when i was still in highschool and even middle school i always saw teenage boys kiss and make out with these really attractive girls in the school hallway and staircases and even outside of school.
i always told myself that it would happen to me eventually... but it never did.
i graduated high school not long ago without ever experiencing teenage romance or sex.
i cant help but feel so bitter, inferior, angry, and even envious towards the teenage boys who manage to experience what i could not...
i just dont know why i failed...
Sorry I'm new. I don't know if this is the right subreddit.
Is kissing and handholding haram or halal in a relationship before marriage? I feel like that would strengthen a bond in a relationship and I've seen other muslims do it, but I don't know.
Thanks!
EDIT: Okay, thanks for the replies. I'll listen to you all.
Had to repost this cause the title was a spoiler my mistake
I’ve read the manga and watched the anime up to date but I’m very curious about something. Also I think some things might have gone over my head so please let me know if im wrong cause I low key don’t think I completely understand the story of attack on titan. When eren kissed historias hand and saw the future that was going to play out, why didn’t he just do the opposite of what his future self was going to do? Unless he actually did want to commit mass genocide. Or did eren just want to die so that way his friends would be seen as the heroes of humanity? I know he says that in the last chapter but It kinda seems like that’s all really unnecessary. I feel like I’m missing some things. Can anyone make it clear for me to understand?
Do you all kiss before or after officializing girlfriend/boyfriend relationship status? Same question for holding hands. Same question but replace gf/bf status with the talk of being exclusive, before becoming official (let me know if this step is the same for you). What is your advice if I want to take it slowly and he is already ready for more physical intimacy (had a few dates, haven’t talked exclusivity yet)? Also, how many dates or how many weeks in should you talk exclusivity? Thank you!!
None of you will ever see it
Hah
Hes a clinger. I get that. Thats not a problem. I have no problem cuddling with him and SS5. The problem comes whenever he holds my hand, in a store, in a parking lot, anywhere you would normally hold a child's hand his lips become permanently attached to my hand! SO did it once in front of him when we first got together 6 months ago. I'll be sitting at the table eating or talking and SS7 runs up and kisses my hand. It stopped being cute the second time he did it. We've told him countless times to stop doing it. Im at the point I'm ready to put hot sauce on my hands.
Last week he came up behind me while I was washing dishes and groped my butt. His dad has never done that around them. You know how a kid is being a lil stinker and you jokingly and softly pat their rear end as a joke? SO does that with them, I don't, but SS7 full on copped a feel and said my butt was pretty. BM is completely out of the picture and it was just me, SO, and SS7 at home after a dr appointment. SS5 was at the store with mammaw and pawpaw. Neither of us found it funny and SS7 was put in time out and lost his tablet for 3 hours. We told him he touched someone without asking and that's why he was punished.
He has autism and can't read. We honestly don't know if he understands what he did or If it was truly innocent. He knows about consent. He used to latch on for cuddles but now he knows to 1) ask for cuddles/hug/kiss and 2) wait for a yes before proceeding. For about a week or two when SO and I first met he kept trying to kiss my lips because "daddy does" but hes stopped doing that since we drilled into him lip kisses are only for adults.
But the kissing my hand! It never stops! And hes so sloppy and so much saliva! I don't do kid goo! It's so gross!!! Hes had a cold so I'm constantly on alert lest I end up with a snot covered hand!
🤯 any and all advice appreciated!
The only thing I felt after that was a hand piercing my flesh and grasping my spine.
Tell us about it
I love his hands SO MUCH
Sorry if this has been asked before. Feel free to delete.
Hello all. I was diagnosed 3 years ago and I started seeing someone two weeks ago (lets call her Jane) who does not have hsv. I disclosed immediately when asking them out. I've read the H handbook and long story short, I kissed her on the hand and behind the ear. I was not showing any symptoms of an outbreak, but I know I can't rule out shedding. Jane's skin on both areas did not have any open wounds. Her step mom told her that " you can get herpes by letting someone kiss your cheek", which caused Jane to freak out, blame me for not telling her that (even though i explained all the information that i got from the H handbook involving transmission and shedding), and just cut me off.
Now, I'm not looking for validation as to what I did, I'm not looking to screenshot this and send it to them. I just want to know, what exactly (or about) are the chances that I gave it to them based on this? I see it as very low...I dont want to say 0%, but I genuinely believe its low. Imo, they're freaking out a bit too much but you know, that's their right I suppose...can't force someone onto this. I respect it.
Both kisses were with consent. Idk, should probably mention that.
He smiled seductively as she crept to the bottom of the bed - and then began to panic, as she produced the iPad playing the sex tape he'd recorded with her sister.
I'm (22F) having a second irl date (chatting online for 4 months) with this guy (24M) soon. He has been the one to initiate asking for dates, hugging, and asking important questions. I need to start being more assertive and being the first, this is something we have spoken about.
If the date goes well I'm thinking of maybe going in for a kiss or just simply hold his hand at least lol. However, I'm really worried I might overstep my mark causing him to be uncomfortable.
How do you know when it's okay to kiss a guy? When and what situation is it okay to hold his hand?
We sneak away to the rooftop at the company holiday party... I'm super shy and giggly as you give me your jacket, caress my fingers, and give me a Christmas present... Surprise first kiss at the end... I've been wanting to explore you, too... listen here
How do y'all feel about hand-kissing (i.e., a back-of-the-hand m'lady kind of kiss) on a date? I was reading through answers on AskWomen about how women attracted to men find it to be major cringe when a man tries it on them (I'm a bi woman, I think I'd find it cringe if a man tried it on me) BUT I may or may not have casually done a hand-kiss on a date I had recently (not a first date, maybe that matters)--I thought it was fairly smooth, but I'm biased!! And she seemed to be flattered by it (though, who knows). It feels like a subversion of gender performance, which I am all for, but maybe it's cringe all around.
Just curious about other queer women's perspectives!
I have an appt with my psychiatrist tomorrow. This is the 3rd medication I’ve tried (after Effexor and trentellix). Is this just how life is now?
I found this one picture I was tagged in the comments in. I'm dying, so many clueless people in the comments, so many ignored "bro they're gay" comments... 2013 was magical.
That page has a lot of #totallynotagaycouplekissingonlybffshere but this one takes the cake.
How could we have been so blind to an obvious lesbian couple lmfao
Do you all kiss before or after officializing girlfriend/boyfriend relationship status? Same question for holding hands. Same question but replace gf/bf status with the talk of being exclusive, before becoming official (let me know if this step is the same for you). What is your advice if I want to take it slowly and he is already ready for more physical intimacy (had a few dates, haven’t talked exclusivity yet)? Also, how many dates or how many weeks in should you talk exclusivity? Thank you!!
when i was still in highschool and even middle school i always saw teenage boys kiss and make out with these really attractive girls in the school hallway and staircases and even outside of school.
i always told myself that it would happen to me eventually... but it never did.
i graduated high school not long ago without ever experiencing teenage romance or sex.
i cant help but feel so bitter, inferior, angry, and even envious towards the teenage boys who manage to experience what i could not...
i just dont know why i failed...
