i (17f) turn 18 this year, and have been planning what tattoos i want to get for my 18th birthday. one of the tattoos i wanted is a butterfly tattoo.
for some reason, butterfly tattoos have a semi-bad rep (or at least, they do within my age group) and are often thought to be the type of tattoos that "whores" get(???) but i always wanted a butterfly tattoo because a good friend of mine drew a butterfly on my arm with gel pen and i really liked it.
so, i found the picture i took of my arm with said gel pen drawing and sent it to my friend (who has a tattoo gun) (17m), and told him i wanted to recreate this drawing as my first tattoo. his response was, and this is an exact quote:
"LMAOOO only thots get butterfly tattoos tho"
which threw me off because a) no one says thot anymore and b) the misogynistic text. i replied to him and told him "nvm lmao i won't ask for your opinon on my tats anymore" and he got mad and said he was "saving [me]" for "branding myself as a whore" ??? to which i then said that he's a "stupid little bitch boy whose sexist opinions won't matter in the real world" and that he can go fuck himself, essentially. he stopped responding to me after that but his (our) other friends started texting me and asking me why i went off on him. when i showed the screenshots to them, everyone said i was in the right but the majority said i overreacted and should have been calmer about it but idk.
this is the first time he's ever said something like this but i was so thrown off, and i could have just not responded to him or sent the picture to another friend. AITA?
EDIT: i should probably clarify that i didn't want him to give me a tattoo HAHA, i only added he has a tattoo gun because he's given our other friends tattoos and knows about tattoo designs and stuff. his sister owns a parlor but i would've gone to someone else for a tattoo
Words of wisdom from my maternal grandmother:
Just remember that the Y chromosome is a genetic defect.
The date I was supposed to go on today ain't happening because even though the guy suggested that we go out today, he texted me yesterday that he was out of town today.
Dating is dumb.
I know barbie's for girls, maybe I'm missing out on what boys grew up watching as well, but barbie is just so engraved in my childhood.
Sperm has either a X or Y chromosome, and a chromosome is made out of DNA. If a sperm fertilized a egg has a X Chromosome, The baby will be a boy, and vice versa.
So should Percy have been a girl? Since he only inherited his Mothers DNA and not his fathers.
I know very little about this type of things, So explain to me like I have never taken science class before.
this has been done to fill the void. the gay void in my heart. why cant i sleep. help
As a guy, I will tell you, nobody ever teaches men to rape. Men don't rape. Psychopaths and power hungry maniacs do, most of whom happen to be men. And you know very well that such people can't be reasoned with. The overwhelming majority of guys have never and will never even think about raping a woman, and to tell "teach boys and men not to rape" is an extreme man-hating simplification of a very multi-dimensional problem that has it's core genesis in power-hungry psychopaths. Rather than understand that rape is not a gendered problem, rather a power struggle, many people simply resort to oversimplified hateful statements like this.
Ik u lot from a different states / countries / continents, but i’m a male, and in my area i can barely befriend someone. plus, i ain’t ever been part of “the boys” since everyone here is out for luxury, girls and some other tings. so i basically take my shi to reddit and was wondering if the boys here have each other’s backs (cus i sometimes come here for advice from the guys mostly)? (emphasis on the “stupid question”)
I have a quick question.I am a 17,5 year old girl and i am in a pretty "big" friend. group of 19 people, ofc i have only like 5 actual friends from that group but anyways .I and my best friend were in a call with some guys (they are part of the friend group ) and we were talking. about random things , and my bff had an emergency and had to leave , so they guys immediately turned the convo sexual.we started. talking about kinks and after some times they brought up fingering.
I am a pretty flirty/sensual person in general so i was okay with the whole convo...BUT one of they guys that is friends ex , asked me if i have ever had sex , given head etc. I was kinda shocked at this point , so i just told that i have gotten fingered and given head .They started saying things like , "did he put. two fingers in?" and they guy that is still friends with my ex , had the audacity to say "yes, her ex told me, his fingers went in pretty easily"
I have always been insecure about how loose or how tight my vagina is , I have been doing kegels, squads , everything and i can put my ring and my middle finger in with no pain or problem, and since the call and the fact that they said that" i might be not tight enough" , and "too loose " , i have been extremely insecure ...
Sorry for the long post , i am just really confused if i am too loose or nah ... i have never had sex and when i masturbate i only use one finger and its fine , i don't feel it loose or anything , its one finger after all , but i usually do squeeze my vagina walls(idk who do describe it? , like a kegel?) bc it feels better that way ...again sorry for the long post , and thank you so much for taking the time to read this shit of a post:)
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