Pangender Puns

Like body dysphoria

I'm back trying to broaden my understanding of the different groups in the community. I understand how pansexual works, but how does pangender work? How is that different from Gender Fluid? No hate ofc I genuinely want to better understand people so I can better support them

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Ive gone through many stages, but I am pangender! I just figured myself out and Im super happy!

I am afab and I still love my body like it is. But, I still feel connected to being genders outside of girl. I don’t feel like the non-female sides of me are disconnected when I look in the mirror alone and see myself. It’s like I don’t feel any less masc if one can see the outline of my hips or butt on my pants than if you can’t see them at all. Is this a normal occurrence.

I thought I might be a transman (I'm afab) but then I thought I was genderfluid because I felt different genders depending on the circumstances, but idk if I feel them at different times? I know l feel masculine so idk if you can be pangender and transmasc, would that defeat the purpose of pangender? I'm just confused T-T

TLDR, can you be pangender and transmasc?

So in august I had to move back in with my parents because rising rent and student loans made it impossible for me to live on my own. My father is transphobic and verbally and emotionally abusive(used to be physically). I have come out to my mom and little brother and have not come out to him because I don’t want the abuse to get worse. Today my dad told me that I need to see a therapist to get my shit together and i just snapped. The idea that my abuser and the person who is the reason that I’ve hated myself for so long is telling me to go to therapy, just sent me over the edge. I need to get out of here so bad. I’ve been homeless before but can’t rn because it’s winter, Every safe house that I’ve called is full and I tried calling the trans life line but the line was busy. I just don’t know what options I have left.

Every job I get says they are full time but then it ends up being like 32 hours a week and with my 600 loan payment, phone bill, car payments, I can’t afford to move out for the foreseeable future. Any recommendations would be so greatly appreciated.

Before I thought that I could be genderfluid, because I thought that I had a fem phase or a masc phase etc. but then I realized that I kinda feel multiple genders at the same time, and that I couldn't really decide on a gender even for a short amount of time, it feels nice when people refer to me as a woman, a man or anything in-between, though I probably still have a long journey of gender exploration, I think I just might have found a term I relate to.

There is something to mention tho, sometimes for example, I feel like I want to be more like a man, and I get a bit weird in my own skin, but then I dress femininely and then suddenly I think, wow this is actually kinda fine, I don't know if it's relevant, just thought I would mention it.

Hi I'm Kaiser/Zydrate and I'm a recently discovered pangender

However I've noticed I identify more with being nonbinary

I still feel like every gender, just a bit more nonbinary

Is this pangender?

I go with any pronouns but identify more with she/her and they/them. Can anyone help please?

So people are saying its offensive to identify as pangender or saying that it isn't real, is there a way I could say pangender without offending people?

I found out about pangender and idk how to feel. I thought I was demifluid, demiflux or genderfluid, but I started questioning. I feel like a guy and agender and a girl sometimes, also I feel a bit androgynous and demigirl. It sometimes feel static but also fluid. Also if I was pangender can I still be a femboy cuz I want to dress with skirts thigh highs cat ears and stuff

I currently figured out that I am Gender Apathetic but I was still wondering if I can be pangender and gender apathetic.

What are some signs (other than childhood signs, as I started changing this year) that one is pangender?

I'm pangender, which basically means I identify as all genders at once and I personally use all pronouns, but I have specific ones I prefer most. (Remember, not everyone who identifies as pangender is the same as me, they might prefer different pronouns or completely not care.) The ones I prefer most are it/it's, but I really don't care if you call me anything else. Feel free to ask absolutely anything, even if it could be seen as extremely offensive!

I'm making this because I got some really hateful replies after saying I went by it/it's in the comments of a Reddit poll, so I'd love to answer any questions you have so that hopefully happens less to other people, if that makes any sense at all. So yeah, feel free to ask anything!

(by the way I'm so sorry if this is the wrong community for this or if I worded anything poorly)

I’ve google it and they both come up as the same thing. I know the difference between pansexual and omnisexual but what’s the difference?

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Based on me and my partner. I'm technically genderfluid but I'm too lazy to keep up with my fluctuating identity so I just stick with Pangender lol

..... is for me not minding she/her but really wishing someone would use they/them or he/him.

That euphoria of hearing many gender references in the same day is wonderful but rare.

I'm just wondering if anyone else pangender has a set of pronouns they like more, even if you don't feel a connection to it?
I kind of feel like I like they/them and maybe he/him a tad more, but I still don't feel a connection to either.

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Honestly I’m so confused about my gender, so obviously I turned to Reddit. A couple people in my life have pointed out things I’ve been saying that could indicate dysmorphia. They said it to be supportive, but now I’m spiraling down a “what tf is my gender” hole, and I feel so overwhelmed. I just recently became comfortable with publicly identifying as lesbian, and now I have no idea where my gender fits in with that. Can I even identify as lesbian and be something like pangender? I don’t think I’m ready to put a label on my gender, but every time I allow myself to consider it I land somewhere around genderfluid yet that still doesn’t feel right. When I learned about pangender it was this giant mix of excitement and terror because I’ve never found a gender term that embodies me so well, but the fact that there is one means I can’t keep insisting that I’m lying to myself about who I am and how I feel.

Also, I’m terrified of not being taken seriously by the people close to me. My girlfriend is a trans woman and my best friend is non-binary. I’m used to being the “token cis” of the group, and I have no idea how to even begin vocalizing that maybe that’s not who I am. I’m so scared they will either not take me seriously or get mad at me or act like I’m just looking for attention. I feel like I shouldn’t bring it up until I’m 100% sure, but also every day I feel like there’s this huge lump in my throat that is hiding who I really am.

Any advice or encouragement? I still feel like lesbian fits me more than queer or gay. The last thing I want is my gender crisis turning into another sexuality crisis.

Hi it's Kaiser/Zydrate and I recently discovered I feel like every gender.

However, even being transmasc, I seem to identify more with being nonbinary.

Is this still pangender?