Remember ladies, men are not infants. They have object permanence. If a man knows of your existence, likes you, and has the drive to pursue, he will. Stop being available to online chat all day, stop texting him first, stop "dropping by," stop trying to get your friends to set you up.
That is all. 🙂
It would have been interesting if she and maybe her classmates turned up for an episode in season 4. The initiative could have used them to trya and capture buffy.
I used to rely heavily on song and artist “radio” playlists to find new music. This just doesn’t work anymore. Is it me? Is there something i can do to get Spotify to give me different music?
I got bored yesterday and stuffed pants and a shirt with random objects to make a dummy and sat it on the lounge (fainting couch). I used a plushy for the head.
I crossed its legs to give myself a break from holding my cat. She is a lap baby and won’t leave if you need to eat or use the restroom. Well, she didn’t end up liking the fake lap dummy (not warm enough, probably) and I forgot to take the dummy apart.
Well you know with ADHD object permanence is an issue.
I scared myself so many times before the night was up every time I saw it.
Every time I looked away I forgot it was there and out of my peripherals I would see it as a threat. My partner asked me if I was alright several times and I had to reply “It’s just that dummy again.” I was making a craft house for awhile and really zoned into it. I stood up, turned around and screamed this time.
Honestly it was kind of a funny experiment but I was done being stressed out so I took it apart.
It reminds me of when I had a big enough space to decorate for Halloween. All of my props scared the crap out of me daily because I forgot they were there. During lockdown I’ve been a lot more sensitive to sudden movements or unfamiliarity.
I was not sure if anybody else has posted about this before but I noticed it and wanted to mention it.
I hate all of my ADHD symptoms equally because really they all suck. But one of the worst things about having ADHD is the out of sight out of mind symptoms.
It's annoying and irritating when friends or family members complain that I've "forgotten" about them and don't care about them anymore. I feel awful and guilt-tripped a lot of the time, but I can't control it because of my ADHD. a lot of it also has to do with my own friends and things I love because I immediately stop thinking about something if it's not in my sight or I neglect it if it's not in sight.
This one symptom has made me mess up on so many occasions like taking care of my cat even though I love her more than anything. I even completely forget to do work not because it's not important or I didn't mark it down but cause' I haven't seen it in front of me in so long. It's also so hard to maintain friendships and relationships without being able to see them, on top of that I'm an introvert.
Can anyone relate? ://
https://clyp.it/veqn4204?token=217b9ae21b4dc1d571a4b323c4ab472a
Originally Dustin posted a teaser of the song. Eventually we got a 90 second iTunes teaser. IPsylon then combined the teasers to make a 2 minute version. From there, I combined IPsylon's version with the full version of the song, including the intro and the second verse onward. The only affected part of the song is the first verse, but I thought it sounded really cool, admittedly better than the official version, so I wanted to share it. It's best listened to with headphones unless you have really good speakers. Enjoy!
Edit: also just realized I posted this on the wrong subreddit. Oh well. I might post it on r/MNQN later
Edit 2: this version is actually why I rate the song so highly in the album. I really dislike one of the sound effects in the bridge (also in Zombie) because it doesn't change pitch and is just overly loud and repetitive. That sound effects alone nearly kills both songs for me, especially in Zombie. But the first verse sounding so awesome is enough for me to like the song. I just either restart it or skip it once it gets to the bridge honestly.
So I know the concept of out of sight out of mind probably isn't foreign to most of you, but I'm wondering if anyone else experiences it like I do. For me it applies to literally everything, especially people. If I haven't seen someone in 2-3 days, regardless of how much I care about them, I basically forget they exist.
It's made it pretty hard for me to maintain relationships with family and friends because they think that I don't care about them, when in reality they've just completely slipped my mind. Telling them this obviously won't help my case, so I normally just make up a stupid excuse.... but eventually people get tired of feeling like they're in a one-sided relationship. I normally don't even notice a friendship has drifted until the person randomly pops into my head long after the damage has been done.
I find that being an awful texter definitely doesn't help either... I procrastinate replying until it's wayyy too late to respond and it would make more sense to just not reply. Since I also rarely text first due to the whole out of sight out of mind thing, I really come off like I don't care about them, which isn't usually true.
Due to coronavirus and school being cancelled I don't see my friends anymore. I'm in my final year of undergrad, so it'll be a lot harder to get my friend group together after everything passes. I'm sad that I'll probably lose a bunch of friends even though it's fully preventable.
I know there are bigger problems in the world right now, but I wanted to share and see if anyone else feels like this or if there's a different underlying issue here lol
My ADHD boyfriend (24m) and I(24f) have been dating for around a year now and we just started doing long distance...it's driving distance, but with our schedules we can see each other only once a week or so...and he sucks at texting ugh. It's almost as if, if I don't text, he doesn't remember that I exist. Like I don't ask for much but it's so frustrating especially when you're not going to get to see each other. He doesn't forget his other hobby that he's hyperfocused on, but not the girl he is in love with.
I guess I just wanna know if you guys have had similar experiences too and if you have any advice on how to solve it. Or maybe I just needed to rant to people who actually know what it's like.
Name: out of sight out of mind
Namesake: the song of the same name by crusher-p
Appearence: n/a
Ability: movement based invisibility (makes the user invisible to normal eyes as long as there not being directly looked at)
Weakness: none notable
Rankings=========
Destructive power: E
Speed: E
Range: E
Precision:E
Durability: A
Potential: C
From his book Booker T: My Rise to Wrestling Royalty.
Edit: I posted this as I reminded of this quote when Emma got released. I think that injury early in her second main roster run more than anything.
Same can be said with Neville, when that 2016 injury took him out of that WM match probably, and left him off the card for a bit.
Why do people try to keep old friendships alive? I just can't get over this feeling that because of social media, too many people are trying to hold on to relationships and connections that just don't have any reason to be alive anymore. If you've moved away, or we no longer to go to the same school, or work at the same place, or have a reason to stay in touch, etc, anymore then what's the point?
I have just had someone I was friends with contact me and want to catch up over Christmas. They moved away a while ago and we haven't really kept in touch. As far as I am concerned, we don't really have a connection anymore and I am also pretty busy right now. So just because I am not willing to drop everything (work, graduate school applications, etc) and come hang with you, I am a bad person??? It wouldn't even occur to me to reach out to them if I was ever in their city. I genuinely just don't want to. I don't even know what I would say to them if we did hang out. We have nothing in common anymore.
Sometimes the only reason you're friends with someone is because of the circumstances you were both in at the time. I just wish more people would realise this and stop trying to force these things to continue.
Do you think of people only when they are within your sight?
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