I never would have agreed had I known that he wasn't actually interested in a homemade Porno, and instead wanted to make me into a Snuff Film...
We have a foot fetish. Grow up
Has anyone got any recommendations of good films, preferably documentaries, about kink?
I can’t seem to find many so I was thinking about making my own (I’m a filmmaker)! But I want to see if there’s any hidden gems I’ve missed
Thanks!
I’ve been reading some Barker over the past weeks (and enjoy the Hellraiser films) and I’m actually loving the kind of kink/sexual aspects that are explicitly used in this stuff. Any more books like that? I’m definitely not one for straight up erotica, but if it’s like those that’s no problem. Thanks I’m advance everyone!
Edit: forgot to mention that queer books are very, very welcome here, as I’m Pan myself. But anything really!
Edit 2: hey everyone!!! Thanks for the recs! I certainly wasn’t expecting this much! But y’all can keep them coming for sure as I’ve seen quite a few people save this post for themselves too, but I won’t be able to reply to everyone. Thanks again :)
Like the hero says "You murdered my parents!" and you just hear distant erotic moaning
Me and hubby (both of us cishet, straight, 40's, married over a decade, one kid)
Today I asked for some time to talk with my husband. (I tried to follow all the advice. A good time, with no other obligations, when we were alone; said i was a bit nervous to talk about it but that it was important to me to talk to him about it, approach it honestly and gently and with love)
I told him that recently I've been struggling with my negative thoughts. That I had felt sexually shut down and depressed for a while. (our sex life hasn't included vag intercourse for a long time. we are affectionate and get sexy and handy in the shower but he comes too quickly for me to enjoy vanilla sex, which is historically my favoured activity) I told him that I was interested in seeing if a D/s relationship was something for me to explore. This is based on me quietly being super horned up by power imbalance scenarios in fiction and anime. I told him that it's a very new thought and that I hadn't taken it any further than having an honest talk about with a friend of mine who is a kinkster and therapist. That I had made no plans or goals at all besides reading the literature my friend gave me. I told him that I wasn't really sure if this was legitimately something I would end up doing but that I was trying to just take it one step at a time and just listen to my body, which gets super turned on by these thoughts. I said i wasn't interested in actually doing anything that would hurt him or us, that I was not interested in blowing up our life. I was honest about the fact that our sex life has been so quiet, that part of it is because we just never fuck anywhere near long enough for me to get into it, but that part of it is because I have become shut down and I want to wake myself up again. I said I"m also interested in seeing if maybe having a controlled kink where I'm degraded would help me manage my negative thoughts in the rest of my life.
My husbands first reaction was distress and tears at the thought of me being even touched by another person. That if that happened he would start at sad and devestated and end up being enraged and hurt. He said the first place his mind went to was me being put in pain and that it was super strange and jarring to picture me in that situation. (I clarified that I'm not interested in pain) I asked about what scenarios turn him on, if he gets off on fiction or film and he said that really what turns him on is just straight up having
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(Before going off, I would like to say that I'm not used to being triggered by a TV drama or going on expletive rants online)
I actually shocked myself with the eye-rolling irritation that came over me whilst watching the opening scenes of Episode five of the Gossip Girl reboot.
I actually stopped the show, and had to cool down from being so irritated by Rafa's zero f*ks shamelessness. Again, I really did shock myself, as I couldn't believe how irritated I was by what I was seeing play out on screen.
I began working backwards to articulate why this bothered me so much more than other problematic 'sexcapades' in GG lore.
I'm glad I decided to finish the episode because they turned Rafa's character into a depraved and malicious villain as he should be. But I was actually filled with contempt and borderline disgust at that opening scene, that I actually started looking internally thinking why am I so disgusted? Is this some sort of weird internalised homophobia? Like...I needed to talk. 😅
Everybody knows the scene I'm referencing right? You're a teacher at a prestigious school in New York City, you're having an affair with your 17 y/o student. That's already bad! But THEN, the temerity to do it at school, not even after hours or in a secluded location, but during the ACTUAL....school.... day.... When you should be working, WITH THE DOOR OPEN! (it's that part for me I just can't get over it).
I think it was the distinct abject lack of shame that irked me the most. Dude is literally moaning loudly, not even trying to be quiet, again, with the door open! 🤯 As school children literally pass by within earshot. C'mon. It's just insulting at that point! What does that say about his mindset? Is this job not how you pay your rent? Don't you care about your career? Is this some kind of sick exhibitionist kink for the children? Yo, there's no
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Whoops. Now don’t be sad, ‘cause two out of three ain’t bad.
I know we all wish diversity in the stories. After 14 years, whenever there's a movie of a new superhero, we basically know they're gonna be the next piece in the bigger MCU picture and the villain will have their plan thwarted and most likely die (Ant-Man, Dr. Strange, Black Panther, Shang-Chi, etc.).
I'd love to have my expectations subverted in an MCU film where at the end, after a lot of theories, hype and whatnot, the hero dies (not necessarily fails) and a really good villain is ready to tackle the other heroes on a future film, maybe even setting up what their plan will be about.
Edit: to those saying Infinity War and Thanos you gotta read again. I said a film of a NEW superhero where the villain actually survives and continues being a threat for the other heroes, and the newly introduced, lead superhero dies. Infinity War was nothing like this, mainly because there was no superhero introduced and the villain was known years prior. I'm thinking something really bold, completely different than everything done in the MCU to this day.
Someone said Ghost Rider. Hell, what about a movie with Jhonny Blaze and Mephisto where at the end Jhonny dies, Mephisto grows in power and is up to Danny Ketch and the Midnight Sons (Blade, Black Knight?, Dr. Strange, Moon Knight, Wanda) to defeat him? That'd be cool.
It’s nearly impossible to choose my favorite song/scene duo, but three of my favorites are Ordinary World by Duran Duran in the movie layer cake, Head over Heels by Tears for Fears in Donnie Darko, and of course Where is My Mind by Pixies in Fight Club.. What are your favorites?
I (22 female) and my boyfriend (26 male) have what I consider to be a very healthy sex life. He has a lot of kinks that I am usually very supportive of no matter how weird I find them. His past kinks have involved things like bondage and more unusual stuff like incorporating food into sex. Some of these have made me feel a bit uncomfortable in the past but I am fairly open and willing to try new things so often go along with it to make him happy. However more recently he has suggested the idea of trying consented not consent. Every-time he would bring it up I would change the subject but a few days ago he sat me down and had a serious talk about wanting to do it. I explained to him than I wasn’t comfortable and found it too weird for me and he continued to push it until I said we would talk about it later ( I was a bit tired of the conversation).
I woke up the next day to him feeling me up and when I asked him what he was doing he said he was trying the new kink as ‘I seemed into it at the end of our conversation’. When I pushed him off of me he shouted that I was kink shamming him and gave my a long talk about how I wasn’t open enough.
I feel really bad . Am I in the wrong.
UPDATE:
I just want to start by thanking everyone for their comments they really reassured me that I was in the right.
I met up with my now ex boyfriend at a party for New Years as we have a-lot of mutual friends and just happened to be at the same place. Very early on in the night I let him know that all of his things are packed in my apartment ready for him to pick up in the morning because I was breaking up with him. We had a huge argument about why I was doing this and I told him I was no longer comfortable in the relationship, he told me I was a pussy with commitment issues and that was the end of that conversation.
I tried my best to avoid him the rest of the night just because I didn’t want to deal with him especially after a few drinks. I want to point out quickly that he was not drinking because he was the driver of his friendship group and was never much of a drinker anyway but I was very drunk.
On the lead up to midnight as I was very intoxicated I went over to his group of friends and started dancing with them. He almost immediately started grinding on me and I was not in the right state of mode to stop him. As the night progressed he had poured me a-lot of drinks and we had ended up kissing on the couch. He then tried to get me to go upstairs but luckily my fri
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So recently me and my bf were just talking about random stuff and then the conversation led to him saying how he can notice what people like even if they don't mention it, just like how he notices I'm "kinky" even though I never tell him my kinks. I go on to say he doesnt know the full extent of my kinks.
The next day we continue the conversation and he's asking me what I'm into. He's just really curious and asks me what my deepest "shocking" kink is. That he won't judge and I should trust him since we've dated for like 7 years now. I was really hesitant because I wouldn't want him to judge me or call me weird.
Well while we were driving home after college he asks me what my "worst" kink was, I go on and think. Now I'm into being peed on. But I was hesitant on telling him but then I remember months back he made a joke about how "I'm those freaky girls who like to be peed on" I thought that meant he had a bit of a clue. So in full confidence I said "well you probably already know but i guess my worst kink is being peed on". He then exclaims "wait what?!" And that's when I realized I fucked up DX. I go on to get extremely embarrassed thinking he knew when he didn't. He just sits there in bit of a shock kinda laughing at himself.
I don't tell him my kinks because even though I know it's normal, I just feel embarrassed and shy because he's pretty vanilla (and don't see the reason if he won't engage). Now these past days he just kept teasing me about it, saying things like "aw man I gotta pee, cmon open your mouth" and it's just agh! It's like my deepest secret exposed. I don't know if I should feel horny or embarrassed with him teasing me about it.
Sigh at least he doesn't know that I'm also into sniffing him/ his underwear!
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