My husband has worked in a male dominated field his whole working life. (Mechanic) He got promoted to a manager position about a year ago in a whole new department and a with whole new group of people.
He had his holiday party for work last night and I finally got to put faces to names I have heard for the past year. Oh. My. God. He is the manager of several gorgeous women (who of course are all single) There is one woman in particular who my husband says is an amazing worker etc. He even hired her. And of course she is a decade younger than me and absolutely stunning. Fuck. Now if he mentions her I'm just going to envision this supermodel who is a fabulous worker blah blah.
I trust my husband completely. He has NEVER given me any indication he would do anything stupid, but this is insane. I was so lucky never having to worry about anything because he worked with all men. Now, all I can think about is how he spends ALL DAY with these women reporting to him etc.
One of the main things that pisses me off is that he literally DOES NOT GET when a woman is hitting on him or flirting with him. So I feel like he is easy prey. He is a very attractive and funny guy. I'm sure I have nothing to worry about, but my brain wanders. I'm a SAHM and getting chubby and old. Fuck.
Talk me off the ledge. Is the only way to cope with this to just get over it? Is there any helpful advice of how to feel better about it? Thanks for listening to my rant.
It's surprising how many people will eat all day and switching to drinking water between meals instead is a lot better for you.
Currently living with [korvold]. All was fine till the fae curse now we have some issues with personal space. He recently lost his job due to fighting with a shoplifters, eating the manager and burning the shop down but I think we are making progress. He only tried to eat me twice this week.
Plus stop the shit-tier reward types spawning once you get to maps.
You know what made Metamorph/Legion/Blight so rewarding? You got multiple different reward types. Sure some of the rewards were shitty weapons or useless armour, but you had multiple chests of different types to pick from each encounter. With Delirium, 80% of the time you get stuck with a useless reward type and it ruins the whole map.
Delirium feels so much better when you are playing for one of the good reward types, like fossils. It feels completely irrelevant when you roll weapons or armour.
I think it would be better if a) a new reward type got rolled each time the Delirium level increased, coupled with b) dramatically reducing the odds (or - crazy thought - getting rid of altogether) of shit-tier rewards like weapons or armour
I am running the latest version of the emulator. Can anyone shoot me a rom that does not glitch. The rom i have now does not show color to the light sabers at the beginning of the menu screen and when i go to Yavin and Hoth, the game has significant glitches. Thanks
I guess it's time to find a new doctor. Switched jobs and my old doctor (who I didn't really like anyway, but at least he never questioned my adderall) doesn't take my new insurance. Got the morning off work, took the train into the city to visit a brand new doctor. She acts nice but confesses that she has a "bias" against stimulants and she's not sure if ADHD is "real". Then she says she'll prescribe it but we need to develop a better long term plan, yada yada, and then she orders a fucking DRUG SCREEN. I have never been asked to take a drug screen when being prescribed adderall (the script is only 10 mg, by the way). I told her I don't appreciate being treated like a criminal when I'm just trying to get the medicine I need to bring me to baseline.
Now I'm very frustrated. She did say she'll prescribe it, but I don't know if I want to work with a doctor who's so dismissive of my very fucking real brain problems that I've struggled with for the past 20-25 years.
And I live in the U.S., so finding a new doctor is expensive and time consuming and it's impossible to ever really know how much it might cost, especially if they insist on ordering labs.
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I wasn't sure I should post this, but after speaking to my wife, I decided to do it.
To the girl I adventured with today. I had a blast and made a new friend. Please don't hesitate to message me at any time and I look forward to playing with you again.
Having said that, you told me you read this subreddit, so let me give you one more piece of advice. Please give this number a call: 1-800-273-8255. People are available to talk to you at any time.
I'm also here, but have a family and can't always be on. You seem like a great person and no one so young should have those thoughts. It would break my heart, and those of your family if you hurt yourself. Kids are jerks. Especially during the high school years. Trust me, it gets better. Doing something drastic now, will just bring grief to your family.
Anyway, thanks for adventuring with me. Hope to see you soon.
Edit: Wow thank you all for the kind words and the gold/silver. I never thought this would get the response it did. Just wanted to reach out one more time.
Another user contacted me and told me about a subreddit that helps people with depression, specifically within Fallout 76. So I would like to give them some love. Please check them out here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PKOA/
To the user that contacted me about PKOA, thanks. I tried to reply but my phone crashed. Sorry. Anyway, it was nice to meet you as well. What you are doing is amazing, please keep up the good work.
Edit 2: Thank you for the Platinum. I also want to point out this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/fo76/comments/c16tbc/comment/erbf12b please give AstorReinhardt some much needed love.
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So ... re-met my wife at age 37. She is a super model hot stunner.
Electric, fireworks off the chain sex. Fast forward 8 years, 3 kids (including prolapses) and a lot of arguments about friends, family and money later. We’d been having sex every 1-2 weeks. A lot of fighting and mostly all ‘bend over don’t touch my privates including breast’ quickies. With periods of 2-6 months of no sex.
We went to a therapist about the relationship 2 months ago. Now she doesn’t want to have sex at all. Until we take the long road of being friends again.
I get it. I really do. We have a lot of work to do on the relationship. I think she’s expecting me to wait 6-12 months to have sex again. I went six months without anything 3 years ago when she was upset w the relationship.
My feeling is, I’m not quitting my job or withholding money while we rebuild the marriage - so why should you withhold sex during this period?
My question. How should I be approaching my wife? I feel hurt and angry about constant rejection. I work a Corp job and she stays at home with our 4 year old. It’s stressful. I workout a fair bit to relieve stress.
So right now I’m frustrated with her and wondering how to be?
Do I send her a text to have a great day? Ignore her basically since she’s not happy with the relationship. Try to keep carrying or helping with the load - take kids to swim or play when I get home to give her a break.
What do I do?
We’ve not kissed in probably 2 years (French). She says sex is painful. If she gets aroused her prolapse hurts. She stopped doing oral after our first child was born. Do I still communicate I expect sex weekly to biweekly? Or just be asexual for as long as it takes?
She’s gone from a hellcat in the bedroom to a bend over and quickie gal.
I think we can revive the relationship. Although how do I be in the interim?
(As an aside because I’ve dealt with this for years now - basically only having sex after arguments, being rejected 70% of the time or “well get together this weekend, oh I forgot I told you that” - I can attract other woman. Beautiful women in incredible shape. Although haven’t gone down that route).
TLDR: my wife is fickle about having sex, says it’s painful if she’s aroused, refuses oral anymore, thinks we need to rebuild relationship before having sex again. How do I treat her in the interim? She seems to get angry when I compliment her looks.
Edit 7/12:
After a few days on this forum I have come to realize:
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