(M20) I'm not sure about my sexuality, I thought that I was straight but recently I've been conscious that I'm attracted to men as well. The thing is that I want to experiment and suck dick ,and from there see where it takes me. The problem is that I don't feel comfortable asking and doing it with some random dude from internet/grindr.
So here's the thing, I have a friend, who is gay, that I talk to sometimes and we run into each other at some gatherings (we share some friends), but we are not very close. Would it be rude to ask him to let me suck his dick?
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This thing kind of blew up, I got quite a few comments while I was expecting to get like 3 answers, thanks to everyone who commented and sorry for the late answer, I was craming for an exam and now I'm done with it. Also, I'm sorry if some things I write sound weird or don't make a lot of sense, my english is far from perfect.
Having secret conversations is inconsiderate of the others you're around, especially if you're in the middle of a group activity where communication is key. Even more so if you do it over someone else speaking as if it's not distracting since it's not the same language.
EDIT: For those who missed the subtlety, I'm not talking about strangers on the bus or breaking away from a conversation at a party, I'm talking about being in a group conversation, or worse group activity, and starting talking over others in another language, that's being a dick. Just like you'd be if you were doing it in the same language, but people often see it as a social exception, when it's still being a dick. Not talking about translating for people, and not talking about people who only speak another language. When everyone is perfectly capable and swap to exclude others. Expanding though if you do have company over and have long conversations in a language they don't understand excluding them as they sit there looking into their phones, that feels alienating and rude, even if you don't realize.
For even more context, this generally happens to me in games with random players or company work projects, and they will swap languages and start another conversation when everyone's trying to plan what we're going to do, speaking over everyone else as if it's not distracting. Happened today in a raid in Destiny 2 and two players kept speaking in Russian over the callouts about a side conversation, and they spoke English very well. They kept being distracted and dying, and the rest of us couldn't hear each other.
EDIT 2: Lots of rude people out here with poor reading comprehension lol.
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he looked kinda sad so i just gave him an oral lol yeah and i just told him that I'll call him when i can finally do it
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Hi all, I’ve been reflecting on this a lot the past few years. When I was younger I concluded it was more grown up not to react, be the ‘bigger person’ and be non-reactive when someone is rude / a dick.
But then I got older - I was treated like a doormat by a few people and decided I had been wrong. I then went through a phase of almost always reacting. I could be blunt and rude equal to what I received. I pissed off a few people and probably put off some potential new friends.
I’m now wondering where the balance lies. No one wants to be a doormat. But so many people say it’s better not to react e.g. guided meditations and that semi famous The Chimp Paradox book. What do you guys think? What works for you?
There’s no excuse for being rude to people for no reason and you’re not justified because you woke up on the wrong side of the bed. Stop acting like a 12 year old going through puberty and control your emotions, it truly isn’t that difficult.
Just why. Please inform me.
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TL;DR- We should- ideally- live in a society where its ok not to know something. Saying something is Common sense - goes against this idea.
Clarification 1: Just because something is rude doesn't mean you can't say it- I'm saying its hostile. My issue is not that people say it but that people say it and don't seem to think its rude and unhelpful
Clarification 2: If you're talking about it in the sense of innate knowledge- like survival instinct or basic language acquisition I'll give you a pass. Not jumping off a cliff might be common sense because it's a sense everyone share.
Ok- thats out the way...
Here's the baggage you add when you describe something as common sense and why I disagree with it:
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Its not "a thing you didn't know" its "a thing it's not ok, not to know". If you either a) Come to a different conclusion b) didn't realise all the facts in making a decision or c) take a little extra time to reach a decision- its not that you haven't encountered this problem before- thats not good enough- you should have immediately known what to do.
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its saying that you as a person lack in a quality valued by society. This immediately takes a practical issue or misunderstanding and turns it into a personal nasty attack- you're basically calling the other person an idiot for not knowing something you know. Accurate- maybe; hostile- yes
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People have different experiences in life meaning something that is obvious to one person is not obvious to another. If you say something is obvious to you and therefore should be obvious to everyone else it implies a notion that your experience is the default/ correct and another persons experience is inferior.
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Its used as a 'get out clause' when someone is doing what you asked them but in an unhelpful way. "Why have you mopped the floor"- "You said to mop the floor every weekend" "Well its common sense not to do it just before I'm going to cook". Be clearer in what you want people to do.
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We should- ideally- live in a society where its ok not to know something. Saying something is Common sense - goes against this idea.- This is the main point of my argument- argue against this to change my view.
Let me give some practical examples:
a) People assuming you know something because they know it I live in the UK. Outside of big cities people have outside bins- so as soon as a bin is full you take it out. In big cities there is nowhere to store rubbish. So moving from o
... keep reading on reddit ➡So I am not very vanilla and the last time we met he asked me to play with his balls and I said no. I felt bad. I like giving blow jobs and I’m not opposed to licking and sucking balls but this guy isn’t always the best down there. If we plan to meet again, would it be bitchy to tell him he has to take a shower first?
Does this have to do with the host Gordon Rude reputation as compared to the good reputation of the Australia trio? Or does this say something about USA and Australia as a whole?
