She Drives Me Crazy Puns

Yesterday evening I told my gf that I was so lucky to be with her, that she’s the most beautiful girl in the world and that when she got into my life she change it for better, I’m just so happy with her.

She then respond by saying “I was afraid of this”, she told me that she doesn’t feel anything when I tell her that, but it wasn’t me, that it was her.

It really drives me crazy because she has been feeling down, and i don’t know what to do because I can’t make her feel better.

What can i do? She’s 19 and I’m 20, we’ve been dating for around 6 months, and we’re even planning a trip for next month.

Sorry for my bad English.

Here's a list of some weird things she does. The main point is, she lacks normal self awareness, is confused all the time, and cannot communicate properly. When you tell her something, it is like it gets filtered by her, and then her answer is based on what she thought you were saying. So communication is nearly impossible. She's also very paranoid and thinks everyone is doing things to annoy her. When they're actually just doing their own thing. She thinks everything has to do with her. She's obviously a narcissist as well.

Here's a list of her weird quirks.

EDIT: A great example of her: we argued once in my room. I asked her to leave. Instead, she STEPS FORWARD towards me. I say again. PLEASE LEAVE. She steps forward again. When I try to walk out she blocks me. She's trying to get me to do something so she can call the police. She has assaulted me in the past too. Grabbed my arm and grabbed my chin and yelled "FUCK YOU". I reported this to the police and they said it isn't considered assault. I'm sure if I was a husband and did that to my wife, I'd have been arrested.

Looks back at me when I crack my knuckles to show her annoyance.

Is like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Super nice and loving when happy. But turns into a literal psychopath when angry. I have videos of this. It's clear from the video, that she enjoys when people suffer, if she's mad at them at the time.

You can't being up anything to her if it's about her or her actions. Immediately starts excusing her behavior and usually gets angry and starts an argument. I could say something as simply as "can you please lock the door after going outside?". That turns into "I have done everything for you and this is how you treat me". "I'm sorry I'm such a horrible mother".

Repeats things multiple times. Says "I like this movie" 3x within 2 minutes.

Randomly announces what she bought me, despite my already seeing it. Or announces that she did some cleaning and you're supposed to thank her.

Stares at me from across the room. When I meet her gaze, she Will break the awkwardness by asking you a question that shows she cares. Like "how's your back".

Wears improper clothes for cold weather yet complains about the cold. At night wears thin dress yet she always complains about cold.

Can't find things that are right in front of her. Thinks it's funny and cute.

Can't remember things well. Forgets entire events.

Answers questions in a way that indicates she is assuming what you meant rather than actual

And sometimes it's not even to talk to me. She's just randomly checking in on me.

Oh god and the other one I hate is "where are you going?", when in literally getting up to go to the bathroom. I'll tell her that and she goes "oh ok", as if I was supposed to ask. I think she thinks that she's entitled to whatever she wants. So if that's "to know where you are and where you're going" then she DESERVES it.

They're literally like adult babies. I mean think about it. -gets upset when they don't get what they want -feels entitled to many things and then the one above kicks in -rapid mood swings back and forth through out the day -poor social understanding (social cues/norms) -needs to be coddled so they don't freak out in public

Please add more to this list.

Here’s my biggest problem with April. She went over seas to be a trauma surgeon in Jordan for a year. She comes back and decides to go back Jackson says that if she goes back again he is done. He’s not waiting for her because while she is going and doing what she needs to grieve, she is abandoning him in the process and doesn’t care about what he needs to grieve, and she goes anyway.

I would like to state for the record that I don’t have a problem with the fact that she needed to go to help with her grief. I am neither a mother nor have I ever been pregnant so I can’t imagine what it would be like to lose a child and what it takes to recover from that. And I think that the people who serve in the military are amazing. I don’t like that she ignored Jackson’s feelings and then came back expecting everything to be just how it was when she left. After you have left your husband for 15 to 18 months, you just can’t expect him to have stood still. It’s not like she ever discussed joining the military with him and they seemed to try again after she first got back.

She can’t expect him to want to pick up where they left off. He clearly stated he wouldn’t try for something that he feels she isn’t trying to work at. She harassed him to the point that he would rather sleep on someone’s couch than live with her anymore. Fast forward a couple of episodes. April and Riggs are in the gallery talking about how April and Jackson are probably getting a divorce. Riggs says something to the effect that she knew this was the probable response to her leaving, even if it was only subconsciously. April says that God doesn’t have a divorce in his plan for her. Riggs looks at her and says “We’re looking at a kid who has lost his family, his home,,,, might even lose his hands now. Maybe God has more on his mind than judging whether you get a divorce or not. Don’t you think he has bigger fish to fry?”

This seriously might be my favorite thing that has ever come out of Nathan’s mouth. Because she had to know and she’s still only looking at herself.

If u haven’t read the first post, read it (srry I’m new to Reddit so I wouldn’t know how to link the first post on here, but it’s under the same title). This one will be also be long, srry...

After 13+ years of dating, the DH and I were finally on the same page about marriage. We recently got married couple of months ago and already I have had it with the witch. How can I put 13+ years in this small post? I dont know where to start.

The witch lost her job and my hubby decided to move in with her and his family for her sake. He is the oldest child in his family. Although some of the siblings moved out and have a family of their own, my DH decides to move in to help around the house. His parents have been divorced for quite some time. So when she lost her job, it became a big issue because she worked really hard to keep the house and my DH did not want to see the house gone. Mortgage is really cheap for a 4 bdrm/2bths home. It's located in a new developing location at the time and mortgage is about $850. When he moved in, he took on all of the house bill including his sister's car insurance. The witch definitely had nothing to worry about. Her phone is paid by the government, she gets cash aid and social security, which she uses that to pay her car insurance. That's it! I knew that when I got married, I would stay with the hubby and his family for the time being and share the bills.

I am gonna go right into the day the argument happened. My little family had came back from lunch (hubby, me and step son). We bought the witch a sandwich, I walked over to the living room to grab my little white desk because I needed to do some work on it. I moved her stuff off my table and took it to our room, of course I asked before i moved anything. The house was freezing cold (thermostat read the house at 68 degrees Fahrenheit, on a cold and gloomy day), for me that is. I dare not turn on the AC/Heater even though I pay for it! Because she complains about the ac/heater being on. It doesn't matter how cold or hot it is, anybody who turns it on, literally will have to answer to her. She will ask you why you turned it on. It must a really good answer. She's conservative, I guess. Before marriage, I would realize that certain people in the house had the privilege to turn on ac/heater. The witch herself, and her daughter, who contributes to nothing in the house! I get that she's in school, and her job only supports her AND her spending habits, but i