Hey guys,
I practice semen retention with tantric masturbation. I have not ejaculated for 25 days, but I'm not sure if it counts as 'relapse'. My question is; after practicing of tantric masturbation I orgasmed (I squueze my kegel of pelvic floor muscles), and very little of amount of 'whitish fluid' came out. Is it considered as relapse? What do you think?
Thanks in advance
Hello brothers,
I've been searching online and haven't found a solid answer to this question. Obviously it's better to injaculate vs. ejaculate, but how is it much better if semen goes into the bladder and is then peed out? Is this correct? From my limited knowledge semen only lives in the bladder for 5 hours before it is released through peeing. Does some semen get retained while injaculating and only a portion lost?
Thank you
Hi guys,
I am a practitioner of Hindu tantra, have only read about Buddhist ideas for about ten years and do not know very much of Vajrayana, but I have some questions:
- In deity yoga, one imagines oneself as a buddha/deity. Does this not strengthen belief in a separate self? It seems to me it would strengthen the idea of a "me" as the one imagining and also the idea of "me" as the deity/buddha, when by direct perception already all phenomena are empty of self/a core/are anatman.
- Also, visualizing a deity/buddha with certain attributes - there is no unchanging "core" or "self" with certain attributes, so why imagine there to be beings with these unchanging qualities, even if they are positive/buddhas? There are no beings at all, just the empty basis manifesting experience, no?
- Tantrism implies the transgression of boundaries. The imposition of vows, which, when broken, result in one going to vajra hell, seem to be completely against the realization of the emptiness of mind-made phenomena. Buddhism and Tantrism is about absolute radical freedom; prescribed rules are very far from the radical freedom of perfect realization.
I mean no harm, I am very interested in tantric Buddhism - it just seems to me that many of its parts are actually opposed to the core realizations that Buddhist thought is supposed to generate: the empty nature of all phenomena.
Can you help me understand these? Are these supposed to be preparatory practices? If yes, then I do not understand why these are called advanced, as they do not deal with direct perception of emptiness but only with indirect symbols. Why do that when emptiness can be pointed out directly?
Thank you
I mean do “deities” like Tara and medicine Buddha represent symbolic meanings and energies that can be used as essentially tools for helping us along our spiritual development? Or am I way off?
I had my monthly tantric wank the night before last. As usual, it was very slow and intense. I won't bore anybody with the sticky details. I will say that I would love to be able to not go over the edge at all, but that has always been hit or miss with me, and I sorta-kinda feel like once a month is a really good ratio anyway.
I felt incredibly energized afterwards. Had some mindfog yesterday. One probably shouldn't forget that I've been working rather tirelessly on my novel despite being on vacation, and I had one or the other drink too. I bounced back last night, and did some non-ejaculatury tantric stuff (aka, I guess, edging). I'm finding some peace. The first week of vacation also helped with that.
Overall, I feel like I'm way more energetic now than last year around the same time. I think I overcame a lot of anxiety and desperation this year, and I am much more able to focus on what needs to be done, rather than mulling over all the bad stuff. I unsubscribed from most subreddits, I have them all in neat multireddits and I don't get to see all the negativity on my frontpage this way. It is really helpful to not get served the latest nofap/sr stuff all the time. It is time to let go. Some people simply want to believe whatever they want to believe, there is nothing I can do about it, and intervening is very stressful for everybody. (Let's see how long this one lasts, lol!) I read more, I write more, and I started using Anki systematically. I workout more. I reduced my twitter usage a lot, and cut down on youtube. Lots of good stuff!
I'm very much into my not-100% philosophy now. It works very well for me, and I think there are probably a lot people for whom this is the right way. It's more zen/dao than catholicisim/puritanism. You have to have the right brain / be in the right place for that.
I am ever more convinced that mental health and a good frame of mind is a state for which you have to keep working, and in very personal ways too. My tantric breathing, meditation and half-nofap won't work for you. Your yoga and absolute sexual abstinence won't work for me. Everybody has to find their own path.
Are practitioners of tantric sex married? And is anywhere in the pali canon?
I rarely hear anything about them. It is to the point where I wonder how they sell any albums.
Honestly, very few songs since the 2001 have come across as good to me. The new song Alone is great, but everything else was just okay.
Does anyone have any recommendations for anything to listen to that sounds like old Tantric or the new song Alone?
Looking for all those stressed out and tired women that need something more than a regular massage and a standard fuck.
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I'm honestly ok with there being a happy ending or not, whatever you prefer. My only wish is to help you decompress and relax.
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I just feel it would be so good. Want to try it with 'What's on your Mind' by Greyscale on their Nella Vita album. 👌🏻 Would also recommend Someone (Acoustic) by Anna of the North.
My girlfriend and I are getting really into meditation. We learned recently that you can meditate while having sex? We really wanna try this, but not sure how to. Can anyone help?
But I just wanted to say…this show isn’t just about Carrie. It’s not about Carrie getting all of the humiliation like some of you pointed out in the previous post. “Where’s the humiliation for Carrie?” It’s like some of you guys hates Carrie so much that if any of the other characters go through anything remotely similar to embarrassment or humiliation, it’s deemed unfair and wrong. It’s like you guys just live to see what hurtful situation Carrie will go through next or something. Sorry but…this show is about ALL of their lives. I think ALL of the characters had been hurt and humiliated in some form or another. And just because it wasn’t always Carrie who wasn’t embarrassed during a particular scene…doesn’t mean she’s always walking away “pretty”, either. Just chasing Big the entire series…the way he strung her along, pulling her in and pushing her away is humiliation enough. Plus, her character is an overall mess, and since she IS a mess, there’s nothing wrong with showing the other girls going through unflattering situations themselves. It doesn’t mean that that particular episode is trying to “save Carrie” and make her look any better. It’s just showing that yep…the other girls have their moments as well. So I’ll apologize in advance when I say that not everything I post on here will fall into the category of the “Carrie hate”.
Hi,
I was wondering if anyone has any experience leaving tantric - and more specifically Tibetan - Buddhism in order to pursue a strictly pureland practice. If so, would you care to share your experience?
While I’m more than well aware that there are a number of pureland elements in Tibetan Buddhism, with the exception of aspirations, they all seem to require a solid visualization ability in addition to receiving empowerments from a qualified lineage-holding lama, etc.
I pursued Tibetan Buddhism a number years, completed the preliminaries, received empowerments and began the generation stage practices of the three roots. But, I never improved in visualization or concentration, and I never had any encouraging experiences despite daily practice and completing retreats. I actually found myself becoming more irritable and unable to deal with a lot of things in life as time went on. Over time it dawned on my that maybe I wasn’t suited for this path. I eventually stopped practicing and sold my ritual implements.
Later still, I felt myself drawn to pure land practice, especially with Honen’s writings. But, I have the sometimes have the thought that arises about having broken commitments (samaya) and the harsh effects that are said to be coming as a result. I do feel that a pureland/Amitabha-centered practice is best for me, but I don’t know how to address this issue of broken samaya. I don’t feel particularly inclined to take up tantric remedies to purify it, as that seems like it takes me back to where I started (in terms of pursuing that path of practice). So, I end of just feeling kind of conflicted or uncertain about what to do.
If anyone with a similar background would be willing to share their experience or insight, I would be grateful.
I'm posting this for information purposes ONLY. This is a mantra sadhana, it requires deeksha. I will NOT give the full mantra to ensure no one attempts this sadhana. If you want to do this, recieve the mantra from a competent Guru.
परमात्मा–श्री कृष्ण– एकादशाक्षर–मंत्र साधना
Viniyog विनियोग – ॐ अस्य परमात्मा –श्री कृष्ण–एकादशाक्षर–मंत्रस्य भगवान् श्री नराद ऋषिः। गायत्री छन्दः ।परमात्मा– श्री कृष्ण देवता। ॐ शक्तिः । क्लीं वीजं। । परमात्मा –श्री कृष्ण –प्रीत्यर्थे जपे विनियोगः।
Rishi nyasa ऋष्यादि–न्यास–शिरसि भगवान् श्री नारद–ऋषये नमः। मुखे गायत्री–छन्दसे नमः।हृदये परमात्मा– श्री कृष्ण– देवताये नमः। ॐ शक्तये नमः नाभौ। क्लीं – वीजाय नमः लिंगे। कीलकाय नमः पादयोः। परमात्मा –श्री कृष्ण –प्रीत्यर्थे जपे विनियोगाय नमः अञ्जलौ।
Kar nyasa कर न्यास – ॐ क्लीं अंगुष्ठाभ्यां नमः। ग्लौं क्लीं तर्जनीभ्यां स्वाहा। कृष्णाय मध्यमाभ्यं वषट्। क्लीं ग्लौं अनामिकाभ्यां हुम्। क्लीं ॐ कनिष्ठाभ्यां वौषट्। ॐ क्लीं क्लीं कृष्णाय क्लीं क्लीं ॐ करतल–कर–पृष्ठाभ्याम फट्।
Shad-ang Nyasa षडंग न्यास – ॐ क्लीं हृदयाय नमः। ग्लौं क्लीं शिरसे स्वाहा। कृष्णाय शिखायै वषट्। क्लीं कवचाय हुम्। क्लीं ॐ नेत्र – त्रयाय वौषट्। ॐ क्लीं कृष्णाय क्लीं ॐ अस्त्राय फट्।
Dhyana mantra ध्यान– कस्तूरी–तिलकं ललाट–पटले ,वक्ष – स्थले कौस्तुभम्। नासाग्रे वर–मौक्तकं,कर–तले वेणु, करे कङ्कणम्। सर्वाङ्गे वर–चंदन–सुललितं,कण्ठे च मुक्तावलिः। सर्वस्वात्म–परो परात्म–परमो विश्वात्मने धीमहि।।
अर्थात भगवान श्री कृष्ण के मस्तक पर कस्तूरी का तिलक है,वक्षः स्थल पर कौस्तुभ – मणि है, नाक के अग्र भाग में श्रेष्ठ मोती है ,कर तल में वंशी है, कर कमलों में कंगन है,सारे शरीर में श्रेष्ठ सुन्दर चंदन है, और कंठ में मोतियों की माला है।आत्मा, परात्मा और विश्वात्मा–पारायण–सभी के सर्वस्व स्वरूप भगवान श्री कृष्ण का मै ध्यान करता हू।
Manas puja mantras मानस पूजा – १. लं पृथिव्यात्मकं गन्धं परमात्मा–श्री कृष्ण–देवतायै समर्पयामि नमः। २. हं आकशात्मकं पुष्पं परमात्मा–श्री कृष्ण–देवतायै समर्पयामि नमः। ३. यं वाय्वात्मकं धूपं परमात्मा–श्री कृष्ण–देवतायै घ्रापयामि नमः। ४.रं वह्नयात्मकं दीपं परमात्मा–श्री कृष्ण–देवतायै दर्शयामि नमः। ५. वं अमृतात्मकं नैवेद्यं परमात्मा–श्री कृष्ण–देवतायै निवेदयामि नमः। ६. सं सर्वात्मकं ताम्बूलं परमात्मा–श्री कृष्ण–देवतायै समर्पयामि नमः।
मंत्र – ॐ क्लीं (beeja) क्लीं कृष्णाय क्लीं (beeja) क्लीं ॐ
(NOT the full mantra)
(Beeja) - two beej mantras are not given purposefully
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Is No Nut November tantric?
Namaskar, Hello,
I am looking for more information on the Matrikas and Mahavidya, i.e. Tantric goddesses.
They have called me into their service and I don't really get to say no about it, but its fine because I'm actually all-in on this anyway, I feel like I was made for it even.
I am also looking for advice and will include my experiences with them below also.
Right now, I've read just about everything on Wikipedia on them and I am looking for sites in English primarily, but I am willing to try using some google translate on sites if need be.
I have Autism and ADHD, so...when I want or need to research them, I get lost and the next thing I know I have a ton of new bookmarks and a ton of notes...and several things that connect or standout as the primary purpose of that research I was meant to find and know.
Mahavidya call a lot to me, especially Matangi and Dhumvati and Queen Tripura Sundari. I think Matangi may be my Guru? There is something about her that very much calls to me, or just my favorite goddess perhaps.Of the Matrikas, Chamunda (Kali) calls the most, but I still need to find out more information on them, definitely not finding as much information on them.
I've converted to Sanatana Dharma because I've been getting house visits and such by goddesses, gods, spirits and all sorts of energy beings I can no longer deny as real, especially when I can see them and they utilized Maya/Magick to communicate with me and give me information that I could not possibly know...
They have been teaching me things about Quantum Mechanics, which when I began studying it that they truly began to manifest in my life, but in hindsight they have overtly always been there, guiding and helping me.
For example, I almost died the day I was born; it was a busy day and somehow a nurse was made to hear and sense my dying from across the hospital and found and saved me.
Also as a kid they brought my dead parrot back to life (definitely died, definitely wasn't replaced because I taught it the words it knew), twice; drowning and electricity (her beak even fell off for a while).
And a few years ago they saved me from a car accident by telling me what to do as a car was crashing in front of me... they said do nothing, keep the same speed and don't swerve... the accident went around me entirely, but ONLY because I did exactly as told...anything else and I would have been caught up in it.
They have given me some Riddhis and Siddhis, not
... keep reading on reddit ➡Last night was so good.
About half an hour of intense, deep breathing, muscle contractions and careful slight arousal... it gave me some intense, good, excellent ideas for my novel. It seems to really make me more creative.
Like a lot of people with creative hobbies, channelling creativity is an ongoing challenge for me. If this tool can help me, then it's almost like I have an obligation to explore this. At the same time, I don't want to overstate it. For what it's worth, I had the same impression before. I will definitely try it again tonight. If it is a pattern, I'll let you know.
One more thing: If I follow the breathing with my focus, there is always this tiny little muscle contraction wherever I focus, and it feels sooooo good. Tingly and orgasm-y. I think focus plus breathing is probably a big part of it all. At least this happily coincides with all the eastern teachings of yoga, tantra, various assorted martial arts, and qi gong.
I am also quite happy that I was able to end it without ejaculation. My self-discipline has definitely improved over the last year. Feels very good!
Found myself the most amazing friends with benefits. Been seeing each other regularly for 2 months, and I feel comfortable sharing all my desires with him. I have always been interested in trying tantric sex. He seems pretty open minded so wouldn't mind broaching the subject with him. Anyone tried it? How is it? Anywhere to point a beginner to the right direction?
Namaskar, Hello,
I am looking for more information on the Matrikas and Mahavidya, i.e. Tantric goddesses.
They have called me into their service and I don't really get to say no about it, but its fine because I'm actually all-in on this anyway, I feel like I was made for it even.
I am also looking for advice and will include my experiences with them below also.
Right now, I've read just about everything on Wikipedia on them and I am looking for sites in English primarily, but I am willing to try using some google translate on sites if need be.
I have Autism and ADHD, so...when I want or need to research them, I get lost and the next thing I know I have a ton of new bookmarks and a ton of notes...and several things that connect or standout as the primary purpose of that research I was meant to find and know.
Mahavidya call a lot to me, especially Matangi and Dhumvati and Queen Tripura Sundari. I think Matangi may be my Guru? There is something about her that very much calls to me, or just my favorite goddess perhaps.Of the Matrikas, Chamunda (Kali) calls the most, but I still need to find out more information on them, definitely not finding as much information on them.
I've converted to Sanatana Dharma because I've been getting house visits and such by goddesses, gods, spirits and all sorts of energy beings I can no longer deny as real, especially when I can see them and they utilized Maya/Magick to communicate with me and give me information that I could not possibly know...
They have been teaching me things about Quantum Mechanics, which when I began studying it that they truly began to manifest in my life, but in hindsight they have overtly always been there, guiding and helping me.
For example, I almost died the day I was born; it was a busy day and somehow a nurse was made to hear and sense my dying from across the hospital and found and saved me.
Also as a kid they brought my dead parrot back to life (definitely died, definitely wasn't replaced because I taught it the words it knew), twice; drowning and electricity (her beak even fell off for a while).
And a few years ago they saved me from a car accident by telling me what to do as a car was crashing in front of me... they said do nothing, keep the same speed and don't swerve... the accident went around me entirely, but ONLY because I did exactly as told...anything else and I would have been caught up in it.
They have given me some Riddhis and Siddhis, not
... keep reading on reddit ➡