A list of puns related to "Cold Feet (series 7)"
So at the start of December a partner of little over a year H and my flatmate/close friend P told me they had started to develop attraction to reach other and basically wanted my blessing in exploring it.
Beyond the timing being a bit bad (I had been dumped by one partner the day before they told me) I felt mostly ok about it but with a few concerns which I also told them about.
The main concern was that while I love my friend P, they are very chaotic in their romantic/sexual relationships. And I am afraid that if H and P has something it would turn chaotic and possibly put me in the position that the person I'm living with either is jealous of me, can't stand my partner or both. Or that I'd have to find another flatmate to mitigate that problem.
But it felt ok after voicing those concerns and P acknowledging that my concerns were valid.
Now last week, P is going to be living in another county for work for half a year and so last week P and H hubby out in our apartment to talk about how they wanted go about exploring while P was away.
Everything seemed ok up until the point that another friend M had come over and we all lay down to cuddle/watch an episode of the Witcher.
In the middle of the show P, who had been laying sponing M, got up and walked out the room, we asked if we should paus but they said we didn't need to.
It seemed a bit off but it was during a quite intense couple of scenes do I figured it may have been due to the sensory issues that P sometimes has.
When the show ended P went into the room again looking agitated and asked me "Are we ok?" I was taken by complete surprise and just said "Umm, yes? Of course?" And without elaborating P rushed out the room.
Then they stood and brushed their teeth still looking upset and slightly angry.
I asked them if they needed a hug or too be left alone or something else(which is something we do when the other is upset usually) they say they don't know and then goes outside for a while.
When they get back they are still upset but talks about feeling like I had replaced them when watching the series. (During the weeks prior me and P have been watching series together some evenings.)
I comforted P as best I could, I had been mentally exhausted the whole day and was already low on spoons so taking on the emotional responsibility for descalating this situation put me very squarely in the red.
The day after P didn't bring this up or acknowledge it, which felt bad as that made it once again fall on
... keep reading on reddit β‘I did get my thyroid checked also got blood work done and nothing out of the ordinary. I know Iβm pre diabetic and I also know I have a high lipoprotein a which causes my blood vessels to be calcified, I inherited that from my dad. I am also not obese never have been. Always did gymnastics and was always very sporty. Genuinely just wanted to know if others with pcos have this problem as well. Iβve met others who have told me they do so I was curious.
I have one admit and a couple of waitlist spots. Turns out I'm super worried about converting my waitlists into admits and absolutely terrified about the cost of the program I got into without $.
Anyone else in a similar boat? I have $40k in savings (seems laughable) and no other employer or family support. I understand the ROI, but wanted to hear current student & alum opinions on managing such huge debt. How big was your debt and how long did it take to pay off? Would you do it again if given a do over?
Other info - I earn $100k now in a SUPER low cost of living region. Like imagine the wild wild west and then make it poorer.
How do you guys combat this? Itβs the worst side effect for me and my hands and feet sometimes get so cold they hurt. Iβd say Iβm a very fit person so my circulation isnβt poor outside of taking adderall. Still canβt make it better though.
2 years ago, I would have lost my shit over an interview and chance to teachβ¦I still applied last year but my life is obviously not the same as it was in 2019 when I first applied. I have new relationships, better job standing, family getting older and at risk of possibly passing this year, among other things. I still love japan but I am also 3 years older than I was when I first applied, Iβm 34 now. I still want the experience of living in a foreign land but at my ageβ¦is it worth it? Will I be making a huge mistake? Leaving my family and friends, relationship for a year+. Whatβs funny is I didnβt even put as much effort into the application this time as I did the past 2 times, itβs basically the identical application I put in last yearβ¦but somehow it was accepted, go figure. I mean the pay isnβt what Iβm concerned about, not like Iβm making big bucks or anything, but Iβm wondering at my age, if and when I come back, wtf do I do lol? Iono anyone else older and feeling somewhat similar? Interview doesnβt mean a job so unless I pass the interview, Iβll have a decision to make.
Edit: wow thanks to all the comments! Thereβs a lot of uncertainty but I agree, I will regret not at least trying. As I have already signed up for the interview, Iβll do my best at it and let the pieces fall where they will. Thinking about living in a country that experiences all 4 seasons is exciting and living in a foreign land will help me grow. I wish luck to those interviewing. γγγ°γπ
Iβm a US university student starting a cleaning business catered for student apartments. I have my flyers and workers ready (they are university janitors with 10+ years of experience). Iβm emailing other complexes, but Iβve already gotten the OK from one apartment complex which owns two other sister complexes. They even offered to send an email to every single one of their tenants about the cleaning business for free. This could get me free marketing to 600-1800 students! So even if the turnout rate is small (which it very likely will be) the larger the audience the more customers Iβm likely to get. This is all very exciting, but Iβm so scared about legal trouble. What documents should I get before starting? I literally have no idea what to get or where to go, but Iβm worried of worse case scenario that someone accuses my company of nabbing something of theirs from their apartment. I just kinda hate this because I wanna start in one week from now and I was so excited, but now Iβm just scared of being in class one day and in jail the next.
I got on these damn postal issued shoes, two pairs of socks and my feet are freezing! What can I do? Iβve even got some heavy duty boots with the double lining in them and my toes still seem to never get warm.
Edit: Thanks everyone!
I am on mobile so I am sorry about the layout, also sorry about the grammar.
I just needed some advice, in less than a week I (25f) am getting married to the sweetest most thoughtful person (29m). Weβve been together for four years and leading up to this day weβve only ever had three massive fights, each time the topic has been his mother.
Each time he has spoken to her and weβve basically gone no contact with her β which is easy because sheβs not in the same state as us and he has seen her maybe once or twice since he moved countries at 18.
The last time we had an argument with her she bought me an expensive present as an apology. I said Iβd give her one last chance but if we ever had any children she wouldnβt be allowed near them. As harsh as it is I know she will make racist comments around them and the last thing I would want is them feeling ashamed about who they are.
Now with covid and restrictions, weddings are a bit tricky. Up until the start of last week she has been shrieking about how we should cancel the reception, and keep the ceremony as itβs not safe. Not only that but she started writing out her will and cleaning her house as sheβs expecting to die from it. I put my foot down and said no because we would lose the whole sum of the venue and as long as weβre taking all the precautions we should be okay. I was then made to be the villain and she asked if I valued money over family.
Cut to a few weeks later (this week) a lot of people have dropped out from fear and I received an opportunity of a life time that if I got covid I would have to forfeit. So we decided to keep the ceremony (because we can enforce masks and social distancing) and cancel the reception. She has now turned around and said I am horrible because I am not giving her and her friends who will travel a big party to celebrate and enjoy. She has also suggested I stay in the hotel alone in isolation and my partner party with her.
My partner has been so supportive of me, defending me this whole time and overall just being there for me. He knows I feel beyond stressed about this and is trying his best to help me. But I feel so hurt and broken, part of me is starting to get cold feet and just wants to run away from it all. But I know when weβre not in this situation and sheβs not around itβs the healthiest and happiest r
... keep reading on reddit β‘As the title might suggest, Iβve been hesitating lately on the idea of pursuing law. Iβve been accepted into a T14 school but I canβt help but feel anxious about the huge time and financial commitment that is law school. I am mostly deliberating on whether or not I should try to work in the CS industry. Iβm particularly concerned because my reasoning for pursuing law seems insufficiently strong: I enjoyed the few classes on law that I took in undergrad; I am a good test taker; and I find legal topics interesting. On the other hand, CS has always been something that interested me but I never settled down and pursued it properly. Unfortunately, it would similarly take a monumental effort to switch over to CS (my undergrad major is irrelevant to the field) but it would be less of a time and financial commitment. Switching to law after working a few years seems far more advisable than vice versa. I also find the work life imbalance and the substance abuse prevalent in the industry to be concerning.
Still, I canβt help but feel affected by various sunk cost fallaciesβthe time and resources I spent on admissions. There is also the uncertainty that I would be able to recreate a successful admissions season in the future given the rising medians. In the end, law may truly be my calling but at this point i hesitate to go all in.
TLDR: Not sure if I should attend T14 or do cs. If I do cs Iβll similarly be starting from scratch.
My partner (29M) and I (31F) are moving to KW in a few months-- I was initially really excited about the move, and we both know that it is the best decision for us and our future. I am also really excited about the job offer I received there, as it is my dream job. However in the last few weeks I have been getting cold feet about making the move. I thought I could reach out to reddit and hear what you all love about living in the Waterloo Region? What are some positives that I should be excited about, moving to Canada/KW from the US?
I know no place will be perfect, and have definitely seen some negative comments on other threads about life in KW, but since I am trying overcome my cold feet, I would love it if responses to this post stay on the positives/pros of life in KW!
EDIT: (context) We have lived all over the US but will be moving from California!
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I've been in negotiations for the last week on a fixer upper ranch for my first home. The seller agreed to write a check at closing for the quotes I gave them for some repairs for electrical and roof work.
Since I found out that they accepted, I've been panicking a little. Well, a lot. I'm getting cold feet and am finding a bunch of reasons why this house isn't for me anymore. Is this normal? I did make some compromises with this house but know I won't get the perfect home for my first one. It's a good sized house with a lot of potential, but I compromised on the neighborhood and the yard size. Either way, it's a huge step up from my one bedroom apartment and mortgage will be cheaper than my current rent.
I feel like I should be really excited about getting my first home, and I'm not. I can't tell if my gut is telling me to pass on this house or if my nerves are getting the best of me. Anyone been in a similar situation?? How did it go for you?
Hi all, I'm riding on my kickr core in an unheated garage, and it's FREEZING outside so the garage is pretty cold too. I literally can't use a fan because even though I'm sweating like a pig, as soon as i turn the fan on my body starts freezing and i can't continue. It's the weirdest feeling ever, being so overheated and yet so cold at the same time.
The biggest problem is my feet. I wear double socks and I have my bontrager bike shoes which are pretty tight fit, but my feet start getting so numb after about 20 minutes of riding because they're not moving at all.
What can I do? More socks don't help, and heating the garage isn't an option. I have a little space heater but if I place that next to my feet while riding the rest of my body will get way too overheated.
Basically, upper body needs cooled and feet need warmed.
I was thinking of getting those hot feet packs that heat up in your shoes, but I'm worried that the pack will damage my shoe somehow? There's not much room in between my feet and the shoe so I don't want the pack overheating and burning my feet or my shoes (or exploding and ruining the material)
Hey fellow sales professionals. I need some advice from the more seasoned guys and gals in this wonderful community.
So, as per the title, I'm having second thoughts about going through with an offer I've already verbally accepted at a non-sales, cushy office job.
For context: I am 23, recently employed as an SDR at a Series A startup, and making really good money for someone with my qualifications and little work experience outside of odd sales jobs. I'm currently doing just fine by working four or five hours a day, and my day-to-day is mind-numbingly repetitive. That being said, I like my team, I like the product, and my ideal career path would be to climb up the ladder, make mad money as a VP of Sales or C-level executive at a big tech company or startup, and then go on to become a VC investor.
I've, however, been recently offered an entry-level procurement position at one of my country's biggest companies. It is big enough that my family is incredibly happy for me, my friends are seriously impressed, and my college faculty teachers will likely approach me to do an interview and present me as a 'success story' to current students (I'm not exaggerating in the slightest, the last guy from my university who got this role went through that same exact experience)
The pay, of course, is a third of what I'm currently earning. Whatsmore, I'll have to move to another city (so my expenses will be high), it'll take years to get promoted, and the career path isn't something I'm crazy excited about. On the upside though, it is possible that this company will pay for my master's degree, it will look out-fucking-standing on my CV, I'll have some major job stability, and (in case I don't like where this job is taking me) I can see myself leveraging that experience in order to land some Enterprise SDR roles a few years down the line.
All that being said, I'm having second thoughts on making way less money and having to work on-site (I love the flexibility of my current gig), the fact that I'm straying from my original career plan, and the gnawing thoughts that this would deviate me from my personal life goals (making enough money to retire early, have tons of free time for my hobbies, and being able to travel whenever/wherever I want).
So my questions for you guys:
- (Given my age) Would you forego the money in order to land a stable role? If you've previously done so, have you found it to be a good trade-off?
- Do you think non-sales enterprise experience can
... keep reading on reddit β‘So im a female was thinking about joining, went through meps, got my basic training ship date, job secured, but I havenβt been to PT in about 2 months. Itβs partially because of family stuff and the fact that Iβve only been getting one day off a week for the past month.
I wanted to talk to my recruiter about it but Iβm been scared honestly. Iβm not sure what I should do about it? Anyone else experience this and can help?
So high earner living in Texas. Wife.... has many issues. Anorexia, anxiety, depression, OCD, etc. Never been comfortable around children. It feels very cold when she interacts with the children.
She has inheritance and is educated (JD). Runs her own business (though not making a ton with it).
Married 10 years now. I've basically tried to manage my career and raise the kids alone. We got close to separating around the holidays, where I got tired of being yelled at by her and put my foot down on somethings. Asked her to take a break and leave. She refused.
She's started seeing a therapist this month and has helped a little with the kids (I work nights, so she took my daughter to school for a week for the first time in 2 years).
I've started therapy for myself who calls my wife emotionally abusive.
Typical story is one that just happened this week ... She invited my parents over for our child's birth day. They came over 5 mins early (because she insisted they not be late). Insisted they stand outside in the cold so she could finish her dinner in peace. Once inside and did a birthday cake, she started pushing me to kick them out within 10 mins (they left after 20 mins). She disappeared once they left and got on the treadmill to run for 2 hours (she runs/walks around 40 miles a day). When she got off, she started screaming at me for reasons I still don't understand (I accidentally got in her way trying to take a photo ..). Said my parents were selfish, ignored her, sucked the air out of the house and made her feel uncomfortable in her own space. Turned into a 3 day event of her screaming and point out issues. Always saying that I'm not doing enough to push myself and hold up my end of the "bargain". Then demanded I agree to redoing our 3 year old kitchen, all new furniture, etc. That I don't give her any control. That she doesn't have any control in her life. Last year we did over 40k in home changes/renovations, etc.
I've said multiple times that she needs help. Reluctantly started with a psychiatrist over the summer and now a therapist.
She's tried to come out with the kids and I, but usually ends up being miserable to have her around.
Anyways, after a few days, she finally calmed down. Apologized for her temper, says she needs to do a better job. Then says she feels guilty because she's a horrible mother/wife, etc. That I make her feel worse about herself, etc. And then the cycle resets itself.
She's killed off an
... keep reading on reddit β‘Hi everyone, looking for recommendations on super warm ski socks. I have tried Burton, Roots, and Columbia socks βspecially tailored for cold days on the slopesβ, all have been disappointing. My toes tend to get cold really easily and the socks Iβve bought and tried donβt work as advertised. Any help would be great, thank you!
Im so worried and nervous but like happy and scared idk
saw this on twitter thought i might share it for anyone needs help with this problem
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It's so weird, I'm on my third day and I only feel a little sick with coughing, sore throat and no fever, but I'm dizzy and my feet don't get warm and feel like they fall asleep
Hey all I wanted to look for suggestions, from your experience, on your winter set up. It is my second winter of outdoor cycling, I pretty much have everything covered except my feet.
I have cycling-specific boots, with recommended foot-wiggle room, merino socks, and electric socks. I bottom out when it is 15F or lower (below -7C) when cycling for about an hour or more; my feet start to freeze. I am wondering if anyone has a better set up that gets you better results (possibly up to 2-3 hours of cycling before your feet start to freeze)
Thanks so much-
What are you guys doing for these three problems?
Iβm shaking for no reason right now, despite being thoroughly bundled up. And Iβve noticed that I leek more uncontrollably the colder it gets, which is also when ALL of my joints and trigger points and muscles get super stiff and tight. My feet are also colder than ever right now, and itβs scaring me, despite having lived like this my entire life. I just canβt take it anymore.
I would appreciate all of the advice you gave right now!!
Thank you in advance
Iβm moving from the east coast to the South tomorrow. Got a first class one-way and a new luggage set. Iβve sorted through all my belongings and said all my goodbyes. All thatβs left is to pack and go.
The only thing is I feel miserable today. For one, I still have to work. I honestly should have taken the whole week off but hindsight is 20/20. But also, I keep thinking about what Iβm leaving behindβ¦
Iβm making this move not only for a cost of living change but because Iβm leaving a toxic long term relationship. It wasnβt a mutual break up. There was infidelity and deception involved. Let him tell it, heβs sorry. It was the worst choice heβs made in his life. Wishes he can take it all back blah blah blah.
The worst part of it is that I realized my friendships became really distant. My two closest friends only hung out with me once every other month or so. I became one of those girls who put their man before their friendships and hadnβt even noticed it. They were my best friends but I wasnβt part of their core group anymore. It took me leaving my relationship to understand that.
This move is supposed to be a fresh start for me but Iβm so so terrified of starting over completely. Any advice for getting over this anxiety? Anyone experience this in some way?
Hi all, I'm riding on my kickr core in an unheated garage, and it's FREEZING outside so the garage is pretty cold too. I literally can't use a fan because even though I'm sweating like a pig, as soon as i turn the fan on my body starts freezing and i can't continue. It's the weirdest feeling ever, being so overheated and yet so cold at the same time.
The biggest problem is my feet. I wear double socks and I have my bontrager bike shoes which are pretty tight fit, but my feet start getting so numb after about 20 minutes of riding because they're not moving at all.
What can I do? More socks don't help, and heating the garage isn't an option. I have a little space heater but if I place that next to my feet while riding the rest of my body will get way too overheated.
Basically, upper body needs cooled and feet need warmed.
I was thinking of getting those hot feet packs that heat up in your shoes, but I'm worried that the pack will damage my shoe somehow? There's not much room in between my feet and the shoe so I don't want the pack overheating and burning my feet or my shoes (or exploding and ruining the material)
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