She could take him to the court. She had.... concrete evidence
The insane amount of staggers is completely breaking combat and I cant understand why devs dont see it. Especially in melee. It only rewards two things, left click spam and zerg tactics. Diminishing returns on staggers at least? Hello?
Not having every single damn thing in this game stagger, knockdown, push, pull, root, interrupt and stun would be one hell of a 2022 gift, thanks!
PS: Also, can we please do something about how stupidly clunky and desync'ed combat is too? Awesome.
Merry Christmas everyone!
So a pal (f/34) had a second date with a guy that was supposed to be dinner at his flat. Beforehand, she mentions to him our girl code and that she'd get shit from me if she went without at least his second name and address. So she asks for it, and instant radio silence. She says, if that's not OK, they can get dinner at a place nearby. He eventually replies that they can meet up and have a coffee and chat. Alarm bells are ringing and she mentions something along the lines of being downgraded from dinner to coffee because she asked for his address, where she would be going anyway. He thinks it's really weird and insulting that she would ask for this beforehand. She tries to explain that's its just a very basic safety precaution and no judgement on him but at this point his reluctance is giving her alarm bells so they'll just leave it. Best of luck in his future endeavours etc. His retort is that 'someone must have seriously hurt her in the past' and he's not looking for that. He actually warns her how off-putting it is and that she probably shouldn't do it again in the future. She tells him she always asks and no one has ever had a problem with it in the past. She could tell he was gearing up to war and peace in response after that so just deleted and blocked.
Very proud of her but kinda gobsmacked that someone in this day and age could get soo uppity about this. I have literally taken a photo of a guys number plate before getting in his car to go on a date and they have laughed it off. They could be a serial killer or a mad rapist. I've said this to them in my experience most guys get it. This guy did not. Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this or something like it?
Edit: the plan was to meet her off the train and take her to his place.
I have found that a lot of men and their families (particularly if they are religious) are very insistent on women and step children changing their last names after marriage. In today's world, I feel this is completely unnecessary and robs people of their established identity. Those who wish to can do it, but it's not something that should be forced/expected. It is by NO MEANS a measure of how much someone loves another person and shouldn't be treated as such.
Edit: It seems like people don't understand the post at all. It's not about changing names after marriage being removed as a practice, it's about changing names after marriage not being forced/expected if the woman/child in question doesn't want to. People losing the plot all over.
Edit 2: A lot of people claiming people have a choice, this is reddit. Not reddit USA or reddit UK. Just because your country allows it doesn't mean there's tens upon tens of them that don't.
Edit 3: It's really shocking that the first world minority comprising of maybe 400 million in a population of 8 billion believe that if this is popular among them it's popular opinion. Well I shouldn't really be surprised tho.
So just as a quick primer: Stagger is a unique trait to Brewmaster Monks in WoW that takes a portion of incoming damage and instead applies it over time. It's a pretty strong trait that forms the crux of Monk's power as a tank, since they're a leather armor class as opposed to the plate used by Warriors and Paladins.
Personally, I do think such a mechanic would be interesting to add to DRK - bearing in mind the very introduction quest even mentions a dark knight refusing to stay down, I think it could fit in with the identity of a ferocious avenger. I also think that this could offer something to healers, since DRK until a certain point struggles with staying alive, lacking some of the tools that the other tanks do at a similar level.
Ultimately, I'm pretty aware that if the team had wanted to do something like this, they'd have tried it and seen how it works. But given a lot of recent discussion about the homogeny and (lack of) difficulty in playing tanks in XIV, the lingering issue of DRK's identity post-HW, I thought those would be good springboards to start talking about perhaps more unique ways of tanking that the game could offer, and their viability. While I'm focusing mainly on this Stagger mechanic, I'm curious to see if people have thought about this and perhaps why these things wouldn't work.
pulling 10 level 25 elites and having them spam stagger you is some instant alt f4 tier gameplay.
The first of which is Stefon Diggs, drafted by Minnesota in the 5th round of the 2015 draft. He quickly proved to be a draft steal for the Vikings, providing a 1-2 punch alongside Adam Thielen and became a franchise legend due to the Minneapolis Miracle. After being traded to Buffalo, he has earned back-to-back Pro Bowls in both years with the Bills.
The second active player is Quandre Diggs, drafted one round after Stefon by the Lions (Surprisingly though, they aren't related). Stuck in the perpetual quagmire of Detroit, in wasn't until he was traded to Seattle that he truly flourished. Providing an excellent replacement after the Earl Thomas flameout. While he hasn't been as good as Thomas was, he's still a very good player that the Seahawks defense sorely needs. He's even carved out a little niche as a ballhawk. Intercepting 13 passes over the past two-and-a-half seasons.
Finally, we have the most recent entry into the Diggs Echelon of Eliteness, Trevon Diggs. Trevon's burst onto the scene in a big way this year. If Quandre Diggs could be considered a ball hawk, than Trevon Diggs is a BALL EAGLE. Dude's brought back interceptions like it's the 80's all over again. Tying the Cowboys franchise record in interceptions and shattering all recent interception trends. Dude's on an absolute tear and you can't help but be impressed
So in summary, while Diggs may be a pretty rare last name for NFL players, the ones that do have that name have a pretty good track record
Used to go to school with a Bossman, which was pretty cool. And recently there was a boxing match between Wilder vs Fury, which together sounds like something from Clash of the Titans.
Range buff I'm sure we can all agree on.
Why damage not kills? Simple, by the time you enter RF, literally everything is dead.
By making it activate with stagger or damage done in the area, he will feel a lot more fluid and his passive will actually activate in the thick of battle, not after.
FatShark, I love this character. His design, thematic resonance, weapons, sounds. I just want him to be a smidge better
I asked him why, and he said because the customer is always right.
For every 5 levels a mob is below the player it should have a 33% LESS chance to Stagger/Stun you, so anything more than 15 levels under you cannot stagger/stun you at ALL. How the fuck am I supposed to feel like I've made any progress in this game if a goddamn level 5 wolf CAN STAGGER ME AND SLOW ME DOWN AS I RUN BY even though I am a level 60 CON TANK in full Heavy Armor.
Nothing has made me want to Alt-F4 this game on a nightly basis more than being staggered by some level 10 Boar as I am gathering, or just running somewhere.
In a few of my most recent games I've noticed that the Fire Sword and Flaming Flail can stagger Plague Monks and Berserks one moment and then not stagger the next. I'm using Opportunist but there have been points when I've staggered these enemies without them starting their attack animations. So I'm lost as to how I'm not able to stagger them consistently. I doubt they have to be on fire first but on both Battle Wizard and Unchained I have talents that affect burning enemies. This being Famished Flames' increased fire damage and Enfeebling Flame's reduction in enemy damage.
My daughter (17) came out as transgender a few years ago, and for her birthday this year we legally changed her first name to a feminine name of her choosing. My wife and I have always supported her and her transition, but my daughter seemed disappointed that her surname wasn’t also changed.
I am Icelandic-American, if if you don’t know, surnames are quite different than in other countries. One’s surname is their father’s first name + a suffix related to their gender. The son of Jökull would be Jökullson, and the daughter of Jökull would be Jökulldottir. When my American wife and I married, she took my last name, per American customs, and gave that same masculine surname to our daughter when she was born. All of us have the same masculine last name.
My daughter wishes to change her surname to “Jökull”dottir in order to align with her gender expression, as well as Icelandic naming customs. I hadn’t considered this for her, as we live in the United States and used the local customs. My wife and I are on the fence about changing her legal name again, as processes like this are very expensive and time-consuming in our state. I told her that her mother and I would be more than happy to help with the paperwork if she paid for the processing. Our daughter doesn’t accept our reasoning and claims we are only contributing to her existing dysphoria by not going through the process again.
She is very proud of her Icelandic heritage, and picked an Icelandic first name for her initial name change. While I understand her desire for the name change, I think that she is too focused on how her name would come across in Iceland, where we rarely visit, and should consider how it comes across in the United States if she goes through with this change.
Am I the asshole for making my transgender daughter pay for her own surname change?
The more I think about this stupid norm, the more irritated I become. It’s so normalised and embedded into society, to the point where people will look at you sideways if you choose to keep your own name. I also hate that keeping your own name is regarded as a radical act of feminism when in reality, it’s the most neutral thing you can do.
Not to mention, I like my name! It’s been my name my whole life, it’s part of my identity and it feels right. The thought of waking up one day and just being called something else doesn’t sit right with me at all.
On a sidenote, the practice of children taking their father’s name is beyond infuriating. So you’re telling me, a woman carries a living thing inside her body for NINE months, undergoes untold damage to her body during that period, suffers the most horrifying pain to bring the child into the world and somehow this is all surpassed by a man‘s task of * checks notes * having an orgasm?! Ridiculous.
I’m just so sick of it all tbh
Edit: to all the men lurking this sub so they can whinge about men’s rights and the evil nasty feminists: go outside and touch grass lol
Let me know if my opinion is invalid but in PVE content, specially dungeons, the body blocking from party members is terrible for melee players, mobs getting pushed/sliding around the whole place when hit, and the amount stagger mobs inflict on players making it really tedious for bigger pulls. I think some staggers are fine but there is too much right now.
In Robert Hunter’s version it happened in 1940.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stagger_LeeStagger Lee
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There's been no response from the consultant at all. We've met face to face last week during an awkward ward round but she didn't mention the email. She didn't refer to me by me name at all which was weird.
Thankfully, I've met with another consultant who is amazing, for an unrelated occupational health reason. She's like the only beacon of hope in an otherwise bleak department. I didn't even have to be the one to bring up the CS situation. She straight up asked whether I'm happy to continue with my current supervisor, and she pretty much handled everything from there.
I can't deny that there will be times when being stern won't cost me. But overall, since I've changed my outlook from "it's okay for seniors/colleagues to be unprofessional to me" to "I'm not taking shit from anyone" I've seen mostly good outcomes and my worklife happiness has improved drastically. I know we get it drilled into us that we should just keep things bottled up for the sake of the "MDT" or whatever the fuck, but the onus should be on everyone, not just junior doctors to be compassionate, friendly and professional. The way I see it, keeping things bottled up is how you become a bitter and resentful consultant in the first place.
I’ve always loved that line. Very vivid. Like a hapless Paul Blart type cop, who’s likely on the take from Stagger Lee’s crew who can’t police his way out of a paper bag. Leaving the only crimes he enforces are the victimless ones like tricks and johns.
With that said what’s your favorite Stagger Lee?
Historically speaking, names with "son" are surnames. Such a name definitely should not be used for a girl unless you acknowledge that it has no significant meaning to your child.
(Braces for impact)
First of all, we understand that we are fully in our right to name our own child however we please and I have no intention to apologize for our decision.
My mom said he is "just old school" but she is standing by him. This isn't brought on by anything else, I have been making a strong effort to be a model son, husband and now father, especially as of late. I even made Thanksgiving dinner and invited the whole family over as a sign that I want us all to come together as adults. My dad and I have never got along but been mostly civil. It's complicated - but things have been good for the most part lately.
I wanted to repair whatever was broken and start new; I have actually been making these efforts for about 7 years. I'm really stunned that he's ditching us like this literally day 1 of my kid's life. We have been cautious with covid and asked for them to give us space for now until we are ready to introduce him to them - they complained they feel left out. This might be a reason for lashing out but... still. Suddenly not speaking to me basically excludes himself! What the... logic isn't really playing here. He exited a fb group chat I created where I was sharing photos and videos of our child. Assuming it could have been a mistake I invited him back to the chat. He left again. Very, very clearly left. By doing this he is essentially declining to even receive photos of my child.
One of things here is that by taking issue with my wife's name he is obviously making her feel rejected. Its's passing the border from rude to just plain mean. My wife and I have been blissfully married for 8 years. She's an excellent role model and going to be an incredible mother. I love her very, very much. Basically we have a healthy relationship that I am grateful for (knock on wood!) So his issue with her name is confusing.
I am looking for key sentences that I can use whenever it is I speak to him next to explain that this has hurt us - without causing any further conflict.
Yes, I'm serious. I made a bet with a friend and and I lost. It was one of those bets you make when you know you couldn't possibly lose. And yet here we are.
I don't share my current surname with anyone in my family, apart from my dad who is no longer in our lives. I need some cool surname suggestions!
I have tried ippon, gozuki, mezuki, onryoki, and osakabe. Is there other stagger cores?
Don’t get me wrong, my family has great stories of enduring hardship and overcoming nearly insurmountable challenges on both sides, and I’m lucky enough to say that I’m proud of the heritage of both of my parents. But my mother’s maiden name is Rippingale and I’d be lying if I said I didn’t feel robbed of such a powerful surname
For starters, the raw power and tenacity that comes from the first and middle syllables, “ripping”. But then I’ve always associated the middle and last syllables, “-ingale”, with the nightingale bird. A creature that I’ve forever thought to be beautiful and graceful in every action
If it wouldn’t hurt my mum as much as I know it would, I’d legally change my surname to something that (to me) meant equal parts power and grace, which is pretty much the line I strive to walk in my life
Does anyone else have similar stories? I’d love to hear them
Hello everyone,
I have a large project of Jewish surnames and their meanings, language, and background information. To me, surnames are a huge part of our identity that's often forgotten, and you can learn so much about the past of Jews from them. I'd be happy to research yours or give you a definition, but I have a request:
Anyone who knows a Jew, whether yourself, a friend, or an ancestor, with an interesting or rare surname, I'd be happy for you to share it with me, but any surname at all is good, no matter how common or obvious, just in case I missed it somehow. Whether you know the definition or a legend, or know nothing about it and leave it for me to research, any name is useful. Rarer ones or ones with legends especially. If you don't wanna post it publicly feel free to DM me. It's important to me to preserve this element for the ages and to expand my database however possible to better show the wide Jewish history. Thank you for your help.
Edit: Very happy about the huge influx! Keep them coming! I created a subreddit called r/JewishSurnames to see requests and let everyone know about the progress of my database, I hope to see you all there!
How do they translate into English?
I hope she takes him to court. She has concrete evidence.
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