The answer to this will solve a 5 year old mystery
Hey y'all. I'm looking for some good bars and clubs that have a 20-somethings type crowd. I'm also open for any gay bars for a friend!
Thanks!
A couple of friends of mine are thinking of opening a lesbian bar. I thought this was a great idea because so often when I go to gay bars, there are predominantly gay men there and I struggle to find places to meet women who like women! I just wondered what you all thought and if a lesbian bar opened near you, would you go?
I'm 33F, questioning but married to a man. I am currently in London alone for the next 6 weeks. I was thinking of going to a lesbian bar. Not looking for an affair or anything but just to see how I feel in that space. Problem is I have no friends I would trust to explain why I want to go to the lesbian bar and I'm quite an introverted person so haven't been to a bar alone before.
Anyone been to a bar alone? Better yet anyone in London want to go with me?
I really want to, but I'm not an extrovert. But I'm also not a homebody. I'm an extroverted introvert. Thats a thing, right? I wanna meet and make more lesbifriends, but I hate being that person standing alone, looking awkward. Also, I can't club dance.
I am trying to find genuine intimacy and connection with another woman but I'm afraid bars are just going to be horny.
Not rn but in general. Just wanna be respectful
Back in the day, you'd walk into the Empress on a given night, and it would be full of lesbians. Where did you all go? What do you do? Is there a new covert lesbian bar in town that I haven't been informed of?
I just got to Atlanta and I’m heading to one of the South’s only bars for gay women, My Sister’s Room. But to be honest, I’m a bit tired from the drive from where I live, I could catch up on work projects, and I have never had the best luck going to queer spaces solo and meeting people. So I’m asking for some encouragement, wisdom, and tips for going out and meeting some girls!
It would be cool just to make some acquaintances but getting handsy with someone tonight would actually make my year. If you were at a gay bar, how would you want to be talked to (if at all) by a stranger? Hit on?
In pre-COVID times, when I was younger and full of confidence it was difficult enough to try to meet people when everyone was already with their group and a tad cliquey. Now it’s been a minute since I’ve tried to be social and I’m making up reasons not to go out. Help me not be useless!
Edit: For reference purposes, I have a killer fresh haircut that’s straight out of Peaky Blinders. Otherwise I’m a plus size 5’3 soft butch with mild social anxiety. My idea of a good time at a bar is being on my phone browsing Reddit or Instagram while sipping. I have a shit back so my dance moves are not going to impress anyone lol.
I’m visiting Baltimore this weekend and was wondering if anyone had any recommendations for local Lesbian or friendly bars? Or, should I plan on making a trip into DC? Thanks!!
:( help me everyone is older and here in intimate groups of 2-3
I bought cigarettes to smoke outside and look cool
Maybe I just need to get drunker
EDIT IM HAVE ING A GREAT TIME
Hi, i wanted to ask which ones are the best lgbt bars where could queer women hang out? I see that mostly lgbt bars are targeted towards gay/bi men and lesbians and other queer women are as always the minority, which sucks big time.
just moved to LA, Echo Park area, as of like three days ago. i know there’s no lesbian bars (google search makes that very apparent lol). but is there any bars that lesbians and wlw tend to go to? i want to go out tonight, but i’ve no idea where to start. thanks!
Reddit - where does a lady go to meet other ladies around this city. Any spots near UTSA?
I’m not sure if there are any in Barrie, so if someone could let me know that’d be awesome!
Hi there fellow late bloomers, I’m planning to go to a lesbian bar soon and have a couple questions.
I’m a late 30’s lady, bi, married to a man. I’m traveling to a city with a lesbian bar in a couple weeks and plan to go by myself just to hang out for a while. My husband is cool with this and I’ve emphasized to him that I’m not going to try to pick anyone up or hook up, i just want to enjoy the atmosphere and maybe chat with someone. I’ve only realized that I’m bi in the past several months, but I think I’ve known on some level for longer, and I just think it will be really cool to be in a space where being straight is NOT the default assumption.
So I’m probably overthinking this but I have a couple questions: first, if I’m wearing my bi pride mask and have a wedding ring on my finger, are people going to avoid me like the plague for fear that I’m a “unicorn hunter”? And second, what’s the best way to be respectful and up front with people about my intentions if I am approached? I haven’t been to a bar by myself in a looooong time so I don’t know how to handle this! I don’t want to lead anyone on, or alternately, blurt out “I’M MARRIED” if someone just wants to talk. I’m a super introvert and just don’t know what to do.
Since y’all are also late bloomers I feel more comfortable asking in this sub, since I’m sure most of you will understand! Honestly, I figure the most likely scenario here is that I’ll go, have a drink, and leave without speaking to anyone because I feel awkward lol.
Hii!! I'm a 21F Brazilian student living near Central Station, I just moved in and really miss lesbian bars/woman-only spaces to hang out. I lived in Brussels for the past year and would always go to a lesbian bar with music jams and it was my favorite thing ever. I have a girlfriend so I'm really not trying to flirt, just make friends and have a good time :) If you know of a place or are a les(bi)an expat in a similar situation, hit me up!! :)
This is really depressing and I'm so sorry if anyone finds this joke offensive but as I don't know the end of it, I don't know if it is offensive and please let me explain. My nephew had oesteosarcoma and it had metastatised, lungs, brain, just everywhere. anyway he was on his second round of chemo (was never going to save him, just buy him time) and he was half way through telling this joke when he had a massive brain bleed and we lost him. My family and i would really like to know the end of the joke
I was on a dating app recently (Hinge) and they were doing a special in which they donated to Lesbian bars. They claim there are only 21 left in the whole USA. Contrastingly in my city (SF) there are probably 20+ gay bars. When I was living in a town in rural Illinois 15 years ago, they also had a gay bar. What's up with the gender discrepancy for LGBTQ+ bars?
I hope this is okay to post here. A couple of friends of mine are thinking of opening a lesbian bar. I thought this was a great idea because so often when I go to gay bars, there are predominantly gay men there and I struggle to find places to meet women who like women! I just wondered what you all thought and if a lesbian bar opened near you, would you go?
