Finally got myself a new amp after being stuck with my crappy Fender Frontman for years. The difference is night and day. Blackstar HT Studio 20!
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πŸ‘€︎ u/datnarwhal4
πŸ“…︎ Feb 03 2021
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ELI5: Why do you have back and neck aches for days if you "sleep wrong" one night?
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πŸ‘€︎ u/sessoro
πŸ“…︎ Jan 03 2020
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Dog excessively, frantically licking the air & pacing nonstop for hours at night third day in a row

Species: Dog

Age: 1 year and 8 months

Sex/Neuter status: Neutered Male

Breed: Bernese Mtn Dog/Great Pyrenees Mix

Body weight: 120 lbs

History: recently diagnosed with IBS, on a hydrolized protein only diet. Was taking antibiotics this week for a respiratory infection (still has a cough but last day of the anitbiotic was yesterday; the antibiotic started with an A...had five days of it). Also had an ear infection, last day of drops (7 days total) was yesterday.

Clinical signs: Nonstop licking the air frantically. Begs to go outside and then only wants to eat grass. Paces if we don't take him outside. This licking goes on for HOURS and there seems to be nothing we can do to soothe him. We just have to wait for him to go to sleep and he's fine again in the morning. His stomach is tacked so it can't be bloat (at least that's my understanding of how stomach tacking works?). It has happened three nights in a row and then one other time two nights before that. Went to the vet about this yesterday actually and her guess was that the antibiotic was making him nauseous. She gave him an anti-nausea shot but the behavior still happened last night. He hasn't vomited any of these last three nights.

Duration: Hours for multiple nights in a row

Your general location: Atlanta, GA

Links to test results, vet reports, X-rays etc. I have a video I can share of the behaviors he's exhibiting, but not sure how to go about doing that? Sorry!

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πŸ‘€︎ u/xo1cew01f
πŸ“…︎ Jan 17 2021
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Been in hospital for too damn long. One of the guys in the room with me sleeps all damn day and night and is by far the loudest snorer I’ve ever heard in my entire life, I haven’t been able to sleep properly for days. I’m so exhausted, just wanna go home :(
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πŸ‘€︎ u/adubyt
πŸ“…︎ Feb 18 2021
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My girlfriend has had this penguin since she was a kid and sleeps with it every night. On days that I spend the night and she works the next morning, I make sure he gets up to shenanigans for her to find when she gets home. Here's today's. (It's flour)
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Ksafe_isa_weirdo
πŸ“…︎ Sep 08 2019
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TIL the day Jimi Hendrix died, Eric Clapton had bought a left-handed Fender Stratocaster as a gift for him. He intended on presenting it during a Sly Stone concert at the Lyceum that night, but Hendrix never showed up. The next day, Clapton learned why. americanbluesscene.com/wh…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/oldoseamap
πŸ“…︎ Aug 14 2019
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When not asleep a koala feeds on eucalyptus leaves, especially at night. Each animal eats a tremendous amount for its sizeβ€”about two and a half pounds of leaves a day. gfycat.com/sophisticatedq…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/whyhellomichael
πŸ“…︎ Nov 19 2019
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Jordan Chariton: "SO FAR difference between @BernieSanders supporters & @PeteButtigieg voters I’ve spoken to is night & day. Not one Buttigieg supporter mentioned policy/his accomplishmentsβ€”all about the way he speaks/comes across. Every Sanders supporterβ€”all policy and what’s at stake for them". twitter.com/JordanCharito…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/SocksElGato
πŸ“…︎ Feb 10 2020
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[Schefter] After two seasons playing for his hometown Oakland Raiders, Marshawn Lynch is not planning to play football again, league sources tell ESPN. Now, with the three-day draft kicking off Thursday night in Nashville, the Raiders have one more potential need to address: running back. twitter.com/AdamSchefter/…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Fear_Jaire
πŸ“…︎ Apr 24 2019
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Insects that don’t live for more than a few weeks must see the day and night cycles like seasons.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/AnInfiniteRick
πŸ“…︎ Apr 19 2019
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[Charania] MRI on Golden State Warriors All-Star Klay Thompson confirmed a hamstring strain and he will likely be questionable for Game 3, league sources tell @TheAthleticNBA @Stadium. Thompson will test body over next two days with hope to play Wednesday night. twitter.com/ShamsCharania…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/-TTP-
πŸ“…︎ Jun 04 2019
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I was camping in Death Valley for my birthday and painted the night sky! This is the comparison between night and day.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/LegolasGreenleaf
πŸ“…︎ Nov 27 2019
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Put my new downpipe and rear engine mount in last night, and I didn’t break the turbo studs. Mission successful. Soaked em for 2 days in liquid wrench to be safe haha
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πŸ‘€︎ u/SneakyBeakyLoike
πŸ“…︎ Sep 19 2020
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Can we have a round of applause for ALL of our supermarket night shift workers, cashiers and other staff who continue to report for work every day despite COVID-19?

This is a phenomena specific to several countries and cities around the world who have progressed to shutdowns of various degrees. However, one thing is common - the folks who put up the masks and hand sanitizers in the shelves every day, the folks who stand on aching legs soldiering through the work hours and scanning groceries for thousands of strangers who may or may not have the virus - they still report for work every single day.

I'm not from Italy or Spain or New York City. However, I was browsing in r/Coronavirus and I saw this really heartbreaking story of terrified cashiers who have no other choice but to keep working because it's the only way they can make a living. Every day they are hounded by people with countless questions that they have no answers for, they come into contact with thousands in an era where contact is the most feared thing next to the virus itself. Yet it is a thankless job - how many of us are really taking the time to be nice to the cashiers?

So today when you go out for your supermarket run, no matter which part of the world you live in, say something nice to your local staff. Give them a (virtual) fist bump and some encouraging words. Ask them to take care of themselves and stay safe. And here, we can take a moment to appreciate our beloved unsung heroes of our time.

With love,

u/ShiningAway

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πŸ‘€︎ u/ShiningAway
πŸ“…︎ Mar 16 2020
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[Fanart] finished this one a few hrs ago (sry for spam) have a beautiful day //night
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πŸ‘€︎ u/kimetsuri
πŸ“…︎ Sep 01 2019
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You always read indicas are great for night smoking, they'll make you crash on the couch, pass out etc.. But I enjoy them during the day just as much. Maybe even more than the evening. Am I the minority?
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πŸ‘€︎ u/00chill00chill00
πŸ“…︎ Mar 08 2020
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My 13yo needs a little more structure for school assignments. Picked up a day planner and told him to write in the days of the month last night.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/twineffect
πŸ“…︎ Jan 27 2020
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Getting ready for a 3 day, 2 night trip into the Caney Creek Wilderness in the Ouachita National Forest, AR
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πŸ‘€︎ u/blackwolf3133
πŸ“…︎ Jan 06 2020
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Just in case you’re having a bad day, here’s my very sleepy very elderly hen wearing a bottle cap as a hat and her finally being tucked in for a good nights sleep!! 😍πŸ₯° reddit.com/gallery/kv3nb7
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Annie-Lamb2646
πŸ“…︎ Jan 11 2021
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My best friend from 1st grade to senior year of college passed away today. She slept back-to-back with me every night and wouldn’t hurt a fly. I spent the entire day with her today, and she didn’t stop purring for a second.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/trlaw
πŸ“…︎ Feb 09 2019
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Official Ayres Player T-Shirt - "Zamboni driver by day, emergency goaltender by night" David Ayres earned First Star honors and saved the day for the Canes in Toronto! Grab your t-shirt jersey to support the Canes' newest legend! carolinaproshop.com/produ…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Somali_Pir8
πŸ“…︎ Feb 23 2020
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I've meal planned, made a list and been grocery shopping twice and I've made a real dinner every night for the last 10 days (with 4 more dinners to go). Lastly, my kitchen is clean and the dishes have been done every night.

So, I was sick for more than 7 weeks. I haven't ate normally or cooked normally in this time and while others have cleaned up quite a bit the dishes haven't been completely or consistently clean.

10 days ago I changed that, I got out my notebook and pens and made menus and grocery lists for the last two weeks. I've cooked a meal every night and taken care of the kitchen.

I feel better and I am so happy to be doing something more than laying in bed or on the couch and I am happy to eat more than soup or eggs and toast.

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πŸ‘€︎ u/anniemdi
πŸ“…︎ Feb 26 2020
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Gear for a 6 Day 5 Night Trip (~36 lbs)
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πŸ‘€︎ u/ApatheticQuiGon
πŸ“…︎ Mar 10 2020
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Following my previous post, here are some more stills based on your feedback of our Day for Night amateur film, mainly trying to bring out the practicals in the background, a very difficult task since they're so close to skin tone and I'm no pro colourist!
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Sir_Phil_McKraken
πŸ“…︎ Feb 29 2020
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I'm a military pilot by day and graphics designer by night. I've made a bunch of stickers to raise some funds for the RFS. It won't make 40M like the Celeste Barber FB fundraiser, but a few thousand should be on the cards. If this wets your whistle you can find them here: retro-pilot.com/bushfires
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Retropilot_AU
πŸ“…︎ Jan 07 2020
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This is my new furbaby Cinnamon. She loves to hop into the fridge or cupboards when you open them. She gets along well with our dog, loves baths, and lays with my son every nap he takes (including regular all night "naps"). We've had her for 3 days now and we love her so much already. reddit.com/gallery/k7owd2
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πŸ‘€︎ u/findyourhappy401
πŸ“…︎ Dec 06 2020
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May not be a big deal to anyone else, but my team won our first mens softball tournament together and i got the MVP of the tournament last night for the first time. 5 years of lots of hard work finally paid off. Sports amaze me every day by teaching me hard work and dedication do pay off.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Cucumber68
πŸ“…︎ Jul 20 2017
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Here's a bunk-bed I'm working on for my sister's kids. Finished building last night. I've got a long day of sanding ahead of me today. Pardon the messy garage. I was tired.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/IAmHippyman
πŸ“…︎ Jan 26 2020
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My neighbors kid screeches and yells at 6 am every single day for 2 years. I haven't had a full night's sleep since they moved in. Advice?

These people moved in next door to me about 6 months after I moved in. There are two other families with babies on the floor who are never an issue. This family will go to the park early in the morning, and let the kid run around the hallway going "do you want to try to push the elevator button hunny? You can do it, you can reach it!" Almost daily.

The kid screams. Borderline nonstop. The parents do not move him from their living room (or the public hallway) into his bedroom. I tried asking them to be mindful of the rest of the floor and they told me to effectively fuck off.

I tried contacting my landlord about further soundproofing my unit, or letting me break my lease and move out. They have been ignoring me for months.

It's gotten so bad that I have to rent a hotel room before big meetings at work so that I can actually sleep. There's so little being done about this little monster that I have devolved to playing death metal (which I don't even like) at maximum volume directed at their door every single time this happens.

Please someone tell me that there's a better solution.

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πŸ‘€︎ u/r4wrb4by
πŸ“…︎ Feb 02 2019
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My friend’s a waitress and she was treated like crap for doing nothing wrong... another table noticed and...well, sometimes a few nice words can make someone’s day/night.
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πŸ“…︎ Aug 24 2019
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A redditor asked me to make them some glowing stitch markers for knitting and crochet. I used silver plated wire that I shaped, closed jump rings, resins and rechargeable glow pigment that absorbs enough light to glow brightly in slightly dim day and night
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πŸ‘€︎ u/anicirl
πŸ“…︎ Dec 02 2019
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Did a Day to Night timelapse a couple nights ago and accidentally captured Starlink for the first time! βœ¨πŸš€ gfycat.com/saltynimblegna…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Armand9x
πŸ“…︎ Jan 21 2020
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She was gone for 4 days and 5 nights. Turned up at 1am crying at the window. No idea where she was but so glad to have her home.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/heretobenosey
πŸ“…︎ Sep 23 2019
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Last week I got admitted to the hospital for 3 days for skipping on sleep for 3 nights straight. They said I was manic and diagnosed me with Bipolar....

This is so shocking to me. Its out of character... i do get very angry at times to the point that i think i have anger issues but i wasn't like that at all this time. I was paranoid and panicking for reasons only known to me at the time... now what do i do? Ps. Also found out husband had been cheating on me while i was gone for 3 days.... life seems to be getting only better from that point....

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πŸ‘€︎ u/amadeaqueen
πŸ“…︎ Feb 17 2021
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Sadly mochi past away in the night after being rushed to the vet for not eating and she past in sleep next to a heater, I loved mochi so much and everyone else did and although she only lived for 2 years it was the best 2 years ever and I hope to one day catch up with mochi again πŸ’•πŸŒˆπŸ•Š
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Rianna232
πŸ“…︎ Mar 13 2020
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Last night my first child was born, a beautiful little girl. For her birth day present, I made a donation to a better future. imgur.com/niWKmW8
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πŸ‘€︎ u/r_walker
πŸ“…︎ Mar 09 2020
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Every Day I Wake Up As Someone Else. Every Night He Comes For Me.

I don't have much time so I'll try and write this down as quickly as I can.

My name is Rebecca. Or, at least that's what my name used to be. According to the ID in my wallet my name is Robert Wilhelm and I apparently live in some depressing hellscape called Globe, Arizona.

I'm going to die tonight.

You shouldn't worry too much about me though. Because this isn't the first time I've died. And it probably won't be the last.

At least, I hope it isn't.

I honestly couldn't tell you how many nights this has happened. After so many nights of being chased, brutalized, tortured, and eventually killed it's hard to keep track of just how many times it's happened. But I'll tell you what I can remember in the time that I have left.

As I said before my name was Rebecca. The details of who I was aren't important to know except for a couple of details. I'm originally from Rochester, NY and I was seventeen when I was murdered. And don't believe what the goddamn papers say about me being a 'runaway' from a broken home. My father may have been a drunken asshole but he never laid a finger on me.

The man in the bowler hat, however...

What is with that stupid fucking bowler hat? I'd laugh at how ridiculous it looked on such a large head if I hadn't felt the teeth inside that too wide mouth rip open my stomach on more than one occasion.

But you know nothing about that. Because Rebecca wasn't murdered by a man in a bowler after going to the nearest convenience store to pick up some cigarettes with her fake ID. Rebecca wasn't dragged into the darkness between two buildings for a solid five minutes with no one hearing her screams before she finally fell into painless darkness.

Nope, none of that happened to her.

Rebecca 'ran away'.

I don't exactly how long I was in that darkness. One second it was dark and the man in the bowler hat was laughing quietly as I choked on the blood leaking from the cut in my neck, and the next I was waking up in Omaha, Nebraska in an unfamiliar bed next to an unfamiliar man.

After I stopped screaming and got past the man, whose name was apparently Aaron, trying to calm me down I learned that I was no longer myself. I feel bad for Aaron in hindsight, he was a pretty nice guy who was more than understanding considering the circumstances that I thrust upon him.

He called Irene, which was my name now, out of work and continued to try and calm me down. He made jasmine tea and listened to the insane ramblings of his 'wife' with a patience that

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πŸ“…︎ Jul 16 2019
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TIL there’s a Japan indoor vegetable-factory that produces 10,000 heads of lettuce a day while using just 1% of the amount of water needed for outdoor fields. LEDs emit light at ideal wavelengths for plant growth, while also optimizing night and day cycles, allowing lettuce to grow 2.5 times faster. inhabitat.com/the-worlds-…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/DrWeeGee
πŸ“…︎ Oct 28 2015
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Something those on the opposite sides of the spectrum can agree on. For years, CNN has been marketing itself as a β€œreliable, woke, progressive” news outlet. The last few daysβ€”especially last nightβ€”they showed their real colors as corporate shills and boot lickers.
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πŸ“…︎ Jan 15 2020
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I've been waiting for a year, but it was too bad to take and finish photos only during the day so I took pictures even at night.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/WifeIsGoddess
πŸ“…︎ Nov 16 2019
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Happening now in 1945, the pre-landing bombardment on the island of Iwo Jima. US Navy ships and aircraft bomb the island for 3 days, day and night. v.redd.it/nh05wfcfajh41
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πŸ“…︎ Feb 17 2020
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Unfortunately had to leave him in a daycare for 10 days. Hasn't left my side or stopped purring since and slept like this all night.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/HappyyItalian
πŸ“…︎ Jan 03 2020
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[NFL Update] ESPN is preparing to offer Peyton Manning $18M-$20M a year to serve as their lead analyst for Monday Night Football, per @MMcCarthyREV. Manning met with ESPN executives over the last few days. twitter.com/mysportsupdat…
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[Image] [PS4] [U.S. East] Just rented a server for 7 days incase anyone would like to jump ship back to BF1. I usally try to fill the server around 6:00pm to 8:00pm EST every night.
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πŸ“…︎ Apr 29 2020
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4 days and counting. Last night was rough. Very stressful. I would have done a contract killing for 1 cigarette. But I made it through and today is a new bright and shiny day. 🌞
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Whodat1969
πŸ“…︎ Apr 10 2020
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Just a late night turkey sammy to get me ready for the big day
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πŸ‘€︎ u/------me
πŸ“…︎ Nov 28 2019
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Women of reddit, you’ve had a rough day. Your walk into your house and your SO has gathered all of the perfect supplies for a surprise pick-me-up night. What is included in this perfect surprise?
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πŸ‘€︎ u/tincantinman
πŸ“…︎ Sep 26 2019
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In 1982, 21 year old Leon Moncer received a threatening letter in his mailbox days before he disappeared. For two years after his disappearance, his wife and child were stalked by an individual, or possibly individuals, who followed them by car, and stood outside their house at night.

21 year old Leon Moncer, resident of Bellaire, Ohio, was a husband to his wife Irene Zimmerman, and father to his three year old daughter, Julie. Leon was a troubled young man who struggled with an addiction to alcohol and a short, sometimes violent temper. Leon physically abused Irene and other partners on few occasions. Leon’s marriage with Irene was failing, and they were in the process of getting a divorce. Though Leon was dating another woman at the time, he and Irene still resided together.

In February of 1982, Leon became increasingly paranoid. Leon became particularly overprotective of Julie. Leon would not let Julie out of the house without him, and also forbid anyone from taking photos of her. This behavior was uncharacteristic of Leon, and appeared to be sudden. According to Irene, sometime in February, Leon received a letter in the mailbox from an anonymous source who used alphabetical letters that have been cut and pasted from magazines to convey their message. The letter read, β€œLeave it alone, or you’re dead.”

Despite the threat, and his paranoia, Leon was unconcerned, and disposed of the letter. While Leon had a short temper with his partners, Irene, and Leon’s family members, claim that Leon β€œloved people” and got on well with others, and that they couldn’t think of a particular individual who would want to cause harm. On February 18, days after Leon received the letter, he left home and told Irene that he would be back. Leon did not tell Irene where he was going, or whether or not he had plans to meet someone. The next morning, Irene received a phone call and was notified that Leon did not arrive to work at one of his three jobs.

Two days after his disappearance, Leon’s vehicle, a gray Dodge Aspen, was found in a ditch near Powerline Park in Belmont County. The driver’s door was ajar, the keys were in the ignition, and the dome light was on. Inside the car was his coat, loose change, a lighter, and a packet of cigarettes, which his family claims he never left without. The interior of the vehicle was covered in mud, and there were indications of a struggle. To the family’s surprise, investigators did not examine the car, and instead allowed them to take it home. As of today, the whereabouts of the vehicle are unknown.

After Leon’s disappearance, Irene claimed that for a duration of six months, she and Julie were being followed by a man in a pickup truck. For a duration of two years, a man in a dark, hooded sweatshirt would β€œwatch

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πŸ‘€︎ u/BubbaJoeJones
πŸ“…︎ Dec 22 2018
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Ibushi slept for 1 hours in 2 night during G1 ' Well, those two days turned into an experiment. I wondered if humans didn’t need to sleep all that much to still function...and I concluded that they could, but I did think I’d be in even better shape if I got some sleep' twitter.com/Tarratastic/s…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/_Clash_
πŸ“…︎ Aug 29 2019
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AITA for not wanting to help watch my sisters special needs kids over night for 5 days while she goes on a cruise?

This is a long one with plenty of small issues that build up to a bigger one.

I work full time for my sister as a Special Needs Caretaker, both of her kids have severe autism and are the messiest most stressful children I’ve ever encountered. She booked a cruise a while ago (she invited me but I’m broke and going to be taking a full class load). Since I didn’t want to go, she invited the other Caretaker that works to help her kids, and I assume the caretaker is paying for her own portion of the ticket. The cruise is this November.

This November I will be neck deep in my last load of classes(online), each of which are necessary to graduate this year and infuriatingly expensive. I will also be moving into a new home with my boyfriend right around that time. It’s the first time I’ve ever moved out officially (still living with family), so I assume I’ll be quite stressed with the change and finding a new daily normal.

If she has her way I’ll be staying with the kids 5 nights in a row and driving them to and from ABA therapy which is about 65 miles round trip each day. My only time off will be the 8 hours the kids are in therapy so if I want to see my SO it’ll be close to an hour drive or more to go home and see him and our pets, + he’ll be at work the hours I’ll actually be free to see him.

When she brought up this cruise at the beginning of the year I told her all of this. I told her that I’d be stressed with school and in the middle of moving. I honestly don’t want to change my work schedule for her and my coworker to take off on a tropical cruise together leaving me to deal with the kids. I could maybe do one or two nights but she needs to find another caretaker anyways. AITA for standing my ground and telling her I’m not willing to do 5 nights in a row? If she doesn’t find someone else to help it either ruins my coworkers trip or my sisters, or I’ll probably sacrifice my mental health due to guilt and cave in to her request.

Just a little add on, I do have caretaker burnout, I’m so ready to leave and find a better job that’s easier on my mental health, but I can’t risk finding another job right now until I can finish the 1k a month tuition bills, my savings are just too low. I’ll be gone and full on job hunting the day I graduate from college. (Which she knows)

Edit: I am paid for being a caretaker through the state, I make 11.65$ an hour but cannot clock over 40 hours. Essentially it would be me being paid for watching them during the day but n

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