before you say anything, i'm not a switch. i've never enjoyed being submissive, or on the receiving end of anything else. but i do like pain a lot, and being hurt in whatever way the other person wants.
a few years ago when starting out, i had a short fling with a couple who wanted me to be their submissive, and i quickly realized this was not for me at all - except for the being whipped etc parts.
i'm not sure what this is called, or if there's anyone else like me out there. i often feel less masculine or like less of a dom for it.
help/advice?
I love conquest but sometimes I like to do just infantry does anyone know if there are smaller modes like tdm or dom thanks ahead of time any and all responses are appreciated
I watched countless videos leading up to it and did all I could to follow the guidelines, I didnβt even lift very heavy at only about 100lbs. I made sure to be near a mirror where I could see my back and insure it was straight.
When I woke up this morning it felt like someone had beaten my lumbar region with a wooden bat in my sleep. It felt tight and tender. I really wanna stick with deadlifting but donβt have anyone to come check my form and donβt want to drop the exercise.
Basically, what Iβm hoping to gain from the community here is whether or not one would expect DOMS in their lower back after deadlifting for the first time in their life. If so, then I guess I can chalk up the muscle soreness Iβm experiencing to correct form but a new workout. If deadlifts are supposed to not affect the lower back in any way then perhaps I need to return to the drawing board.
Is it possible that because when you deadlift you straighten out the lower back under weight, the exercise works out your lumbar?
https://www.boxofficemojo.com/alltime/weekends/bestranked.htm?page=WKNDSCAT5&p=.htm
The others this millenium that had 9 or more weeks in top 5: Frozen with 11, Avatar with 12, Force Awakens with 9 and My Big Fat Greek wedding with 10
We have been together over a year. Relationship and dom/sub. Lately he has been secretive and distant. I know he had female friends but he hides me from them. I don't what to do to put my insecurities to rest. I don't have anyone to talk to about all the specifics can anyone advise me?
Hello, I wasn't sure if I should post this question here or on r/BDSMCommunity, so if this is the wrong place, my apologies.
I'm new to BDSM, and found my first Dom online about a month ago. He doesn't want to give me his first name because his subs call him "Sir" anyway (he said he had a sub for more than 10 months who didn't know his name), and because he had a stalker a while back that made him much more cautious since he has a small child.
So he gave me the first initial of his first name, but that's all. I didn't push the matter since I'm new to the lifestyle and am trying to be open-minded and more submissive. But I mentioned it recently to someone familiar with BDSM who said that was a potential red flag.
So my question is: if a Dom hasn't told his sub his first name after a month, is that red flag? Or perhaps just a style difference? I looked online for an answer but wasn't able to find anything specific to this. Any thoughts or input are appreciated, thank you. (Note: since my Dom is male, I say "he" or "his" for a Dom, I don't mean that to be exclusionary)
EDIT: Thank you for your responses, it seems to be overwhelmingly in favor of red flag, so I've learned an important lesson, thank you. I'm going to talk to him about this and find out what's going on. He's very sick right now, and also got two big pieces of bad news today, so I'm going to wait a bit to ask him. Thank you all for helping a newbie with all this, I really appreciate it.
EDIT 2: I told him today that I don't feel comfortable anymore not knowing his first name, and so he told me. He didn't argue, or ask why, he just straight up told me, so things seem to be alright.
EDIT 3: I was a fool, you all were right. I found out he's recently separated and due to some recent bad health news might have to go back to his wife while he undergoes treatment, and he let me go as his sub about an hour ago. My heart hurts and I'm sitting on my patio crying as I write this. But thank you all very much for your input, it did help. Now my next step is to find a new Dom...
My spouse (36f) and I (37m) have, like many, dabbled in BDSM with spanking and hair pulling during sex. Recently gotten more involved with choking and what and ankle straps. Now we have ventured in to all day scenes where we message each other through out the day, which gets us both really hot and bothered. Now that we have started this part though I find I hard to maintain an erection. Is this normal? When ever she is directly stimulating me there is no issue, but when it come to stimulating her, or tying or spanking it's gone. I really really enjoy doing those things so I don't think it's a like of interest, but that's how she sees it which is making her lose interest in this world we have both come to enjoy. Any advice? Should I see a Dr.?
Disney is once again having a record breaking year. They just secured the highest grossing movie worldwide of all time this weekend when Endgame toppled the mighty James Cameron's Avatar for top spot on the all time worldwide list. And another #1 movie weekend with TLK.
7 movies out so far this year, here is how they currently rank on the domestic and worldwide box office charts for 2019:
Avengers: Endgame #1 domestic & worldwide
Captain Marvel #2 domestic & worldwide
Toy Story 4 #3 domestic & #5 worldwide
Aladdin #4 domestic & #3 worldwide
The Lion King #6 domestic & #7 worldwide
Dumbo #13 domestic & worldwide
Penguins (Disneynature) #67 domestic and approx. #74 worldwide
With only 3 more releases left this year for the House of Mouse (Maleficent 2, Frozen 2, and Star Wars 9: TROS), it seems likely that they are guaranteed 2 more spots in the top 10 bringing their total to 7. Which is insane! What do you think the end of year domestic and worldwide BO list will look like? It's looking doubtful, but will any of these films fall out of the top 10?
Edit: added links to Box Office Mojo's Domestic and WW list for the year.
