Frustrated and losing hope; is it possible to reorient my career in the direction I want to go?

tl;dr: what's the best way for a driven and accomplished developer with limited "free time" to gain a foothold into the world of distributed systems?

I just got rejected, for the second time in a year, from my "dream job". This was at a tiny stealth mode startup, doing incredibly interesting and cutting edge distributed systems work. My former manager joined there as their first engineering hire. He vouched and advocated for me, but that hasn't been enough to meet their hiring bar. Most current employees are extremely accomplished and have top level Apache projects to their name, so this isn't really a big surprise.

I'll get over the short term sting of rejection eventually, but this episode did uncover an uncomfortable truth that I'm only now grappling with. The space I want to be in (distributed systems) is not one where I've invested my time thus far. And I'm not sure how to course correct now.

Earlier in my career, I seemed to think that simply working hard and doing an awesome job would be enough to generally keep open any door I might want to go through. So that's how I proceeded: focusing on making a big impact at each place I worked. Every time I left a job, my colleagues and manager(s) tried to move mountains to get me to stay (often by asking me to "invent my own role").

However, I can see now that this perspective was naive and misguided. It took me a while to move into "pure tech", which is probably a minimum prerequisite to doing this sort of thing. I had a round of interviews late last year at many of the big FAANG places, and also a few different database companies. Everything went well, for the most part, but I was rejected in each case for one reason or another, save one (wherein the interviews went "perfectly", but they still went with someone more experienced).

At this point, I don't know how to recover and get myself on track to gain the necessary experience to break in. I'm working full time in the data analytics space, which is still interesting and challenging in its own way. I also have a family with young children, tons of house projects that I've neglected for years, etc. By the end of the day, I'm burned out enough that even if I miraculously found some time, I wouldn't really have the mental energy to work on something.

My career spans over 15 years at this point, in a few different industries (finance, edtech, data engineering, and data analytics). My focus has always been on backend engineering, but I ha

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This piece is my recollection how I was suddenly flung into the space that is crypto where time moves different without any gravity to reorient myself, during the rise to the top of the hype early this year. v.redd.it/zxnbozxt1z871
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Had to reorient the ladies so they're both under their own board. Critical 2.0 is already starting to run out of vertical space. Hopefully she stops stretching. Chemdogging still staying pretty manageable.
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Is it possible to reorient the growth direction of a large phal by turning it away from the primary light source? More in comment…
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Touch screen won't reorient when rotating, touch isn't working and it's slow to switfch between EVF and Monitor-is this a hardware issue?

Hey folks. I probably answered my own question but this week my touch screen won't reorient when rotating, touch isn't working and it's slow to switfch between EVF and Monitor.

I have removed my SD card, cleaned the eye sensor and tried a few lenses with no luck. The next step is a factor reset but I am thinking that it is a hardware issue related to the ribbon cables on the monitor. I haven't physically damaged the rotation hardware in any way that I can tell. Maybe the ribbon cable is loose? Does anyone think a firmware reset has any chance of solving this?

Thanks

EDIT: Did a factory reset and the problem persists...now I'll have to reset all my custom settings on top of dealing with the broken screen. (yay!)

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Would it be beneficial to mount a 6m magnetic loop horizontal for SSB or FT8? Or should I go buy some β€˜L’ brackets and reorient it back to vertical.
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I'm tired of having to reorient my camera every time I teleport. Especially when entering War's Retreat and Prifddinas.

This has been a bug for years now, it so bloody annoying. Please fix it.

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Possible to reorient the main menu?

Hey folks. In thrill of the fight, the game menu tends to in part appear outside my guardian, making it unpractical to tap there with my virtual boxing gloves ... I notice the game doesn't seem to respond to the position of the menus in the home menu of the VR, which I know how to change. I guess this kind of problem could happen in other games too. Any idea on how to fix? My space is about a x meters wide by 4 meters long btw if that can help.

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Watch this sargassum shrimp that I found while beachcombing reorient itself to better camouflage with sargassum! v.redd.it/cvwo7m9pwit61
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An embedded c programmer from Europe who wants to reorient to solidity programming. Any advices?

Hello dear solidity community! It has been couple of months since i started using ethereum network and bsc and i am completely astonished by the whole tech. So much so, that i would like to quit my embedded c programming job and start my evm programming carrier.

I think in one month or so i should be ready to begin with this. Can you navigate me / give me some tips on how to start my journey? What materials, literature, any companies looking for beginners full of enthusiasm? Are there maybe some solidity developers who could share their "how i started" story?

Thank you very much!

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Heidegger's notion of anxiety allows us to step outside our familiar involvements and reorient our relationship to our choices. Mostly ignored by cognitive science, this essay seeks to naturalize anxiety, explore how it squares with computational and functional theories of mind medium.com/science-and-ph…
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Representative Ilhan Omar: β€˜I Hope President Biden Seizes This Opportunity’ β€” The president-elect has a once-in-a-generation opportunity to reorient US foreign policy so this country truly means what it says. thenation.com/article/wor…
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Nine activists murdered by police in Bloody Sunday raids in the Philippines: Looking to prevent organized unrest, Duterte has used anti-Communism to reorient the war on drugs to target political dissent. wsws.org/en/articles/2021…
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Just installed the z63 and it’s pushing up against my ram is this angle ok or do I need to reorient?
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Request: Immediately reorient map on death.

Basically, title.

Nothing tilts me more in this game than dying, going to ping an enemy in showers, and the map spinning just as I click leaving my ping somewhere between heaven and Australia...

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Before ONEUS and LOONA's next comebacks force me to reorient everything, I thought I'd share my current collection setup
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HELP. Looking for Free tool to Reorient 360 video

Hi All, I am using a Mi Sphere and would like to reorient the starting angle of my 360 video. I dont do Pro work so I would like to find a free tool for the job.

My current Workflow is as follows:

  1. Download Video .MP4 file in double fisheye format directly from microsd card to a Windows PC

  2. I use a Mi Sphere Windows App to convert the video to equirectangular format. Unfortunately, I cant find options to reorient the angle.

I downloaded the free version DaVinci Resolve 17 but found that the PanoMap option is not available in the free version.

I only plan to post on Facebook but I cant seem to do it there during posting either.

Would appreciate any recommnedations. Thanks!

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After migrating to North America, it takes a while for Australian geese to reorient themselves
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Gliding ants β€” the only wingless insects known to actively direct their fall β€” were first observed 2004 outside Iquitos, Peru; the ants basically reorient their bodies toward the tree; falling at a high velocity, frequently bounce off the trunk but they just make a 180 degree turn and try again;
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America's government sees teachers as babysitters -- they get paid teenage wages to watch the kids while Mom & Dad go work in the minimum wage job factory. We need to reorient, reinvest in American education, & raise the damn minimum wage!
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Reorient the Contemporary Indian Mindset for Civilisational and Social Recovery: Sri Dharampal dharmadispatch.in/dispatc…
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Nine activists murdered by police in Bloody Sunday raids in the Philippines: Looking to prevent organized unrest, Duterte has used anti-Communism to reorient the war on drugs to target political dissent.

This is the best tl;dr I could make, original reduced by 87%. (I'm a bot)


> Police in the Philippines executed nine unarmed activists, whom they accused of being "Communist terrorists," in a series of pre-dawn raids conducted on Sunday morning.

> The police killings, which are now being referred to in the press as "Bloody Sunday," took place two days after President Rodrigo Duterte delivered a speech in which he instructed the military and police to "Kill all communists and don't mind human rights."

> Under the rule of terror now exercised by Duterte, allegations of unarmed resistance are enough of a pretext to warrant summary execution by the police.

> The trigger for the simultaneous executions of Sunday morning was a speech delivered by Duterte on Friday in the city of Cagayan de Oro.

> On February 28, the week before the events of Bloody Sunday, Sison delivered an online lecture to Anakbayan in which he told his audience of young activists, "The best thing that can happen for the revolution is for Duterte to impose fascist dictatorship on the people. He'll be finished in one or two years."

> In response to the Bloody Sunday massacre, CPP chief information officer, Marco Valbuena, published a statement that "The targets of Duterte's state terrorism can be absorbed by NPA units or provided safe haven within the NPA's guerrilla base areas."


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Pro tip: You can press and hold B to start running immediately. Tutorial is a little unclear on this. You can also quickly tap ZL to quickly reorient the camera behind you. Here's a quick comparison video. (Haven't seen this mentioned anywhere. Apologies if it has been) v.redd.it/gedq1bvt0e361
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