Hello dear RP ladies. I am here for your genuine advice and opinion - I do not want no sugar coating nor I am here to play victim. I just want opinions of like-minded women. I am 28 years old ( just turned today), I am beautiful, take care of my mental and physical health, have a successful career, I am financially independent from my parents for over 8 years, I am in general independent - I've always wanted a partner in life, not just an ATM. I've always been low drama and internalize my problems. So far I've had two LTRs - those are the only two men I've kissed and had sex with. I've been living the RP without realising it. I've never wanted to just screw around or mess with guys that I do not see as LTR material. I've had a 10 year relationship with a man who is RP by nature and maybe upbringing . We were high school sweethearts. However we grew apart and decided to mutually end it. It was a no drama break up. After that I decided I did not want another relationship or just ONS and focused on being happy on my own - I went nun mode.
In September last year I started a LTR and a long distance one with another RP man (37 years). He got the pill only after reading Rollo's book a couple of weeks before we met. Two years ago he was unhappily married, had a child, everything in his life was falling apart. One night he hooked up with an old friend and started an affair. The affair went on for three months and he eventually decided to leave his wife. He moved to his mistress' apartment to live with her. She was 33 and had Borderline Personality Disorder ( a classic example), narcissistic, always she was the victim, was very dramatic, was nagging him, blaming him, degrading him but she was also his oneitis and the sex was great. After 3 months of living with him she decided to dump him and go back to her ex. He had to move back to his mom's place for the weekends. He works now in another country for now. His mother treats him much the same way as his mistress - he's raised only by her. He has no father - didn't want him. He also went bankrupt, in a lot of dept and sued at the same time this was happening.
When we met he was honest on his first date about his past. I was fascinated by the way he treated me so kindly, by his looks, by his strength to go through this and by his sexual energy that I decided to for it. The only thing that bothered me was that he was sounding like a victim. Our relationship to him was unlike any other he had before - we were
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I (25F) met a guy (25M) on Bumble about 5 months ago. We hit it off immediately and had a very strong connection. Things progressed at a very rapid rate - within a couple months, he was professing his love for me, talking about how he couldn't wait to get married and have kids and settle in Toronto (our hometown) with me. I thought it was moving a bit fast, but after a previous relationship that ended in infidelity, it felt nice to be wanted like that, so I leaned into it and let things move quickly. I fell completely in love with this guy and saw a real future with him, and he said he felt the same way over and over again. He called me the love of his life and offered me the key to his apartment a week before he went on vacation to Hawaii for a week.
Fast forward one week, he has a great time in Hawaii, and apparently it "awakens" something in him - he no longer wants to settle in Toronto with me; he wants to move around and explore and eventually put down roots somewhere else. He knew I wouldn't want the same (we discussed this early on in our relationship - I want to stay in Toronto to be close to family and work on my career), so we ended things. Now, I don't mind someone figuring out what they truly want in life, but this man confessed that by the time he got back from Hawaii, his feelings for me had died. How can someone go from calling me the love of their life and wanting to settle down with me so badly, to not wanting a life with me at all, in the span of a single week? I genuinely thought that he loved me, but love doesn't disappear so quickly. Either he never really loved me or he only loved the idea of me because I fit into the life he originally thought he wanted. Or, there's something genuinely wrong with him, where he can switch his emotions on and off like a light switch. Whatever the case, I am now deeply hurt and confused by his quick change of heart, and am finding it difficult to trust again.
Please…I am only 26 years old and am suffering very greatly. I know God is the only one who can bring me out of this. Thank you <3
The title mostly explains it. He helps fellow inmates by using his powers.
I remember watching this movie on tv in the early 2000s (def before 2005, so I think it was made after 2000). I know it is definitely not “The Healer” (2017), but sort of similar.
This man had powers to heal people of illnesses and kept it a bit discreet. At some point, people are lining up to be touched and healed by him. He has some sort of relationship with a woman who eventually leads him to lose his ability either by the guy losing his virginity to her or she becomes pregnant and his ability passes on to the unborn child.
This was one of those “I’m bored and it’s on TV so I’ll watch it kind of movies” I never finished the movie and just always wondered how it ended. Any help or direction if finding this film is appreciated!
I'm a caregiver for a man with quadriplegia. Just a first level nursing student so I'm not very knowledgeable yet.
He has a pressure sore in the crease between his left buttcheek and thigh. It's very mild (I think?) It was bad about two years ago, and he was admitted to a rehab facility where he had to lay on his right side to heal it. It's barely coming back now, it hasn't progressed really in the past six months. Right now it's a slight indentation that will occasionally bleed, but apparently it's gotten a little worse this week. I only see him on the weekends so I'm not there every day to look at it.
The day person is insistent that he needs to sleep without a sheet on his bed so the wound can air out. He has a very fancy mattress, not sure what exactly it's called.. it has an air pump that like moves air through it and alternates the pressure? I have no idea. Anyway, coworker insists that there are microscopic air holes in the mattress and he needs to sleep without a sheet so the air can reach his wound. Seems like a bad idea because the mattress is like plastic, seems like it would really irritate or chap his fragile, papery skin. Also, she insists that we need to put his foam wedge under his left knee while he sleeps to relieve pressure from the area, which sounds more reasonable.
The coworker doesn't have any higher education, I'm not actually sure where she gets her ideas from. I'm not too knowledgeable about it either, so I figured I'd ask you guys!
I think that it'd be ideal if the man would lay on his right side until the sore completely heals, but he is very, very, very stubborn. He refuses to see a doctor about it because he's scared he'll be put on bed rest again, and he really likes to be up in his motorized chair.
