Resentment, a song from Kesha’s forthcoming album, will be released tomorrow! twitter.com/kesharose/sta…
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Our reaction to Kesha’s new song β€œResentment”! youtu.be/AYiTNcWTR78
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Kesha watches Caitlyn Jenner covering her song v.redd.it/f3ywid1s46s61
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I didn't know that the song "Your love is my drug" by Kesha is one of Apple's rarest laptops
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[TOMT][SONG] Mashup from 2010 or 2011 featuring Lady Gaga's Bad Romance, Kesha's Tik Tok and one more song

I can't remember what that third song was so it's almost impossible to find the mashup as there are quite a few mashups of Bad Romance and Tik Tok on youtube. It featured a well known rapper and a woman who sang the chorus. I believe that song was also quite popular in 2010/11. That's about all I can remember. Does anyone know the song or mashup?

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Kesha watches Caitlyn Jenner covering her song imgur.com/G5caBmN
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In 2013, a Drag Queen rewrote and performed a Kesha song as a Dionysian revel. They were kind enough to share the words and a backing track 🌈🍷✨ leroi-prince.tumblr.com/p…
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Imagine this song mixed by Kesha, damn I hope it’s on his next album v.redd.it/vzx6wgd7lyt61
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Searching for unreleased Kesha songs download link.

I was wondering if anyone had any links to a place where i could download the hundreds of unreleased Kesha songs so that i can import them onto my spotify.

Many pre-existing posts regarding unreleased material feature links which no longer work/exist.

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Times like this, just remember that one Kesha song

β€œIt’s going up, I’m yelling fuck yeah, you better buy. You better hodl. This is a stonk,I will remember, you better buy. You better hodl.”

Something like that Tits jacked

I drive around all day for work checking for updates when I can. I have learned so much every day from you apes that are far less smooth brain than myself. I appreciate each and every one of you and will be here hodling the line and my shares. I can’t offer incredible DD but I will continue to learn from the rest of you. πŸ’ŽπŸ™ŒπŸ»

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Day three of songs as ocs, die young by kesha
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Kesha performs β€˜Resentment’ on The Tonight Show (at home) youtu.be/s_5l_leevUw
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Old Crow Medicine Show adds verses to Bob Dylan's chorus; completing the new song "Wagon Wheel." Awesome live version with Kesha. youtube.com/watch?v=ArieG…
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Old Crow Medicine Show adds verses to Bob Dylan's chorus; completing the new song "Wagon Wheel." Awesome live version with Kesha. youtube.com/watch?v=ArieG…
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Kesha Talks New Song β€˜Stronger’ and Gushes That β€˜Vanderpump Rules’ Is the β€˜Equivalent of Xanax’ variety.com/2021/film/col…
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Kesha - Resentment (Video) ft. Sturgill Simpson youtu.be/fJ2iBrXVkRY
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IIL Kesha's Tiktok and songs with that Party vibe, WEWIL?

Thanks for your suggestions in advance!

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Covid: letting fully vaccinated skip quarantine in England β€˜will cause resentment’ theguardian.com/society/2…
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Former SAAB, Pontiac, Scion and Saturn salesmen/women, what was it like in the final days of your dealerships(s)? Do you hold any resentment towards GM or Toyota?
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Song of the week. Kesha’s β€˜Godzilla’ m.youtube.com/results?sea…
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Read the post to the beat of Kesha's Tik Tok song.
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I miss the times when tiktok used to be a kesha song and not a stupid app
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Kesha - Resentment (Video) ft. Sturgill Simpson youtu.be/fJ2iBrXVkRY
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Letting fully vaccinated skip quarantine in England β€˜will cause resentment’ theguardian.com/society/2…
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I resent my parents for being poor and having children

Edit: thank you so much for eveyone who shared their stories and for the people who gave me rewards, how nice. I can't respond to eveyone however there were some questions that I'll answer. My parent's had me knowing they couldn't afford me, however my mom is a type 1 diabetic and she was told she would never be able to have kids, so when she got pregnant with me I guess nothing else mattered, even her own life, she had always wanted to be a mom and her dream was coming true, even if it meant it was happening at the wrong time. I love love love my parents to death, atleast my mom lol. Just because I have some resentment for bullshit I had to put up with that doesn't mean I hate her, in fact everything I do now is to make sure her and my step dad can retire. I am currently financially independent. I got a new job and a new apartment, so I'm doing much better than my parents were at my age, however I still have some "poor people" habits that I don't think I'll ever be able to shake. Thank you all so much especially those that shared their similar experiences, its nice to know you're not going through things alone.

So I'm not sure exactly where to put this so I thought here would be an okay place. Lately I've been seeing in a lot more liberal groups especially, that saying poor people shouldn't have children is eugenics and it's wrong blah blah blah. But I feel like a lot of people saying this haven't had to experience growing up poor. In poverty, and homelessness. My parent's were poor and could barley take care of themselves, they lived in a motel when they got pregnant with me. My entire childhood was a horrible experience having to grow up and not knowing if you were going to get fed, or have a roof over your head, it fucking sucked. It hurt even more since I lived in a town where eveyone was well off, so as a kid I never got to experience things a lot of other kids do, like going to camp, taking summer trips to Disneyland, or playing their games on their nice TVs. Growing up being the oldest girl I raised both of my little brothers since my parents couldn't afford childcare, which led to me missing out on opportunities with my peers, I was so socially awkward for not being around people my age enough that even to this day, I am 21 years old and all my friends are in their early 30s late 20s because I feel like I cannot relate to people my age. I feel like I was forced to grow up way to fast and I would be lying if part of me said I didn't resent my p

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Kesha - Resentment ft. Sturgill Simpson, Brian Wilson & Wrabel youtu.be/fJ2iBrXVkRY
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If Mars is colonised, in generations it'll eventually develop it's own calendar to match the longer years. Having different calendars may be part of why it eventually resents and ultimately declares independence from earth.
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Do Americans coworkers resent their European counterparts?

I just finished a global company wide call where our CEO addressed everyone. He was at some point talking about HR and that he was going to schedule a separate call to address certain holidays for special dates.

I just realized as a new employee (in Europe) and starting from the bottom, that I may have much better holidays and other benefits than my American counterparts on the same company. I wonder if there is any resentment to your European counterparts working under the same company but having much different work benefits and private and work life separation.

Is this something that ever cross your minds or even bother you?

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Why is there so much resentment towards Nikola Jokic as the likely MVP?

I've been really confused and stunned at the passive-aggression from many in the league and media about the thought of Jokic as the MVP. The antipathy from Lebron during a press conference prior to the Suns series where he was pushing for Steph to get the award and paused before dissing Jokic, "I think Steph should get the award...........that's a whole different conversation". I truly don't understand why so many are upset with this thought. Jokic is a humble, soft-spoken man who is super-talented and played every game this season. Does it have to do with being European, or quiet or not flashy? I don't think anyone can argue with his production or leadership or winning, what gives?

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Or you could just not feel resentment and frustration... and still fit into all your old clothes again! imgur.com/FBJDC1K
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r/titanfolk wages a war with the controversial headmod as boiling resentment erupts over a fan made ending and the favourite mod gets stripped of their powers.

My comments in regular and direct quotes in italics.

So r/titanfolk . A meme sub for Attack on Titan which broke off from the parent r/ShingekiNoKyojin over the restrictive rules. It was founded by Sane-ni-wa-tori, the head mod in question.

AOT's explosively controversial ending which ravaged the fandom and split them into their own circlejerks out of fear of being attacked for their opinions by either side was met with heavy criticism from r/titanfolk . They were dissapointed as hell, and just when people started to move on from the manga it was announced by Isayama, the mangaka, that there were 8 more extra pages to be added to the chapter which was gonna be released in the volume which comes out in June along with a romcom about the most controversial ship and a guidebook.

The 8 pages which have officially not been released got leaked in high quality weeks back, causing another storm. It deserves it own drama post but I'll wait for the vol release so the romcom and guidebook backlash also before making one.

So in the middle of all this, fans decided to make their own fanfiction ending also known as a doujinshi. The group is called AOT no Requiem on twitter who also have a fanmade anime in production for the doujinshi. They were criticised heavily by people on twitter and reddit at times who felt fanfictions were disrespectful to the author, when they themselves mentioned they had no ill will to the author and all this was purely non profit.

So titanfolk gets hyped for this as their way to get what they want and finally move on, and request H-K_47, titanfolks most popular and loved mod, to make a leaks megathread as in tradition for titanfolk as they were notorious for it as any person who knew about titanfolk could tell. This was pinned in the sub, with many users happy. Until it got unpinned.

It was noticed and laughed at but comments were being removed as people began to spam 1984 in the comments.

Exhibit I

Exhibit II

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Resentment in a sexless marriage

Okay, been in a sexless marriage for 13yrs and together for 10years before that. My wife is an amazing woman and I absolutely adore her. We have a sexless marriage though and that has caused me over 20yrs of serial frustration. I reached a point a couple of years ago where I just stopped trying. Sex is rare, once every three to five months. My issue is with resentment that I feel towards her. Sometimes it makes me moody with her and that's not fair. I need to find a way to be okay with the situation because I have accepted now that it will never change. So if I am choosing to stay, I shouldn't feel resentment, I should try to accept it. I can't though, as much as I try, I still feel that frustration and sadness at not feeling desired or experiencing intimacy. Any advice?

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Kesha has written a song about our God, Nicolas Cage m.soundcloud.com/keshaclo…
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Pro Tools sessions for pop songs by Max Martin/Dr Luke (Katy Perry, Kesha, 2010 era songs) [REQUEST]

Hi guys!

Wondering if anyone has any full Pro Tools sessions for 2010 dance pop era songs. Artists like Katy Perry, Kesha, Pink, Britney etc). Looking specifically for productions by Max Martin or Dr Luke.

I know Katy's E.T session was floating around the internet at one point.

Thanks in advance!

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The older I get, the more I see that a lot of parents hold a subtle resentment toward their children for being young, and they try to live vicariously through their kids by controlling their lives

I began to notice this in high school in a lot of my friends' moms. They would take their daughters shopping, tell them how to wear their makeup, and basically dress the girls my age up like dolls and reminisce the entire time about how they wish they had a "youthful figure." My own mom would brag to me about how she was [X] weight at my age, and of course that weight was about twenty pounds less than I was. She would comment about how I just have a bigger body than she ever did, and then she would brag about how she always kept her figure after pregnancy. This was common among my friends as well.

I see it in boys and their fathers, too. My dad was a frat guy, and had the whole "tough guy" persona going for him. He likes sports like baseball and football, and put my brother in those sports when he was younger. But when my brother became a teenager, he started showing interest in things that were "nerdy" to my dad, and since then, their relationship has deteriorated. It took me a while to realize that the reason my dad is so hard on my brother is because he was living through my brother when he was younger, but once my brother started wanting to choose his own activities and acting differently than my dad, my dad started being cruel to him, obviously bearing a grudge against his teenage son for not turning out like he pictured.

Now I'm 22 years old. I got into running a lot in the past year, and I'm super proud of my progress with running. I'm now training for a half marathon and I want to get into ultramarathons. I noticed that whenever I talk to my mom about my passion for running, she gets mean and makes snide comments about how she used to run at a faster pace than me. She talks a lot about clothing size and weight, and since I'm now slimmer than she is, she seems to hold this against me.

I just wonder why so many parents have children at all, if they're going to treat them this way. It's super creepy that a grown adult would use a child to live through them, and force them to pick up things they aren't interested in just to appease the parent. It makes me think that most parents just see kids as accessories to their life story, and if they don't turn out to be the right accessory, they get ridiculed by their parents.

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Am I bad for feeling resentment towards my parents?

So, things are pretty terrible.

I was diagnosed at 24. My parents basically already knew, they just hoped (and STILL hope) I would grow out of being autistic. Because of this, I had to live my life till 24 wondering why I was SO different. Why all my year mates and even teachers hated me and called me freak, mental, different etc. My bf's all constantly told me I wasn't normal and berated me. One dumped me the day I found out I was autistic.
I was held to a standard I could NEVER achieve, and I still am.

It's like being a fish among birds and they refuse to figure out why I can't fly like them.

On a daily basis, and I mean DAILY, my parents call me names, get mad that I can't be normal, refuse to understand why I have sensory issues, no friends, don't work (despite being signed off by professionals), why I cant be normal like everyone else. (please no telling me "well what is normal". You know what I mean and what they mean. They hate I'm autistic).

Earlier this year, I tried to not alive myself twice, and my dads reaction was to tell me I didn't try hard enough, and when I told my mother I wanted to not alive anymore, she laughed. When I told them of the s*xual abuse I went through as a kid, their reaction was "I always knew that guy was weird".

I am 30 in 20 days. I have contacted a local autism charity and my local council for help to get me out of here. Which my parents are glad about because "You're at last doing something with your life!!"

They have, and still do, countless things that make me cry daily, and laugh at me when I cry and tell people I do weird things like twitch when stressed.

They refuse to see what I, and many other autistics deal with. I am classed as disabled, but they refuse to give me any dignity in that, that I MUST do well. Sheldon from Big Bang does so well, as my mother points out. Because heaven forbid they see reality of what we actually go through.

I could go on and on about how they are, but I feel what I have shared is enough to give you an idea.

Am I bad for not liking my own parents?

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Got baby trapped and now I’m scared I (25M) resent my son

Tbh I was still undecided if I ever wanted kids when I was with my ex. But I was leaning more on the side of not wanting them. Was always up front with my ex about it. She said she feels the same, probably doesn’t want any either. A year later all she was talking about was baby stuff. We’d be at target and she’s stop to look at the infant isle saying how cute the outfits look. Then she really started pushing it that we should think about having a baby together. I told her no cause I’m not sure.

Well 5 months later it happened. She confessed she stopped taking her bc because she rlly wanted a baby. Then when I started pushing her to find out what else she was lying about she admitted to poking a few holes in some of the condoms I had in my room when she’d spend the night. Believe me I fucking flipped on her. That was the end of our relationship and I still hate her for tricking me. The thing is my family pushed me that I still needed to be involved because my son is innocent. As much as I hate my ex I was there for all the ultrasounds, when my son was born, everything.

I hate to admit this but I still don’t feel anything. The birth was scary af. The first time I held my son I was freaking out. I didn’t feel no warmth or like I became a father. The only thing that came to my head was β€œThis is for life now.” He’s almost 11 months old and still feel that way. I’m tired and frustrated all the time. He barely sleeps through the night, cries the second u put him down even if you’ve been holding him for an hour.

Sometimes when I’m on my way home I stay parked in my car because I’m not ready to be home yet and deal with the chaos. I hate that I feel this way. I hate how tired I am all the time. I’m scared that I’m never going to love him or feel the way a dad should feel about their baby. Try to play with him, take him to the park just me and him, put a fake smile when I’m playing with him and he’s giggling, do our own stuff together to bond but all I think about is I didn’t want this. And it makes me feel like shit. I’m a fucking shitty dad and probably a psychopath because what else kinda person doesn’t feel love for their kid? I don’t wanna hurt him or make him grow up feeling like his dad don’t love him. Just want to be able to love my son and be the dad he deserves since I know he didn’t ask for this and he’s just an innocent baby. Idk if this is really the best place to ask but I’m willing to accept any advice if anyone has it?

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Expectations from family because I'm single & childfree are making me resent them

I'm nearly 30 years old, single and happily childfree. My family (immediate and extended) are good people who have never been abusive, I just have nothing in common with them. And my goodness, the small town they live in is dreadfully boring. I got out as soon as I turned 18.

I've built my own life reasonably far away with an incredible circle of friends and colleagues, as well as a fun dating life, but I'm constantly expected to travel back home for every major AND minor holiday/event because "you're all alone out there, why wouldn't you come back here for X reason?". And it makes me SO mad. I'm NOT alone!

Just because my sister and every cousin is married with 3+ kids by the age of 27 doesn't mean my life is an empty shell. I'm thankful every day that my life is NOT like theirs. Again, they're good people - I just don't want what they do, and they can't understand that. The kicker is that none of them seem very happy with their lives and the choices they've made, but they can't seem to understand or respect mine. There's definitely a vibe of "do you think you're better than us just because you moved away?".

The expectation that I'll just drop everything and constantly travel back and forth is making me resent them. "Just come home for two weeks at Christmas!", "X nephew's 2nd birthday is coming up, you better be here for the weekend!", "As soon as COVID is over, you're coming over for a long visit!". They don't seem to understand that I don't want to use all my vacation time to visit them - I want to use at least some of it for an actual vacation.

I work from home, which makes it even worse in their minds - "just bring your work home with you!". Why? So I can try to focus in my childhood bedroom while you constantly interrupt and talk my ear off? So I can listen to small town gossip about people I don't know, doing things I don't care about? Or look at a thousand pictures of my nephews doing things every kid who's ever existed has done? (i.e. "ohhh, here they are playing in the grass, and then they kicked the ball around, etc". Fascinating.)

I know a big part of it is that they genuinely miss me, so I feel bad about getting annoyed. But at the same time, I'm not a 20 year old college kid anymore - I have a job and life that I've built myself that makes me very happy. I'm happy to go back and visit on occasion, I'm just sick of being treated like a lost kid just because I haven't married and had children. I'd love to spend some of my holidays wit

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These are some of my most listened to songs of 2021, which one has the potential to go viral on Kesha's "TikTok"...

maria is a main pop app

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I am [30M] carrying a lot of resentment towards my husband [32M] after making a lot of sacrifices for his career. I am now mainly stuck at home with our son. What do I do?

I posted about this in a different sub but a few things have changed.

Late 2019, before the pandemic him and I moved across the country for his career. He was very unsatisfied and depressed because of work related problems so this mattered a lot to him. I had to quit my job because there aren't many jobs in my field in the area. I started job hunting but then the pandemic happened. I struggled a lot with finding a job and adjusting because of the pandemic. Because of the move I had to leave friends and family behind. My husband has both friends and family in the city we live in currently. Then my dad passed away, he was very homophobic, didn't even attend my wedding or has he seen his grandson in person and he was abusive for most of my life so I had a lot of conflicting feelings. I wasn't able to properly grief or see my mother and siblings. Eventually I found a remote part time position that I dislike.

During all this my husband's career has been flourishing. He is earning nearly double what he was earning previously. However, I feel I am really struggling and he doesn't understand. I told him how I felt about my job and that I feel unsatisfied and all he had to say was "just quit, I'll cover finances". However, nothing about that seemed genuine because when I told him I rather find a better job he started complaining about childcare costs and it's better if that money goes towards our deposit. I explained to him that I really miss my life before all this and he constantly just brought the conversation to him and how he felt. I told him that nothing about our situation now is equal and that I feel depressed being home all day with our son. How do I get through to him. He's prioritising his career over everything else.

He finally agreed to couples counselling. We have been actively discussing finances and our ability to afford a full time nanny and the logistics of childcare. I proposed that both of us work part time so he is spending a bit more time at home, actually being a parent but he is against the idea. Has anyone ever been in a similar position that they managed to compromise on?

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πŸ‘€︎ u/throwra-resent
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Interesting. Kesha collaboration with Sturgill and Brian Wilson. 🀯. Not released yet. Track 8- Resentment. celebretainment.com/music…
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What emotional labor do you regret accepting or resent, how have you changed the load level?

Studies have shown that women do the majority of emotional labor in a relationship. This includes remembering birthdays/anniversaries, arranging outings and events, staying in touch with your SO's family, being the peacemaker when you argue. How did you get there, how did you get out?

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