, and I have decided we need to break up today.

My decision is not because of what happened on one particular day or week, and it is not about how often we have sex. My decision is mostly related to how you treat me when I bring up my concerns (most recently, and perhaps commonly, about how I feel that my pleasure is not prioritized). Your responses have ranged from annoyance or anger, to acknowledging my concerns or making promises you don’t follow through on, to turning the issue around to be about how I am attacking you. (If you feel the way I communicate is hurting you, we should definitely address that issue, but not in a way that dismisses what I feel are legitimate concerns.) When I talk to my partner, I want to feel safe and confident that my feelings and words are heard, both in the conversation we are having and in the follow-up actions.

It has become increasingly clear to me that you feel frustrated when we have these conversations, and you maintain that you “don’t know what to do,” and you make me feel that I am interrupting your work or sleep by bringing up my feelings. The thing that I have been trying to communicate is that what I want you to “do” is care about me and prioritize me, to sometimes be more generous and selfless, and I feel embarrassed to have to ask these things because I do not think they are things that one should have to demand in a caring relationship. That said, my partner is not willing to do these things (and though you say you want to, our relationship gives me evidence that you aren’t), then I will not demand change. In fact, a big part of the reason I feel we need to break up now is because things haven’t really changed, and I should not wait longer for them to change when you’ve given me clear evidence that they probably won’t and you are clearly upset when I bring them up.

Some of our differences may have to do with compatibility. I firmly believe in talking about everything, including sex (calmly and at appropriate times), and deliberately working through concerns rather than “letting them work themselves out,” especially if they haven’t worked themselves out. However

From Dear Prudence in response to a reader asking for a gentle way to call someone out.

I've just installed Tinker's Costruct and Thermal Expansion to my modpack. There are still nearby chuncks that haven't been loaded yet, so it wont be too hard to find the ores from that mod. I was wondering if there are any mods that automatically reset chunks that haven't been built in yet.

Has anyone else ever seen a pitch black square/rectangle just being there. its hard to explain cause it makes no sense but multiple times in my life i’ve seen a black square just there infront of me, 2 dimensional ones and then they just disappear. the last one i saw was at work, i was looking over to my right and i realized it as i was looking away, i looked back and that 2 dimensional pitch black square that was floating in the sky had just disappeared. like that part of the world hadn’t rendered in properly for a second and now it was.