About 3 years ago, my sister and her husband lost their three young children in a really bad car accident. My sister barely survived but pulled through. They had two daughters who were 8 and 6 and a 3 year old son. I won’t go into specifics surrounding the accident or their deaths because it’s quite frankly horrific.
My sister and I are 10 months apart and have always been extremely close. At the time of my nieces and nephews deaths, I was living alone in a 3 bedroom home and offered for them to live with me. They were both, understandably, too unable to function to go back to work and we all needed each other. I didn’t want them to have to worry about money or losing their home after what had happened.
I’ve supported them emotionally and financially pretty much ever since it happened. They both refuse to go to therapy, and still both aren’t working. I have a good job, but it’s not an easily manageable thing, and I really didn’t expect it to go on so long.
About a year and a half ago, I met my current fiancé. We clicked immediately and got engaged six months later. We’re due to get married next October. I’ve been trying to drop hints to my sister about wanting my house back to myself to live in with my fiancé but she’s not picked up on it. My fiancé has grown increasingly frustrated with me, saying I’m very obviously being taken advantage of.
Last weekend, I straight up told my sister I needed to talk to her, and told her that I wanted my house back and to live with my partner alone before getting married and starting to have children. She got upset and went running to our mom, who called me an asshole for not considering how my sister would feel about that. It hasn’t been mentioned since, but both my sister and BIL are hardly talking to me. AITA?
UPDATE - Thank you all for the comments and messages I’ve received over the last day, they’ve really been appreciated. I had a talk with my sister last night and it began the usual way, with her avoiding the situation. I told her if she left and wasn’t able to have an adult conversation I’d be forced to either take legal action or sell the house, both empty threats but it worked. She broke down, told me she knew she needed help but didn’t want to accept it and that she’d be willing to go even if her husband doesn’t. I haven’t talked to her much about leaving but her admitting she needs help is a huge step so I’m not going to push for more just yet. Thank you for all your help :)
I'm heading to Australia for a bit and am going to Adelaide Melbourne and Sydney.
I have time to bus up to Alice springs then travel to Uluhu or I can add Tasmania to my Melbourne visit and Three Sisters to my Sydney visit.
I've been told that Uluhu is top 5 things to do in Australia but the double 20 hour bus rides brings it down. I'm told that Tasmania is tough to travel around but on the other hand it's cool to add another country to my visit.
Thoughts? (I'm also doing Kangeroon island and then all the tourist things in Melbourne and Sydney
It's just so annoying. I am legally female now. I changed my name. But they don't acknowledge it. They don't respect my wishes. They just treat me like shit. Then they have the gaul to ask me for favors. I'm fucking sick of Mormons. I'm sick of Utah. Fuck this place.
Edit: I ended up crashing the party. I had fun. I now have several pine scented bath bombs. I'm gonna use them while I gay up the bathroom.
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I live in australia and this book was borrowed from a library definitely before the year 2013. If i were to give a time range of when i read it, it would be from around 2010 till 2012.
I believe the book cover was yellow and had art of the three sisters on it but i could be wrong about this.
It was a children's book about three sisters with magical powers. At the beginning of the book they either aren't aware they have powers yet or they are hiding them but their father absolutely knows they have powers and moves them to different cities and towns to avoid something that is following them. It has a modern setting on earth and the sisters attend high-school.
Their father shape-shifts into a bear, one sister is a witch one is an elf and the other is a vampire and they each have different powers and skill sets. The elf sister could communicate with animals and the vampire sister could change her appearance at will. I remember one scene where the vampire sister says something mean about their dog and the elf sister tells the dog?
I believe their mother was killed which is apart of the reason they either don't know they have powers or are hiding their powers.
(Sorry for any grammatical errors)
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