I(45f) have two kids, (13m) and (15f). When at home I never forced my daughter to wear a bra as I understood they could be uncomfortable. Yet as of late my son hasn’t been wearing underwear at home and is just wearing larger shorts. I confronted him about it and he said it was just more comfy. I told him that I didn’t care and that it was inappropriate. He said I was picking favorites and I told him to stop being disrespectful so he went and changed. Now I think he may be right in that since we’re all family I should just let him be and not force it at home so AITA? Edit: no he isn’t flashing as I mentioned in a comment I only noticed when he was doing laundry
I thought I'd share a few things that I was shown at my first Pelvic Floor PT assessment which has drastically helped my hip & lower back pain (sorry for formatting, writing on my cellular).
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When going from a sit to stand (and vice versa), make sure your feet are hip width apart, one slightly in front of the other and pointing straight forward. I have noticed since my appointment, my habit is to have my feet turned outwards and heels nearly touching. I can feel the difference in my hip/lower back when my feet are in a proper position
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When side lying, make sure your hips are vertically stacked. My belly weight, and just not paying attention had me rolling my top hip further forward than the back without realizing. Now when side lying, as long as my hips are stacked/aligned, I can lay on my side 3x as long before needing to readjust
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Do not sit like a lady! Make sure your legs are spread apart and aligned with your hips. This not only helps keep your hips open, but creates a space in your pubic bone that helps with pressure throughout the whole pelvis. If you have to cross your legs, put your ankle on your knee, don't do a full lady-like cross.
Though seemingly like small suggestions, these have helped me immensely. I wobbled into my assessment Monday afternoon, in constant hip pain, barely able to walk normally and by Wednesday the hip pain was only when lying in the same position for too long.
Another HUGE help was the PT explaining I was ok to sleep on my back. She said I would feel symptoms (nausea, dizziness, etc.) before any harm could be done to baby, and while I don't spend a ton of time on my back, having the option to switch to my back for a little bit, along with the other things I mentioned, has helped me sleep so much better.
If this even helps 1 pregnant person, I'm glad I shared! Best of luck to everyone on this sub! Cheers!
I tried googling but everything just says to do the Elite Heroic Hive (Last Avenger Standing). Is there another place to grind for this?
So, I've noticed recently that some pro-lgbtq+ companies have started manufacturing and selling underthings and advertising them as being for trans folx. Specifically I've come across gender neutral swimwear and undies and even some binders. And the websites feel normal, not awkward or sexualized at all. But I still don't see such products with AMAB femmes in mind, I.e. umdies for tucking. Gaffs are great and all, but they come in like, three shapes mad of satin and polyester. Idk about anyone else, but honestly my biggest issue with undies is that the crotch area isn't wide enough; women's undies are understandably designed to be comfy for female genitals. But none of these 'allies' are selling anything decidedly for trans women, even though they certainly sell things for trans men. If I wanna find undies I have to find obscure websites, usually of foreign companies, that feel sexualized and fetishized, just to buy something that isn't really all that comfy. I don't usually need a full tuck, just a bit more of a tight fit than men's underwear and a bit wider gusset to keep everything in place. Like, even full on granny-panties don't have enough material between the legs.
No, I don't wanna do the sock and nylon trick, I don't wanna have to do any tricks, I just want normal undies from a normal website or store. I want something designed for me, I want to be represented in the economy.
Anyways, am I missing a great place to shop or what? Is there a brand that maybe has a bit more fabric between the thighs in general? Am I just looking at things wrong? Lemme know!
Someone has recently girdled three 100 year old cedars on City of Port Angeles property along the Discovery Trail below Gales Division.
Anyone know who it was?
Looking for a quick consult, sorry if this is the wrong place.
About a few weeks ago I started feeling intense pain, that I would describe as a muscle cramp, in my left trapezius region. Sometimes the pain would go up towards the occipital bone. This then led to tingles down into my left arm into my middle finger and weakness in my triceps and pectoral. I can normally overhead shoulder press 70lb dumbells but I can't lift 25 lbs overhead with the affected arm and can't fully contract my left pec.
I have full mobility, flexion, extension abduction and adduction. Just looking for any guesses. Sounds like a pinched nerve?
Thanks in advance.
And also stabbing your epigastric area straight through to your back.
Anyone else have this?
Planted this 3 months ago. It's a desert museum Palo Verde. After rediscovering some videos from YOH about girdling roots, I decided to revisit this tree, as I thought I had some questionable roots when I planted it. What would you do about these girdling roots? I started to remove some, but wonder if the root ball looks similar. As It's only a few months in ground, do you think I should dig it up and cut off any circling roots?
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https://imgur.com/a/K2PwUKc
Hi folks,
I've used a Reebok 9k girdle for a few years now, but I've never actually used the thigh pads with it. I always just used it with the pads that came in the pant shell, so kind of a hybrid pant/girdle setup.
With hockey starting back up I figured I'd try out the full girdle system this season. I'm just not quite sure where the thigh pads should fit relative to the shinpads. With pants the thigh pads go over the knee protection, but you can't do that with a girdle. I know you lose some coverage with the girdle, but how much is too much? Just get them nice and snug and as close to the knee as possible without interfering with mobility? There's surprisingly little information online about proper girdle fitting!
Looking for oval diamonds, both of us want lab-grown. Was looking around the ~1.5 carrot range, willing to go up a little. I keep finding everything that looks perfect (per all the articles / Googling I've done) and then a girlde that's a big no-no, per everything.
Help! lol
A Freudian Slip
I'm 34+4 and the past few days my groin and pubic bone had felt sore and I just assumed that I had pulled a muscle working out or something. But then it didn't go away and I couldn't think of what I would've done that would've pulled any muscles. After some googling, I think I have PGP / SPD and man it is NOT comfortable! I'm wondering if this is common and if anyone else is/has dealt with the same thing?
My next doctor's appointment isn't until next week, so I'm just going to try to take it easy until then. Any advice??
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I recently moved somewhat near a freeway and the number of insanely loud cars is insanely insane.
I'm a guy, but whenever one passes my house my loins tenderize with the thought of the manly free-spirit behind the wheel who doesn't live by society's rules. Sure, it causes me to miss 5 full seconds of any other sound whatsoever... and sometimes wakes me from a dead sleep making it tough to fall back asleep in so much excitement, but it's worth it!
The blaring whine, screaming "Look at me! Look at me! Hey everybody, are you looking at me? Do you see me?" seems to send a subliminal, primitive signal to anyone within a quarter mile that a real alpha is nearby. And while the increase in noise is always exponentially higher to any actual increase in speed, I assume that's done on purpose to give everyone more time to see them.
I'll be honest, once they've passed that minivan - who obviously has no right to be on the same asphalt as them - and let off the accelerator turning their Charger/Import/Supercar into the world's loudest popcorn machine, a little poop comes out sometimes... but it's clearly from exhilaration.
I imagine any women in Los Angeles that leaves the house must just be in a constant state of arousal and marinating their entire commute? Do you just not worry about it and leave a trail everywhere you go like you just got out of a pool? Do you pack a dozen panties in your purse and change every time you get where you're going? How do you stay dry while constantly surrounded by such incredible masculinity?
I was bit late for work today, so took a quick shower and quickly wore cloths. Then i suddenly felt sharp pain (insect bite) on my "woody". Turns out, it was big Roach and his sunken his "teeth" (i am not if its the right term) very deep. I had pull out that roach some part of that roach was still attached there. The first i learned that roaches can bite. P.s. - roach mean Cockroach.
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