A couple of you might have read my post a few weeks back about my brother getting a second wife. In summary, my brother has been cheating on his current for years and now he’s also marrying a second wife.
Well, two days ago the whole thing was revealed to my sister in law. She broke down crying in front of us. Then she revealed that she knew about the cheating ever since the start of the marriage. But she stayed and supported her husband in hopes that one day he would realize how good his wife is to him and that he would start loving her back. She told us how his girlfriends over the years would harass her and she had all the screenshots and proof on her phone. They would tell her that she isn’t worthy of her husband and she should go back to her country and back to the small village she came from.
I also supported her and told everyone about all the affairs I witnessed over the years. From catching my brother trying to get other girl’s numbers to actually witnessing him bringing a girl home to our guest apartment. Nobody doubted the fact that my brother cheated on his wife. While my wife and I were expecting the family to support my sister in law the complete opposite happened.
My parents began blaming my SIL. They said she never showed love to her husband so he was forced to find love outside the house. They said she didn’t do enough and failed him as a wife. My brother also echoed these sentiments and my SIL came out as the bad person here. To add to that, I overheard my mother talking to her family about this. And saying “Men are going to end up cheating eventually, it’s the woman’s job to cover up those sins and love their husbands such that they would never want to be with another women”. Extended family apparently agrees with this and find extramarital affairs normal.
My wife and I are furious over this. My family has essentially brought a girl over from Pakistan and ruined her life. My SIL said she tried everything she possibly could to get her husband to love her but it’s not possible as long as he’s addicted to being with other women.
My wife and I have assured her that we are going to support her in any way possible. She said she won’t divorce or tell anyone about my brothers second wife. She’s worried her parents won’t be able to withstand hearing that their daughter has been silently suffering for years all alone in a foreign country. She’s going to let my brother live out his life with the second wife, and will never let him near he
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Details about me: 21M, Gay and I have an associate's degree
Since when I was a toddler my hardcore PIMI dad always has been strict with me. I remember that I was frequently spanked by him in the KH because I liked to run there or because I was having difficulties to pay attention in the talking.
When I was 7 years old he was dfd for adultery for the first time. My mother forgave him. But four months after being reinstated he started again having casual dates, but I only found out this last week.
While he was having a double life, at home he continues being strict with me. I needed to be the most theocratic boy in the KH. I was not supposed to miss giving comments in the meetings. He got angry when I got a C on the tests.
He also got angry when I was cutting the bread in a way that he considered wrong or even mixing the chocolate powder with milk and other things because I had some difficulties in using my hands to work. And we also had a lot of arguments because I liked to set pictures of cats in my profile on social media
During this time he became a MS due to his theocratic life. (There is some publications that claim that MS are also appointed by the holy spirit) Even hiding another life he read the bible everyday. And of course he has an enormous admiration for the GB
In 2019 I was already a PIMO. I was finishing my associate degree in IT, but unfortunately, I was so unhappy for being forced to go to meetings and field that I made some mistakes.
My dad used to blackmail me to force me to go to the meetings and the field service. Sometimes he smiles when he notices that I was going to the meetings against my will.
In February or 2019 I went after a known dissociated person who became an LGBT activist and I thought she was a POMO. But later she sold me out to elders because she needed to return due to financial issues. The elders showed my dad all of our Whatsapp conversations that she took screenshots of. And my dad forced me to tell to my mother that I went after a dfd person and while I was telling he started to smile at me. An evil smile.
My dad used to say that I wanted to leave the organization because I wanted debauchery and that I was desperate to be fucked in the butthole. When in fact was willing to hanging out with my college friend
Fortunately, I wasn't dfd because I told them that I would kill myself. Currently, the girl who sold me out to elders is out again of the WT.
But last week, we found out that my dad is having mult
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Preferably Dark comedies about extramarital affaires, I can’t think of any example, but I’ll take all languages :) thanks.
So long story short, my sister who is in an intern at some hospital (idk the lingo and specifics so bear with me) told me about two (married) doctors currently having an affair with two (single) nurses and a (married) nurse having an affair with a (married) doctor. This really surprised me because I thought all that Grey's Anatomy stuff was fake.... but is it?
Are doctors and nurses having extramarital affairs that common or is it just TV "romanticizing" it? I thought it wasn't but I don't work in a hospital so I genuinely don't know.
Would like to know from you guys!
Long post, lets start immediately
I will have three categories: confirmed, possible and unlikely. In each category the president in question will be placed in one based on evidence for affair and also generally see if it suits their character. Also I dismissed Trump, no particular reason but don't feel like talking about him at all in my posts. Lets start with the highest category:
CONFIRMED:
Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemings
The first true affair came with one of the most beloved president, Thomas Jefferson, and his slave. Jefferson has the distinction of having the most slaves, somewhere between 300 and 600. One of these slaves attracted Jefferson for her looks and behavior and her name was Sally Hemings. The controversy began in the 1790s and it first got wide knowledge in 1802 when a newspaper editor who opposed Jefferson claimed to see light skinned slaves. Jefferson never denied it but actually a lot of his family members did. It quickly came to light over time and in the 1990s DNA evidence proved that they did have a relationship and in fact Jefferson fathered 6 kids. In fact, a black person currently living is a descendant of Thomas Jefferson called Shannon LaNier. It is now a very known part of Jefferson's life and through out time the affair spreads more and more. It definitely shows in many ways that Jefferson was a complex figure. Some historians try to debate the affair saying it isn't true but there is hard proof to prove that otherwise.
Thomas Jefferson (left) and Sally Hemings (right)
Warren Harding and Nan Britton
Harding term despite being successful has been remembered for having a corrupt cabinet and having affairs with several women. The most documented affair was with Nan Britton and the story goes that they had sex in a White House closet and so, Harding fathered a child named Elizabeth Ann. Similar to Jefferson, DNA evidence yet again proved that the affair did indeed happen. The public only learned about it after Harding's death in 1923. Prior to the death, when Harding received the nomination for candidacy for President from the Republican party, she threatened to come forward and reveal the affair if she was not compensated. The Republican National Committee paid her $50,000 to avoid a scandal.
[a picture of Harding next to the child he fathered.](https://preview.redd.it/iq3r0
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