Hi all,
I've got to plan a bucks party for my brother in early October. Any good clean ideas?
My sister is getting married this year and her Fiance's bucks party is in a few weeks. I'm honestly touched he invited me and he's a great guy (will be honoured to call him my brother in law) but my paranoid side keeps getting the best of me. I can't help but feel he only invited me because he felt obligated so he wouldn't seem transphobic.
But the main thing is my whole family including my fiance is very athletic while I've always been the odd one out being more a creative type. I can't get the image out of my head of all of his friends at the bucks as well as my brother and dad bonding over the cricket and I'll be sitting there awkwardly. I always feel like I have to be a PR person for the trans community when I hang out with cis people who know I'm trans because I'm scared if they have a bad experience with me it'll alter their overall stance on trans rights. I'm not really feminine but I'm also not the sterotypical masculine man so I'm worried the other guys will have any biases about trans men confirmed because I care more about music than sport.
There's also other factors that won't help, I'm about a decade younger than my sister and her fiance so I'm already going to struggle to relate to a bunch of dudes in their late 20s/early 30s and vice versa.
Ultimately I know this is the ramblings of mad man but I can't help getting stuck in my own head.
Been sober only since start of 2022, but I survived a bucks party completely sober - alcohol and cocaine everywhere. Barely any peer pressure due to a great group of people even though I was super anxious about it, you just have to be strong ! Alcohol and cocaine was my absolute favourite combination, but as long as you have the mindset there it's so easy, can now go to sleep knowing I will feel awesome tomorrow.
Stay strong to your word and don't cave, sometimes avoiding the environment is the #1 priority of course but it is possible !
Take it easy everyone :D
EDIT: Bucks = Bachelor party
113-108 big 🏆 sorry Giannis
You’re old mate is getting married next year. When thinking about a bucks party I think of the things I love whiskey, friends, steak and a league.
So any thoughts how a group of 15 can enjoy a match together. Thinking of going to a hone game or away game I just want everyone to enjoy themselves
Wowww…so this is where we’re at huh, Hot Cheeto scalpers 😂
But I guess I just have to be realistic about these things.
Hey guys,
Helping organise a bucks weekend for a good mate. Any recommendations on places in NSW? Originally, we were looking at Sydney for early next year but have decided to go elsewhere. Main thing we would like to do a pub crawl. So any recommendations on locations on places or accommodation would be greatly appreciated. Cheers
