I recently just lost a partner due to me being gone for one day straight without a response even though we RP’d the day before and she claimed I just ghosted so she wanted to end it.
Being from halfway across the globe her(Italy) me(South Africa) times zones are a little messed up and I do tend to write back as soon as I can because we had a discussion about what we expect from each other like ground rules including ghosting. Like yesterday there was a network error that completely didn’t allow me to be online for about the entire day and I couldn’t send my response and until my wifi was up and running again I wrote up a response at 2AM before I went to sleep and later it so happened when I woke up I got a very angry response about ghosting and bad communication for one day even though I explained I had a life outside of this that was busy enough as a college student and the fact that I couldn’t write a response made no sense to me as ghosting as much as I explained the situation and apologized.
Now did I do something wrong and if I did how to act on it in future because I’m genuinely unsure of my wrongs?
-Miyata losing against Mashiba
-Miyata falling out of rank behind Ippo after Ippo wins the Rookie Champ title, feeling insignificant Miyata moves overseas
-Miyata middles about in Thailand while he hears of Ippo winning the 5th rank in Japan. Miyata manages to defeat Ponchai.
-Miyata returns post Ippo vs Date. Miyata doesn't do anything other than to continue to rise in the OPBF rankings.
-Ippo wins the Japanese title. Shortly after Miyata fights Arnie for the OPBF title.
-After getting the OPBF title, Miyata has apparently constantly been sending challenges to the Kamogawa Gym against Ippo which Kamogawa has been refusing in secret.
-Ippo begins forming new ways to improve the Dempsey Roll and defeats those who say they can destroy the Dempsey roll like Shimabukuro, Karasawa, and Sawamura. Meanwhile Miyata has been defending his title.
-Ippo and Miyata begin to seriously plan their match, however they are first forced to postpone after Miyata sustains an injury. The second time they go to plan their match, Miyata cancels the match so he can go for Randy Boy Jr instead, severing the relationship between their two gyms.
-Post RBJ, both Ippo and Miyata just do their own things, with Ippo challenging the Pacific champs and then the world and Miyata defending the OPBF title.
I made this list because Miyata seems like he is more concerned about setting the "right" stage for their match, while Ippo straight up doesn't care and just wants to fight. Miyata technically had plenty of time to fight Ippo when he first returned to Japan, but just decided he didn't want to yet. The only time their schedules do line up, Miyata flubs it by sustaining his injury. The second time, Miyata has the choice to either fight RBJ or fight Ippo and he makes his choice. Since he ruined their gym's relationship, they won't look eye to eye to schedule their next match. Miyata wants the perfect scenario to fight Ippo, but it just won't happen that way
Today I really didn’t achieve what I wanted to do, I felt depressed and anxious. Then I reminded myself that this is all part of the process, everyday i make improvements on how to manage my bipolar. Don’t be so harsh yourself, it’s not your fault this is happening. I want to remind you that when in depression, don’t believe what you brain tells you. In depression everything looks hopeless and like you have no control. Your brain is going to create thoughts are completely lies. You aren’t who you truly are when in depression, remind yourself of the person you really are. Bipolar is like the flu, yo are not the flu, you get the get flu. Again, this isn’t your fault, but it is your responsibility to manage it, as hard as it is. Sometimes you can’t, again, don’t be harsh on yourself. You can get through it. Medication helps, but only so much. What really helps me is knowing that the negative state your in is going end, it’s temporary. Come to this sub Reddit and remind yourself you’re not alone, it’s okay. It’s all part of a process. You’ll get through it, you’re a tough person, you’ve made it this far, take it easy on yourself. Hope this helps if anyone is going through the same thing.
Investigator didn’t come to church? You could have followed up more. Investigator dropped you? You didn’t teach them well enough. Didn’t hit baptismal goal for the month? You didn’t work hard enough.
Then I came home and applied this to my marriage. Wife is unhappy? I’m not a good enough husband. Kids are crying? I’m not a good enough dad. Don’t have enough money? I’m not a good provider. Fuuuuck. That horrible teaching gave me so much guilt.
Then I read in “Feeling Good” by David Burns about the 10 cognitive distortions that lead to depression. Here’s #10.
PERSONALIZATION: “This distortion is the mother of guilt! You assume responsibility for a negative event when there is no basis for doing so. You arbitrarily conclude that what happened was your fault or reflects your inadequacy, even when you were not responsible for it. Personalization causes you to feel crippling guilt. You suffer from a paralyzing and burdensome sense of responsibility that forces you to carry the whole world on your shoulders. You have confused influence with control over others. In your role as a teacher, counselor, parent, physician, salesman, executive, you will certainly influence the people you interact with, but no one could reasonably expect you to control them. What the other person does is ultimately his or her responsibility, not yours.”
But Lynn G. Robbins is a representative of Jesus called to shepherd a flock of innocent 19-21 year old boys and sometimes girls (yay lady stuff) right?
Hey y’all. I’m doing research for something and realized the relative closeness of the New Madrid fault line in west Tennessee and the Eastern Tennessee Seismic Zone.
We have reason to believe New Madrid will eventually have a “big one” and I was wondering if that could trigger a “big one” in Eastern Tennessee as well? My apologies if this is an ignorant question to ask.
What stuck out to me in the talk between Kody and Gabe was Gabe said he was told different COVID guidelines from each mom. Kody was like well that shouldn’t happen because I gave them the list. BUT that was Kody throwing the women under the bus because for a long time the wives were asking about the rules and wanting a list. In the end Gabe seems to blame the confusion on the moms but it was Kody’s fault. Thoughts?
Hey all, long shot I know but I've gotten re-interested in 9/11 since the 20th anniversary happened and I've read in many places that there were 18 people who survived in the South Tower who were in the impact zone of Flight 175. But I can't find a list of them anywhere. I can find individual accounts from different people but no complete list.
I was just hoping someone may have one from some source.
Thanks!
Edit: I’ve posted my list in the comments.
I’ve lived and worked in the same two cities my whole life, and as I’ve grown, I’ve noticed there’s really a very small percentage of flowering trees, shrubs and flowers in general in this area. I’m feeling the weight of all the negativity from issues around the world and I’m feeling totally lost and overwhelmed because I can’t change anything…I can’t make people be kind to one another or help fix the enormous issues all across the world, and I just want to try to do this one thing. I just want to try to help the bees. I’d like to compile a list of plants that are beneficial to pollinators and present it to city council to see if there’s a way to implement adding more of these beneficial plants to help combat the rapid decline of bees, and even butterflies. When I was a kid we used to see Tons of butterflies every summer, and now I’m lucky to see 1 every so often… I can’t make an impact on the world alone, if someone with better knowledge of pollinator plants, and their possible affects on the environment can help me, I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks for reading
Edit: I’ll be posting my list in the comments as I update it. If you took the time to read everything, I thank you and appreciate you.
I despise the maps with two zones. It's not the losing on them, because even when I win, it's this feeling of "thank fuck that is over"
I know it's petty but I'm really tempted to sit out any time I see Triggerfish or Skatepark
Hey! I recently have been getting into 30k from 40k and was wanting to start a Night Lords force for Zone Mortalis. I wanted to use a bunch of the Night Lords iconic units and from what I saw, Terror Squads and Contekar rip ass in Mortalis. Idk if this is at all viable so any advice is appreciated!
++ Zone Mortalis - Combatant (Legiones Astartes: Age of Darkness Army List) [1,000pts] ++
+ Elites: +
Apothecarion Detachment [90pts]
. Apothecary, Legion: None (Infantry, Power Armour), Power Armour
. . Chainsword or Combat Blade: Chainswords/Combat Blades
. Apothecary, Legion: None (Infantry, Power Armour), Power Armour
. . Chainsword or Combat Blade: Chainswords/Combat Blades
Contekar Terminator Elite [265pts]: 4x Contekar, Dissident may exhange his chainblade for an Escaton Power Claw, 3x Heavy Flamer, Tartaros Terminator Armour, 2x Volkite Cavitor
+ HQ: +
Delegatus [105pts]: Bolt Pistol, Headsman's Axe, Melta Bombs, On Foot, Power Armour (Centurion/Consul), Refractor Field, Warlord
. Consul
. . Delegatus
+ Troops: +
Terror Squad (Compulsory) [295pts]: 9x Executioner, Melta Bombs, 10x Volkite Charger
. Headsman: Bolt Pistol, Nostraman Chainglaive
Terror Squad (Compulsory) [245pts]: 9x Executioner, 10x Volkite Charger
. Headsman: Bolt Pistol, Nostraman Chainglaive
+ Allegiance +
Legion and Allegiance: VIII: Night Lords, Traitor
Rite of War: Terror Assault
the linked list is defined here:
struct Segment {
int state; // alive or dead (1 or 0)
};
class Snake {
public:
Snake() {
Segment s1;
s1.state = 1;
body.push_back(s1);
}
list<Segment> body; // the snake's body
and the block that is causing the problem is this one:
void Render::render(WINDOW *win, Snake *s) {
for (auto iter = s->body.begin(); iter != s->body.end(); ++iter)
{
if (iter == s->body.begin()) { //check if it is the head
wprintw(mainwin, "@") ;
} else {
wprintw(mainwin, "-");
}
wrefresh(mainwin);
}
}
When render() is called it actually outputs the "@" but then it crashes into a seg fault. removing the iteration stopped the error from hapening but I have no idea why so if anyone can help I would be grateful.
P.S: I am also open to suggestions regarding how I structered the snake's body, I mean like how I made it a list of structures, I am new to the language and not sure if this is okay to do or frowned upon.
TIA
UPDATE (in case any lost soul stumpeles upon this post and feel curios about how I fixed the issue): changing render() so it would take a const reference rather than a pointer fixed the issue, and the lesson we learn here today is not to use a pointer when you don't know what you are doing.
Thanks to everyone who helped.
