The Night We Met (HomeTown song) Puns

As title says, I matched with a guy from a dating app & he came over my place. From the moment I started talking to him, I felt that rare instant connection/spark/chemistry that I don’t feel with just anyone. No awkwardness at all. Lots of mutual attraction (a few minutes in, he looked straight into my eyes & sincerely said, “You’re really cute” with a smile).

After watching a bit of a movie & talking (great conversation even during the movie), he made a move & we ended up having sex (after a looot of kisses & foreplay). The sex was AMAZING & we had multiple sessions with lots of sweet cuddles in between. After the first sex session, he played a song on YouTube titled “You’re the One.”

Before coming over, he told me he needed to leave by 10pm for work the next day. Well, it got past 10pm & he changed his mind, saying he didn’t really need to go into the office tomorrow and could just work from home.

I offered that he could spend the night if he wanted to. After a min, he agreed & said he’d spend the night. We cuddled literally all night long & had morning sex + cuddles.

Before he left in the morning, he said he wanted to hang out next weekend. Once he got home, he texted me & we’ve been texting sporadically.

I left it up to him to decide what activity we’ll be doing this weekend.

Tldr: Hooked up with guy, amazing chemistry + sex, he wants to actually hang out next weekend. I have a bad habit of going “all in” and being committed to someone before even being exclusive. Should I keep seeing other guys? Does this sound like he’s potentially interested in a relationship?

I just listened to Phoebe Bridgers hometown. The minute she said "Albuquerque" I got that murderino jolt of recognition, wondering if this was the murder she was about to talk about. Like Marissa Mathy-Zvaifler, I was also a big, big Atmosphere fan in the early aughts, and I've listened to this song (and subsequently fell down the internet research rabbit hole) many times. It's been over 15 years and I still know most of it by heart.

My favorite lines were always:

"And when I think about her mother/ I become another number that wants you to suffer"

and

"And if you ever find God/ Better pray to her and ask that we never cross paths"

The song doesn't give any new information about the murder but I thought people might still be interested: https://youtu.be/xV1INqUr4o0

Edit to include Marissa's name.

It’s just embedded in my brain now because I was a fan of that song for years, and that moment when they both danced just made that song have a sticky note in my head per-say. It gave me the chills when I first seen it too because I was like THATS MY SONG THATS MY SONG😻

I’m on mobile so going to attempt to be as brief as I can. I’ve been in the LS for about 4 years off and on. My gf and I (both 26/25) have been dating for 2.5 years and we started getting into swinging about 1.5 years in. Haven’t had a lot of experiences but once we moved to a larger city, we met a wonderful couple. My girlfriend is extremely picky and she was very into him. The girlfriend was also cute and had a amazing personality. Both of them were in their 30s and fun to hang out with.

We met up maybe 4 or 5 times total with them. We’ve gone out for drinks, karaoke, or other fun things around town and then had two or three MFFM and one MFM. Now, my girlfriend is a little heteorflixible, but she much prefers the dick. She wasn’t really interested in playing with the other lady after the second time, but was fine receiving from her.

The last time we met up was over drinks. We all have busy schedules and it was a Sunday. The bar was nearly empty so it was just us, but after drinks were done I told them we’d drive over to their new apartment. Once we got in the car, my girlfriend said she was feeling a little awkward and uncomfortable and wanted to go home because she was also a little tired/stressed out.

Totally cool. I texted them the update and let them know she wasn’t feeling good and thought it’d be best to stay in.

So afterwards, we both reached out in the group chat asking if they were free to hangout over a weekend, maybe 3 or 4 times. The last time we reached out they were traveling to this really cool house a few hours from town and said that next time they’re there, they’d invite us.

I stopped reaching out to hang out after that, because I was feeling like they were ghosting us.

Does anyone have any thoughts? After looking for meeting couples for drinks for over a year we finally meet a couple we really enjoy and then poof!

The guy loves playing with my girlfriend. I’m wondering if the girl wanted more girl on girl play and she doesn’t want to continue.

I’m also a little annoyed that my girlfriend bailed at the last minute (after they paid for our dinner). If that happened to me, I would definitely be upset.

My girlfriend suggested I text the other guy myself since we’ve gone back and forth before with normal and joking conversations.

😞

You can chose any 3 songs you’d love to hear each contestant sing before the show ends.

My wife and I are legal guardians for a 16 year old girl from another country. We have looked after her since she was 13. She turns 17 very soon. She is a very smart and self-sufficient. She gets on very well with us and our kids. She is a pleasure to have in our home.

In the last few weeks (to our knowledge) she started a relationship with a guy she met online. He is either 19 or 20 years old and is not known to us or anyone else in her social circle. Once I learned of this I made sure she was aware California's strict age of consent laws. We also talked about some of the consequences of sharing explicit images. We told her the man could not visit our home without our permission. She promised to abide by these rules but also made it clear she did want an intimate relationship.

We give her a fair bit of independence which includes having a room quite some distance from our family bedrooms. Last night I was suspicious the boyfriend was in her room. I checked our home security cameras. I see footage of him leaving at 5am. She is currently unaware that I know this.

I'm pretty sure the man has secretly stayed over on other occasions based on her recent out-of-character behavior. We don't normally see her after she's had dinner because she likes to keep herself to herself. However, recently she's been coming out late at night to see if we have gone to bed as if to check "the coast is clear". She did it again last night which is why I got suspicious the man was in the house.

We don't really know this man at all. He visited our home one time; a few weeks before we suspected a relationship. At the time we were just told a friend was coming. We didn't even know it was a male friend. We bought them both dinner. Although we were in the house the whole time the man didn't introduce himself or say thank you for his dinner. I bring this up because it was a red flag to us that this guy was pretty shady. Now I have proof that he thinks it is okay to sleep over at my home without permission.

So before I confront her I want to be pretty clear on where the law stands for her, for him and for us.

Despite the potentially serious implications of a 19/20 year-old engaging in sexual relationship with a 16 year old this brings up some other issues such as the man potentially acquiring tenant rights if we allow him to stay over.

As legal guardians in California are their repercussions for us if our 16-year old ward engages in sexual activity with or without our p

When “The Night We Met” comes on shuffle and you look around to see if Clay is okay...

I made a playlist with every song from all 3 seasons in order! The original soundtrack compositions are not available so they are omitted.

Enjoy, and take care of each other.

https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/13-reasons-why-ultimate-playlist/pl.u-8aAVXobUNX5gMo

Hi guys,

I guess everyone who watched the show loves the night we met by Lord Huron (and lovely by Billie Eilish of course) and knows the kind of feelings they're causing when listening to them. I'm lookin for more songs that fit into this category of sad/emotional/nostalgic/dreamy melodies.

Appreciate any recommendation :)

We just clicked.

Our relationship lasted 4 years. He says we were happy for roughly 3 years, and only because in the last year he has been unhappy with himself as a person, not with me. He ended our relationship two weeks ago by dropping me at work, saying "lets have pizza for tea" and moving out.

This is the man I planned a complete theoretical wedding with, and didn't want to get engaged to until I finished postgrad studies. We talked about a dog, children, a house, a lake house. We planned a viable future together. Then life got stressful and those things went on the back foot. I honestly thought we were going through a rough patch that with time would become better, even if we had to go to couples counselling.

Last night after his own determined NC time had passed we met up. It was weird and awful, but also nice. This breakup was completely unexpected to me. It has been the most AWFUL two weeks of my life.

But in the meet up, we both cried, and I understand his POV better. He had tried to tell me he wanted to move to his home town more than once before and I tended to shut that down. Not because I wasn't open to the prospect of moving there, but because I thought he wasn't being serious all the time. He'd say it at the most random times, and we were talking about moving to a city that is bigger than the one we currently lived in together to start fresh at the end of the year. And my studies became more and more stressful and demanding, and he tended to be on the receiving end of the stress sometimes. Likewise he was promoted at work several times, and his stress landed on me.

So after this breakup happened in the way that it did, I was left confused and scared about the future. He's done similar things before with regards to breakups, i.e. totally out of the blue. But those other relationships had different factors involved like cheating which our relationship did not. So I thought "Oh this is like those other times... the complete randomness of it"

When we met, we talked, cried, laughed, and discussed our future. Plus had stereotypical amazing sex that happens after a breakup - old habits and all that. He says we can see each other once a week or so as friends, and try pseudo-dating which I agreed to, because to go from seeing each other daily to not seeing each other is a lonely and scary thought. He said he needs a break from life in general to go home, get out of debt, be with his family. I understand that; we see my family a whole lot more because they are

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtlgYxa6BMU

This song, when I first heard it, ugh like a punch in the face painful. Now it is a haunting comfort blanket. if that makes any sense.

What are your thoughts?

I'm trying to find the right song to walk down the aisle to at my wedding and everything I like has sad/inappropriate lyrics so I'm having to rule it out.

I really love The Night We Met by Lord Huron, particularly the start, I think it's so ethereal. However, it's such a sad song!

So WEWIL The Night We Met by Lord Huron and that is wedding appropriate please? :)

(I don't usually do these, but I've been sitting in this one for a while, so here it is.) Hey, I know it's been a while, but I was wondering… Can we just like, go for a walk or something? Maybe meet in the morning for breakfast? I just wanna talk to you. Not about anything specific. I just enjoy your presence. I like being around you. I want us to talk like normal friends again. I don't want our only reason to talk to be, we have to talk about "things". I just want to laugh at each other's corny jokes. Or listen to you make superhero references because you know that I enjoy them. I want your favorite superhero to be Spiderman because you knew he was my favorite. I want to stay up late talking again. I want to send each other songs and talk about visiting exotic places. I want to be invited over for bonfires, which ultimately will lead to us sitting in the tree house talking about the stars until we just fall asleep there. I want to be able to sit by your lake again, complaining about the neighbors dumb shack. I want your dad to tell us that hot dogs are on the grill for the millionth time, but we know he's just going to burn them anyway. I want your brothers to poke fun at me while you get embarrassed because you are worried about how I feel. I want your youngest brothers to refer to me as "the one she always talks about." I want our families to do things together because they hoped that we would get a happy ending. I want our Sunday mornings to go back to you calling me in the morning to make sure I got up. You always hated sitting in service alone. I want us to be standing by the water fountain after church while at least half the congregation walks by, telling us we are a cute couple. Even though we were never together. I want to be back at your birthday, when all of your friends were invited and they all asked "Is that him?" I want to be sitting around the fire while all of them giggle when we sit next to each other. I want to be there on that doorstep, as you cry into my shoulder because you thought the whole world was crashing down. I want to be back at homecoming…. Looking into your eyes as you tell me why you need me. I want to be back in that slow dance, as I pulled you close, thinking that I would actually try to kiss you. I want to be back at that football game. Hands touching right before the big play. Leaning into each other because we were all that mattered. I want to be back in your arms… sobbing because my "dad" had just walked out on us

That goddamn song. Every time I hear it, I try to fight back the tears.

That dance scene, I just wanted Clay and Hannah to continue without any interruptions or cockblocks.

I take it I'm not the only one who feels this way.

First of all, I’m a 23 year-old woman and he’s in his mid-thirties. I realize it’s a significant age difference, but we had an instant connection. We also work in the same industry and most of my friends are in their thirties or late twenties. We have a lot of mutual friends, hence why we were at the same party.

Anyway, I am a US citizen who has lived in Canada for a year. My work permit is expiring and I have to wait 6 months before I can renew it. I’m leaving today. After a year of meeting nobody, I meet him on my last night in Canada! I plan to be back in Toronto once a month until I can move back in January, but I can’t exactly ask him to hang out anytime soon.

Should I still go ahead and text him? What should I text him about if I won’t be in back town for at least a month? I’ve never connected with someone to this extent so quickly and I can’t stand the idea of letting this go.

reflection in their chapel. It was stunning. As we sat listening to the live band play familiar Christmas hymns, my daughter was flipping through their song book, and the Bible, obviously looking for something. I suggested Luke 2, 1 - 20.

Then she looked at me visibly upset and asks “where is Nephi?” I explained gently that the church we were visiting didn’t use the BoM. She was not happy! I reminded her that one GC we mapped out the various flavors of Christianity and that Lutheranism was a branch from which the TSCC sprung and walked her down the path to Brother Jo.

She was placated, but I’m not sure how to proceed from here. Thoughts?

I just wanted to say a big thank you to the 3 x random legends my friend & I got matched with last night on a causal game of conquest.

Kewada / Rybosome141 / SadJokeR142

You guys are legends.

My friend plays Smite on the Switch. Last night he agreed to join me for a game on PC. He mainly plays Support so we tried to queue for Duo lane.

Match making didn't go our way... I got Carry and my friend got Jungle, so we agreed to swap. This is where something went wrong. During the selection phase my friends game crashed (I think he alt tabbed or something) whilst he was trying to sort it out he somehow selected Artio. Artio for Carry. It was too late. We had all locked in.

Whilst my friend restarted his PC I explained to the team what had happened. The support (Ganesha) kindly agreed to go damage build (lol).

The match was a bit of a shit show to be honest. But a lot of fun.

The "Auto-Build" feature generated the most stupid build possible for my friend (no idea what went on there), which the team noticed and started giving build advice to my friend. In a constructive way, possible not negative.

The communication in game was spot on.

Arthur in Solo lane played an amazing game. Nox in Mid lane did crazy damage. I probably had the best game of my life as a Jungler getting 20+ kills and unlocking the Hard Carry achievement.

And to top it off we won!

Thank you guys for a crazy but fun game. Your understanding and commitment to game was spot on. Cheers.

I moved to Australia and all my family is still in the UK, my dad got the Oculus Quest and I have the Rift S and last night we met up in VR Chat. My 70 year old nan put the headset on for the first time and we had the best conversation in years, she's hard of hearing but in VR she could hear me perfectly. She even got used to the hand controls and was giving me high fives etc. I kept asking if she could believe what we were doing. It sounded and felt like we were talking normally.

The whole experience was surreal, if our avatars looked like us in real life it would have completed the experience. I honestly can't believe what is capable right now. I feel like we live in one of the best time periods to be able to see this technology grow up and get better all the time, rather then just be bought up with it and not appreciate it for how amazing it is.

We just clicked.