Power and Control Wheel for LGBT Relationships, the "Normal" Power and Control Wheel, and the Post Separation Power and Control Wheel. If you recognize these in a relationship, that relationship is/was likely abusive. reddit.com/gallery/nkhe35
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πŸ‘€︎ u/peterthephoenix16
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Power and Control Wheel for LGBT Relationships, the "Normal" Power and Control Wheel, and the Post Separation Power and Control Wheel. If you recognize these in a relationship, that relationship is/was likely abusive. reddit.com/gallery/nkhe35
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Different Ways An Abusive Partner Can Use Power And Control To Manipulate A Relationship.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/A-rip-threw-time
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Absolute abuse of power. This is the mentality of individuals with controls over what 300,000 people saw. This is not right, this is abusive power mentality, no mod has the power over 300,000 people. End this abuse of power
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Power and Control Wheel- It's amazing the similarities between a relationship with God and an abusive relationship imgur.com/kdYpj
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"Do not put your healing on hold for the magic words that you think will fix everything. Waiting for that apology puts all the power on the abusive parents. You are making their words the ones that will free you from the past and heal your pain. You are giving them entirely too. much. control."

Veronica Jarski, adapted from Even When Abusive Parents Apologize, They Don't (slight religious focus)

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when you take control of your life and leave an abusive relationship
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Stepping off the Power and Control Wheel in an abusive relationship freedomwithinsite.wordpre…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Mkittysnightmare
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Blue lives don’t exist. You’re not β€œborn” a cop. You have control over that. The slogan itself makes zero sense because it only exists to support trigger-happy officers who go around abusing their power and killing people, especially Black people. twitter.com/Fiorella_im/s…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Inuma
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I believe this sums up spiritual abuse pretty succinctly. Spiritual abuse is when spiritual leaders abuse their power and spiritual ideas to create a toxic culture of shame and control to fulfill their own desires. How many here know they've been victims of this?
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πŸ‘€︎ u/nakedpastor
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[Donovan Mitchell] This is terrible! He should be fired and not be allowed to coach again! How are you gonna tell a kid that you control his future because he wants to transfer! Some people abuse their power over young athletes and it is sad! Make sure everyone knows his name too MIKE WOODBURY!

https://twitter.com/spidadmitchell/status/1058048599869669376

This is in regards to the video of the HS basketball coach in Florida verbally abusing one of his players. Its making national news.

https://www.si.com/high-school/2018/10/31/nation-christian-academy-mike-woodbury-rant-marvens-petion-high-school-basketball-haiti

https://www.cbssports.com/college-basketball/news/prep-school-owner-threatens-transferring-player-in-profanity-filled-rant-i-control-where-you-go-next/

I played for Woody in high school when he was still in Maine. Dudes a nut. Never witnessed anything to this extent though. Although he did make me miss the 2013 afc championship game, which I had taped, and then spoiled it for me when the Pats lost.

Link to the full video (Warning: Lots of profanity)

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The Hospital That Held a City Hostage: The infuriating saga of UPMC, Pittsburgh’s abusive, profit-hungry hospital giant, is a cautionary tale. The lesson? Private economic power must be subjected to democratic control. jacobinmag.com/2018/09/pi…
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The Hospital That Held a City Hostage: The infuriating saga of UPMC, Pittsburgh’s abusive, profit-hungry hospital giant, is a cautionary tale. The lesson? Private economic power must be subjected to democratic control. jacobinmag.com/2018/09/pi…
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DRS is simply taking ownership of your own property. I paid for my shares and want them under MY name, not a broker’s street name. Computershare allows YOU to control your destiny. The choice is yours. Power to the Players! πŸ™ŒπŸ’ŽπŸš€πŸŒ•β™Ύ v.redd.it/h9rjgdigdvr71
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Naive_Way333
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[WP] All you've ever wanted was to be feared and rule the world but every villainous act you commit backfires. Steal candy from a baby? Poisoned candy, baby saved. Steal the baby? Abusive parents. Threw a woman off a building? Push she needed to unlock her powers of flight, she's now your sidekick.
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Any idea why my dad has been physically abusive all my life and my mom emotionally abusive? I'm 20 but they want me to come back and live with my greataunt after college, when I want to live by myself to escape their control of me. Also my mom's side of the family bullied me?

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πŸ‘€︎ u/VIILarissa
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My gf's dad is very abusive towards her mom and controls every aspect of her life and she is thinking of getting a divorce but she doesn't know how to do it. (England)

I'm writing this post for my girlfriend as she doesn't have a reddit account so she's asked me to post this for her.

TL:DR: My gf's mom (59F) and dad (60M) have been married for 25 years and he has become abusive towards her mom and controls all aspects of her life. Her mom started drinking to cope with the abuse and she's very unwell mentally and physically. She wants a divorce but she doesn't know what to do as she has no income and feels dependant on him.

"My mom and dad have been married for over 25 years. Over the years my dad has become very abusive towards her and it keeps getting worse. She suffers from emotional abuse every single day. He calls her names, runs her down, screams at her over anything she does, etc. He also has full control over her as she doesn’t have a job and my dad is the main income of the house. My dad had an affair with my mom after I was born and they decided not to split up because of me. She also found out he's been with other people along the years. From all this abuse and the affair, she’s been drawn to alcohol to deal with the pain and now she’s very unwell mentally and physically. Because my mom is an alcoholic and has no job, my dad has taken full control over her financially. She has no money unless my dad gives it to her for food shopping and everything else she owns is controlled by him. There’s also been times where he’s been physically abusive. My mom would like to get a divorce but she feels like she’s trapped, doesn’t know what to do, and has no money. As I’m only 19 years old, I also don’t know what to do about the situation. How would she go about getting a divorce without any income?"

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My MFLB Portable Power with Temp Control Build! Album with a quick and dirty DIY in comments! I like this better than my desktop, Dynavap, or Stempod Si!
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My mom has always been verbally abusive and a control freak, but she has never threatened to physically hurt me. I'm kind of scared. I live with her part-time, luckily this only happened over text and I won't see her for over a week. My dad told me to screenshot it, and I chose to post it too. reddit.com/gallery/iqzv8b
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Embarrassed_Alex
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Airbnb host gets a guest with an aggressive, out of control "service dog". Despite bending themselves backwards to accommodate them, the guest leaves a very negative review, asks for a refund and accuses LAOP of discrimination. LAOP gets great advice on how to turn the tables on their abusive guest. np.reddit.com/r/legaladvi…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/DPMx9
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Just because a cult leader died doesn't change the fact that they used their power to propogate abusive ideas and continued a controlling corporation based on fairy tales that rejects evidence, punishes truth seekers, and contributes to youth suicides.
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"But I gave you so much!" On emotionally abusive parents and "giving". When giving becomes a part of their self-worth, it easily becomes control.

One thing I've struggled with is that my emotionally abusive mother has given me a lot. A LOT. Not only financially but she put in a ton of time and effort into giving me opportunities growing up. That I will acknowledge. So I often have a hard time with guilt.

From her perspective, this was love. Nevermind how she would get annoyed at me when I asked her to stop hurting me with emotional abuse. She never did it intentionally, but most emotional abusers aren't doing it intentionally.

So what exactly was going on? Why is it that even though she gave me so much and genuinely believed this was love, it always felt like poisoned gifts? I want to re-iterate, she was not intentionally malicious or manipulative. But she still was.

Here's what it is: her giving me stuff was attached to her self-worth. Not consciously, but it was. She genuinely thought she was doing it out of love but she had no insight to see that she was hitching her self-worth wagon to those gifts, as well as my appreciation/reactions.

Her "giving" was her simplistic way of believing that she was a good person. Was it ever about me? Yes but only in that I was a tool. I was a necessary tool for her to give stuff to, so she could feel self-worth. It was not conscious but you could tell because if my reaction was less than ideal she would take it like a blow to her self-worth.

And that sets off a chain reaction of her feeling shame, fear, worthlessness, which turns into trying to shut down and destroy the "cause" of these feelings which is of course...me. My reaction. So it becomes anger at me, and her becoming the victim.

And that is control through manipulation of my emotions and my want to be a good person and feel loved by my mother. It was especially control since she was the all-powerful parent and I was the powerless child.

And if you're doubly lucky (/s), she's also codependent, which means the more you try to make her feel better by slapping on a smile when she gives you things, the more her damaged inner child will give you things (which always have her self-worth hitched to them). And you as the child see your mother happy and see that she says more supposedly loving things to you, and voila, codependent relationship with your emotionally abusive mother, all under the guise of "what a great mother she is because she gives you so much", and the world sees just that line in the quotations and doesn't see the rest of the context.

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My grandma has been my siblings and I’s legal guardian since my mom died in 2016. My dad is an alcoholic, abusive, narcissist who can’t handle the fact that he’s no longer in control and finally decided to fuck off. Yeehaw!
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I am an advocate for ceiling gang. I was protesting peacefully and respectfully against the hate of ceiling gang. Only to get silenced by the ones in control. This is Felix's admins on HIS discord abusing power on freedom of speech .
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NYT, desperate to control the narrative of John Durham's investigation into the Obama Administration's abuses of power and spying on the GOP Presidential Campaign and Donald Trump. But it doesn't matter how hard they spin - The truth is coming out. nytimes.com/2020/02/13/us…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Gnome_Sane
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So I told a friend my abusive ex basically assaulted me to get me pregnant, and she blamed me for β€œnot taking precautions” by being on birth control.

Like I mentioned, my ex sexually abused me, and got me pregnant when I tried breaking up with him. I was venting to my friend about my mix of emotions about putting up the baby for adoption and dealing with the fact that my brother just announced he has a kid on the way. I have too many complicated emotions right now to bore you all with, but it is hard to think about someone close to you having a kid and being happy about it meanwhile I’m miserable about being pregnant and losing my baby.

I was venting about all of this to a (female) friend who happens to know my ex, and while she said what he did to me sounds horrible, she still said my unhappiness is my fault since I didn’t take the precaution of getting on the pill. In the situation I was in at the time I wasn’t thinking I needed to be on the pill. Long story short, he just showed up after not seeing each other for a month. She thinks he can somehow change himself or something, and that I should give the baby to this horrible man who abused me. She actually thinks I should give him another shot, and apparently all this is my fault anyway for not being on the pill when I didn’t know I would even need to be on it.

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As the last remaining people with any logic leave and abandon BCH and their new dev tax system, the community and market for that coin becomes less resistant to dev takeover and abuse. The community becomes more brokeback and enslaved, the dictators gain more control and power. twitter.com/cryptorebel_S…
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Power and Control Wheels. reddit.com/gallery/q8s2u0
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Jamie and Beth are in an abusive relationship. Full stop. I do not understand why this is allowed to continue. They are both at fault here. The yelling, name calling, threatening to leave, control around sex, etc. Like, wtf?! Why is this still going on?!
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πŸ‘€︎ u/spacecoyote2014
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manny’s professor boyfriend was an ugly verbally abusive piece of shit. i don’t get why manny would be with someone like that. none of manny’s friends liked him. he did everything in his power to tear her down. i wish there was a scene where manny stood up to him and gained her confidence.
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Almost 2 years ago (was 18). I cut off my parents after a very long argument. They got me kicked out from my own place that I paid for, and were incredibly emotionally abusive. They had complete control over me and my girlfriend was helping me out of it. They didn’t like the loss of control. imgur.com/a/iXzEOVA/
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πŸ‘€︎ u/UnexchangeableRub
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Bernie FULLY DEMOLISHES the "Bernie Bro" myth: "Do you know how many supporters we have?...2 and a half million I think...and no campaign can control 2 and a half million people...and often our African American women leaders are receiving incredibly ugly and abusive responses..." twitter.com/WinkleBerns/s…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/bout_that_action
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The Oath Rod is used to prevent(control) people like Egwene from Abusing their powers

On my re-read now. In chapter 32(Summoned in Haste) of "Lord of Chaos", there is a scene where Egwene wants to milk more abilities from others as usual, from the Sea Folk. They understandably push her off, and deny permission thinking she's Aes Sedai in disguise. She then uses the OP to lift and drop into the river. But when they don't scream like she did, she tries again, lifting them as high as her ability could. Then she is frustrated when they don't scream while falling.

This scene disturbed me for variety of reasons, mainly:

  • Using the OP to abuse others.
  • Glaring at the boatman that pulled her out, then ordering him to shore. And leave without even thanking him?

I know there are many Hate posts about Egwene, but this scene convinced me that there needs to be many more.

What is your favorite, "Egwene is the epitome of people abusing their power " moment ?

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πŸ‘€︎ u/AkhilSundaram
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NYT, desperate to control the narrative of John Durham's investigation into the Obama Administration's abuses of power and spying on the GOP Presidential Campaign and Donald Trump. But it doesn't matter how hard they spin - The truth is coming out. nytimes.com/2020/02/13/us…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Gnome_Sane
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twitter libs have taken people to trial by media fire for making bad taste edgelord jokes on twitter at like age 14, fucking years ago , and then want their consensual of-age sexual experiences that didn't work out to be legitimatized as abusive imbalances of power when they were like 23.

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