Edit: 1 Audubon Card left! I am reposting this offer from this weekend since I still have a few cards left, but the ones that are claimed have the associated usernames next to them. If they are blank they are still available!
Hello RAoC Family! I went garage sale-ing today and scored two large boxes of cards!!! :D So you know what that means... lots of cards for you! This is a US only offer, unfortunately I don't have many international stamps right now. I have 30 cards of all different themes, so take a look at the categories and pick out one you would like. Comment with the card number and PM me immediately to secure it!
1 Las Californias - u/Xcessivelyboring
2 Shenandoah National Park - u/Rowan0301
3 Platte River - u/marchbook
4 The Great Lakes - u/Super_Shawnda
5 Sangre de Cristos Mountains - u/vlovato
6 Sonoran/Chihuahuan Desert Borderlands - u/LibMaven159
7 Red Tulips - u/xinthetic
8 Peace Roses - u/tigerlilly_50049
9 White Magnolias - u/psychncrimenerd
10 Tulip Magnolias - u/girlsonabench
11 Piping Plover - u/CeceMarie
12 Scarlet Ibis - u/Mikepenpal6
13 Atlantic Puffin - u/bamagg
14 Carolina Wren -
15 Northern Cardinal - u/TherapistWow
16 White-winged Crossbill - u/ryderb123456
17 God Bless America - u/giantsfan143
18 Eagle - u/AromaticWallaby
19 Occidentalis Americae Partis 1594 - u/LtL22319
20 English Plantations in America 1673 - u/linzrap
21 Americae Sive 1592 - u/ModrnArte
22 Map of British and French Dominions in North America 1755 - u/dwrfstr
23 Plan of the Posts of York and Gloucester in Virginia 1782 - u/lochoa66
24 Occidentalis Americae Partis 1594 - u/sleepystorm
25 Spring in Giverny - u/DaenerysWon
26 The Waterlily Pond - u/icequeen323
27 Church at Varengeville - u/JacksChocolateCake
28 View of Cape Martin - u/princesseru10
29 Bordighera - u/tigerlady13
30 Nympheas - u/PigMimi
It's so sad when you're an addict.
But have that flair for the dramatic.
I want to romanticize the habit.
In the end I always rabbit.
To the safety of my home.
Where I lie in bed alone.
Life is hard when you ride that horse.
I'll quit tomorrow, well of course.
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This is a bit long so I apologize in advance. I really appreciate you taking the time to read/respond though!
My partner has been with her boyfriend about 2.5 years and her and I have been in a relationship for about 3 months. Meta and I get along well and have no issues. This is my first journey into poly although I've felt for years that poly made more sense as a relationship style. They had been non-monogamous for about 2 years prior and polyamorous for about 6 months prior to my involvement. So far I've had minor insecurities here and there, but through communication and self-analysis I've squashed all of them and been good otherwise.
My partner and her boyfriend live together. Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday they're both relatively busy all day, but have from 9pm-onward to spend together/sleep together. Thursday and Saturday are our "dedicated" days. Friday and Sunday are theirs.
From the onset of delving into poly my biggest caveats were:
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I'm not a "secondary" relationship. While there will obviously be a disparity in entanglement and romantic connection between the relationships at first, I wanted my relationship to have as much validity and equal treatment (within reason; obviously finances and living situations have an influence)
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I need to know that I can be a priority and be able to have enough quality time with my partner. I'm the type of person who needs a good amount of quality time with someone in order to feel bonded and when asked by my partner at one point to put a number on it I told her I would want to see her AT LEAST 3 days a week in order to feel fulfilled and that if it wasn't something she could reasonably do then it wouldn't work for me. She told me she would be able to make it work and do whatever it took.
Fast forward to a couple months in...my gf is a very busy person, but she built this schedule around being able to maintain her personal/work life with her romantic life. It's been a little hectic but workable. I admit that at times I feel like I'm not getting as much time as I'd like, but I see her putting in the effort to make it happen even if our 3rd day is meeting up for lunch for an hour or so. However, she recently told me that she's been feeling like she hasn't had enough time around her other bf in comparison to how much time we spend together and asked if she could spend alone time with him on one of OUR nights...
I felt confused about that because as far as time allocation goes it would seem that they have
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Edit: I'm not trying to be "special", just wondering is there any service charge I'm not aware of?
I know that autistic people are really good at understanding patterns and such, and i was wondering if that has something to do with how I always get into really weird discussion where people are mad I'm changing the subject. I'll see different subjects are connected and explain my point by tying them together and how those subjects are impacted by other events and etc. And like every time the other person is just flabbergasted that I'm talking about something else when the "original" topic was about something else. Like... is this a rule? Can I not explain myself by relating what we were originally talking about to others things and then maybe move on from the original topic because it's not necessary to talk about the greater implications of the original topic? Like, do I just talk with a lot of people who don't like analyzing things on a greater level, or is the ability to do this very easily an autism thing?
I met this guy online. We went on our first date. He's a good guy. Has a good job, accepts the fact that I have kids, really sweet and seems genuinely interested in me. I just don't feel completely attracted to him. Have you ever given someone a chance and ended up feeling the attraction later on? I want to give him a chance because I feel he is honest and I normally always fall for douchebags.
I’ll add with no morals.
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It’s like they’re an entirely different species with an entirely different operating system. Every time I think I found someone who gets me, they turn out to be completely different from me. It’s like all the strategies they have to be motivated or just not want to kill themselves seem so weird to me. How can you motivate yourself to sweep the floor when you know that it’s going to get dirty again within hours anyway? Everything is just so damn pointless once you realize that it doesn’t make a difference if you do it now or not. I’ve heard of the reward system and all but how does listening to your fav song or smth help the fact that what you’re doing and your entire existence is downright pointless?
I rolled up on my bike this morning and saw him standing at his post, talking to a couple. As I walked up, I hear him giving one of the points I've made to him in the past. Hell yes, Boomer security guard, preach!
