Recently I tired logging into WealthSimple and I had repeated errors logging in. When I did get access I was having trouble buying and the app was lagging. I check twitter and AWS is down, others have same issues. A whole crypto exchange apparently was taken down.

https://i.imgur.com/3inPvgF.jpg

I immediately get flashbacks to January and feel guilty for not moving more to my CS account while I had a chance.

Eventually able to log back in but the whole time I was petrified of losing my shares.

Now I plan to move ALL my TFSA shares to CS and that will give me some contribution room to buy more next year. It won’t give me all of it back because my average is a little higher.

I’ll then move my personal account shares to my TFSA and directly buy from computershare.

I DRS through them before and it worked so I will do it again and pay their fee again, using BMO and IBKR has a high chance of having two separate accounts which are hard to consolidate without a medallion. If anyone has any ideas let me know.

I am wishing I could, but I can’t find my way there, I just don’t.

I feel like it’s a certainty they will cheat again. I feel like it’s a certainty they will communicate with or see APs again. I feel like it’s a certainty some kind of infidelity or inappropriate or disrespectful behaviour will happen at any given time.

I can’t get to where I have relief and can rest from that.

I don’t know how we can do life this way.

I'm past one week and 2 days of DDay, had some trickle truths moments before it and now everything is in the open. She doesn't trust me at all and I gave all the reasons.

We are not living together, and talking too little through text. She asked some time to deal with contractual issues and etc, and I'm also giving her time.

But how did you begin to work that and proceed on it?

BS, what did you think was effective to build trust?

Edit: I've decided to edit the post as I had done it by phone during work, I couldn't fill up the details comfortably. I never edited anything on Reddit before so I don't know if it notifies people that commented here or not, hope it does.

The Affair person in question was a friend of ours. We met her and her partner(they have an open relationship) around 4 years ago, and around 2 years ago we had the first PA. My BS had no information about what happened until last tuesday, the final DDay. She had some suspicions but I denied everything even while trying to recover her. This was the trickle truth moment, I disclosed everything to her but the physical affair I believe. I was yet to disclouse this part but I was a coward on every opportunity that I had, and I felt like I needed some more IC and strategies to tell her in a proper manner. We only had physical encounters 4 or 5 times and all were disclosed. First 2 years ago, and all the others in September. We had nothing in between, not even talked.

My SO had a bomb dropped on her by the AP's partner, telling her everything that happened. Since then our contact has been short and straightly dealing with some small details, like some contracts or accounts we shared. She believes no word I say and she has all the reasons to.

Before all this happened, I had proposed something she feared a lot: an open relationship, with AP in question. She cried a lot, and I now realize I was being textbook manipulative partner and full time jerk with her.

We are living apart now for a month and a half, and I began IC just before moving. After the first session of moving, I realized I want to recover and help her heal through what I've caused, so I began to talk to her about all this. This was on October 10th.

By last week I had disclosed everything but the PA. My IC didn't guide me exactly on this, he was helping me on more individual problems and situations than the overall situation, and I feel like if I had found this subreddit and all the resources that I found before, things would have

And with that trust will come upgrades and commentary that distinguishes old guard from new guard. Now we can trust this company. Now we can trust management. Now they have a viable business model.

Clean break.

The floor is in, the downtrend is broken, as is the bankruptcy thesis. The trend going forward is higher. The chance for RIDE to get favorable CNBC, Cramer, WSJ, Barrons, and so on is much greater. IMHO share price is going to explode higher over the next 24 months.

Hi Reddit. Need some advice and no better place than here. I found out a month ago that my husband had been sleeping with escorts while we were dating (5+ years). We were in a LDR so it was tough for me to catch him or see signs. We got married a year ago and within a year I caught him drunk texting another escort service. He says he never acted on it. He only told me about the cheating ( during our dating)days when I threatened him with a polygraph last month after finding the text to escorts.

I forgave him but told him that he needs to quit drinking for a few months as he every time he has been with escorts alcohol was the catalyst. Last week I left the country where we live to be with my parents for a few days. Within five days of me gone, and him promising me he won't drink, he drank again at a work event. He explicitly told me before the event he won't drink and yet he did. When I confronted him he started calling me controlling and got really angry.

My question to you all is there any hope here? If he can't even show remorse for a month and goes against his word the minute I am not policing him, is there any chance for this marriage to survive?

My parents are asking me to forgive him and ignore it as to them it's not a big deal so I would love some advice here.

Thanks so much for reading.

8 months ago I discovered his cheating. Sexting old friends, having a completely separate girlfriend, buying nudes from randos and people we went to school with alike. It's been 8 months and I feel like he's been faithful, I feel like he's been trying, but I just can't look at him the same way, or think about him the same way. Oh sure, there are some days where everything feels great, everything feels fine and dandy. But days like today, the ones where I just wake up thinking about it are extremely rough. I try my best not to rub it in his face, and I resist the urge to snap at him, but in suppressing my emotions, I start to just shut down. I don't get angry or yell, I'm not that person. I've always been quiet with my anger, but recently, my anger has been turning into pure misery. I have trouble eating, trouble sleeping, I just sit in bed all day and read, scroll through reddit or stare at walls.

He knows I'm not on top of my game like I normally am, he sees it in my eyes no matter how many smiles I fake. I can't help feeling so broken sometimes. Every time he takes a long time in the bathroom I get jumpy, everytime hes in a different room, I get jumpy. Every time I start to picture our future, I get jumpy. And then I get sad.

What are some things that I can do to lessen these feelings? What can I do to dampen the emotions that keep pestering me?

My wife of 17 years had an affair with my best friend that lasted a few months. I found out in January. We stayed in the same house and tried to reconcile until July.

In July, she went on a trip that I asked her not to. I could tell she was "emotionally" gone already. While she was traveling, I moved out. I tried multiple times to get her to realize the severity of her actions and she was very checked out already.

Fast-forward to now. I have a nice apartment, sold my van for a 2 seat sports car, crushing the gym and all that jazz. I'm content with my life now.

Two weeks ago, we had our first couples counseling session. We were asked what we want to work on and my wife responded with "learning how to regain trust with BS." Other than that statement, the entire session was gaslighting, blame-shifting, all the normal stuff that I've been dealing with for months. It was very sad to experience.

I do want to give her a fair shake though. The therapist asked us to both work on gathering a set of goals and thinking about what trust looks like.

I just don't know what trust looks like. Trust is not having an affair in the first place. Trust is being able to not give a second thought to my wife being around my friends without me being there. Trust is built over 17 years, not recovered in a few weeks or months.

I took my wife off my phone plan because I didn't want to have to care about who she is texting. I opened my own bank account and removed myself from our joint account because I don't want to have to see where she spends money. I never ask her where she is or what she's doing. Initially, after I found out about the affair, the snooping consumed me. I learned that I would never have the answers I wanted and I could either let it consume me, or just move on.

The concern I used to have for her and what she was doing (pre-affair) is just a dead space now in my mind. She's hovering around in my life, but not in the same way as before. It's really hard to formulate the words.

tl;dr What does trust look like after an affair?

My wife (WS) and I are working through reconciliation. We are working on trust in our relationship...I trust her with the kids, money, and do believe she would be there for me if I needed her...I trust her in so many aspects....I even believe she would help me get away with a crime :)...j/k...trust is a big thing for me. She is doing her part, taking ownership, remorseful, and full of guilt and shame...I see it, she talks about it....we both want our marriage and family to work...our marriage had some holes, I had not always been the person I needed to be, we both were unhappy, she was depressed, and she started a friendship with the AP to help him out with his relationship (chatting on FB over Politics, Covid, Election...it escalated from there over about 3 months...she liked the attention, felt safe because she was not attracted to him, not her type, etc...and then it went from an EA to a PA...I discovered it, contacted AP and his wife, she cut it off and went NC on DDay 4 1/2 months ago...we have been in MC and things in many ways are better than before....it’s really weird.

Here is the question for the WS’s....

For those WS’s reconciling and making progress, trying to rebuild trust, your marriage, your relationship...have you omitted/held/hid information/details/acts of your affair from your BS that they asked you about to not break what you are now building or hurt them further or did you lay it all out on the table and come clean during DDay and subsequent days (meaning did you get it all out there early in the process)?

A year ago I (f 37) found out my WS (m 36) had been sexting women for 15 months. We started MC and he started therapy (which he dropped for money reasons and never picked back up).

We had a pretty okay rebuilding phase and got to a place that felt mostly normal. We paused MC and were going along pretty well until last weekend.

His tell is he gets very angry when he's cheating. idk why, but he is really fucking mean to me overtly when he's also being mean to me by cheating. I'd noticed the anger and when his phone buzzed, I checked it. (He gave me the PW as a gesture of trust/good faith after last time.)

And there it was. Apparently this time it wasn't multiple random strangers on an anonymous app but it was a woman he met on that app that he started following on Instagram. He's been sexting with her for 7 months.

He couldn't even go a full year. I wasn't even fully healed from last time. Is it even possible to salvage enough trust to maintain this relationship? Am I an idiot for thinking THIS is the time he'll change? Has anyone here successfully recovered from being cheated on twice?

I hate that I’m even considering this. It’s very uncharacteristic of me to go to these lengths to try to gain some grasp of confidence that she won’t go back to the AP. I need advice from anyone who has thought of doing this and/or anyone who has done this and the result of it. Is this wrong to do?

Short background...My wife has been NC with the AP since the affair ended 3 weeks ago (The affair lasted a little over a year) She has told me countless times that she won’t go back and I WANT to believe her but obviously that is impossible. On DDay, I caught the affair from looking at her texts and she confessed to everything. Since DDay, she has blocked him from everything and deleted his number. She has willingly given me access to her phone at all times. She will even answer phone calls on speaker and any unknown number that calls or texts her, she tells me about it right away. So, she is doing a lot to prove to me she will stay NC from her AP. I even asked her if she needed closure with her AP and I would be willing to let her send one last text if she needed to to completely move on and she declined and said there isn’t anything more I need to say to him. So, her actions since DDay have shown me she will not go back but the unknown is sometimes too much to handle.

However, what if she got a text from a “random”number (the number would be a google number and it would be me catfishing her) saying something like, “Hey, I just need to know your okay and I miss you” If she responds to the message I will know she has not moved on. If she comes to me and shows me and doesn’t respond, then I know she is really committed.

Man, I never thought I would be at this place in my life... Any thoughts on this? Would I be making a mistake?

We are almost 2 years past D Day. There is a large part of me that believes that he will never cheat again (he was on dating apps and messaging other girls inappropriately), but I do have moments where I wonder if he is still engaging in bad behavior.

I have anxiety about him being on social media because that is how he used to message other girls. I have asked him to delete his accounts to help alleviate my anxiety, and his response is that I should delete my accounts too if he is going to delete his. He has also told me that I can check his phone whenever I want (his only condition is that I ask to see it and don’t snoop behind his back, which I am happy to agree to). Last night, I was having some intrusive thoughts and asked to check his phone. He proceeded to tell me that he gets anxiety when I go through his phone and that I should let him go through my phone to “take his mind off of me going through his phone”. He refused to hand over his phone unless I handed mine over.

His response to my requests is so frustrating because I feel like he has no right to ask me to delete my social media accounts or hand over my phone because he is the one who destroyed the trust in our relationship. He is the reason I feel the need to look through his phone. It just feels like he is more concerned with addressing his feelings than helping me work through my trust issues with him. It seems like he’s only asking me to do these things because I’m asking him to do them, which seems immature to me.

I guess I’m just looking for others’ perspectives on this. Is it reasonable for him to ask that I delete my social media accounts and hand over my phone since I’m asking that of him?

I’ve been trickle truthed. I want to reconcile but it’s so hard because I cannot get any ounce of myself to trust him and it feels impossible. I’m so hurt and sad.

Any BS feel this way but overcome it somehow? What did WS do? I’m wondering if it’s at all possible or if I should give up and move on. It feels impossible. Is it?

It's a long story but I'll try to make it short. Been married 7 years PA happend about a year in but I didn't find out until a year ago. Lots of EA's in-between because he is polyamorous but didn't realize until about 2 years ago. We're in reconciliation. He's doing good for the most part, we both have days where we drop the ball a little but I feel that's to be expected. The main issue I have is not believing that he wants me anymore. Despite all the reassurance and affection I just cannot get myself to believe he really wants me anymore and it's turning me into someone I don't like. I've always been a fairly independent person but lately I just feel invisible. I want to feel like someone thinks I'm interesting not strictly sexually, just as a human being in general, but no matter how much effort he puts in I just don't believe him anymore. I am at a loss as to how to deal with these feelings..

I have one of those SOs (27 years together) where any small query or fight can turn into her saying "well that's just me so I guess this isn't going to work out." Used to hear that in our 20s but it's made a comeback since the Affair in Dec of '18. Since Affair I have worked my butt off in reconciliation to try to trust again. But I've noticed an odd pattern. She is often doubting ME. Come close to calling me an outright liar on such mundane statements as "Remember when we saw David Bowie." she will respond "We never did that..." sometimes aggressively. What is going on? I asked her today if she thinks I make things up....she literally gaslighted my query within 6 sentences but anyway....she said "Sometimes I don't trust you." this would be ok except for one major problem. I am an OPEN BOOK. I am EXCEEDINGLY honest. to a fault. she might bring up a white lie I told the mailman to get a package redelivered. But that is not kept FROM HER. That's told TO HER. So what is this? And when I asked today she said "I don't know. I'll work on it but if it doesn't work for you tell me." i said "It does not work for me." She says "Ok maybe we should separate." i say "Do you want that?" she says "No but you say this doesn't work for you." i said "Mayonnaise doesn't work for me either but I'm not gonna slit my throat over it." Married 20 years. 2 kids 17,19. WTF is going on? Her affair was brief with a young guy, mid 20s. 1 night stand 2 month EA but all in her head not on paper/text. It is over in every way but I cannot get her all the way back except when I threaten D. We had a very good marriage by all accounts including hers. I got sick a year ago. contributed.

So here I am again. Going around and around with my WA trying to figure out if we can make this work.

We decided last week we needed some space. I had posted about it, that he got a hotel room for the night because he doesn’t want anyone to know what’s going on so he didn’t want to ask to stay somewhere. He had told me he was going to a certain hotel and texted me that night saying I’m falling asleep good night. This was about 10:30. I later see that he charged a hotel room to our account In Atlantic City. After he text me he says he couldn’t sleep and decided to go to AC. Mind you the last incident we had was while he was in A.C. in June. He didn’t tell me about it and I confronted him the next day when I got home. He said I didn’t give him a chance to tell me and he wanted to tell me face to face. I think that’s a load of shit. He could have told me that night he was going but said well I thought you’d be sleeping.

I was so worried about taking a break for this exact reason. I feel like he clearly isn’t sure that this is what he wants. He said he didn’t tell me because it’s not my business where he is while we are on a break. While I partly understand that I also feel like he wouldn’t feel that way if he had good intentions. I left and went to stay at someone’s house and he sent me all these texts saying he realizes he messed up and he doesn’t want to live without me. Well obviously I was not feeling very trusting and I went through his phone and saw him that he looked up directions for another casino while he was out a supposedly working. He claims he didn’t go but thought about it. This is all while I sat home waiting for him to get home 3 hrs after he told me he’d be home originally.

My main issue has been his lack of wanting to spend time with me and the kids. He seems to be trying harder to be present but then he pulls this shit. I told him it’s going to take me time to trust again and I need him to be an open book to help me do that and he doesn’t know if he can live like that. I don’t see how it’s far that he caused all this but can’t deal with the repercussions of it. He wants me to just get over it and move on.

He’s never given me a reason why he cheated and then why 3 years later I can’t prove he cheated but he called an escort while in A.C. in June and was having an inappropriate friendship with someone at work. They were flirting and talking shit about me.

Is this too far gone? Is there anyway this can work? Does he not give a shit

And how helpful are they? My WH is committed to our marriage now, he is very remorseful and open with his phone, computer, questions, the whole thing. Still, the idea of him being away at work is terribly hard. What sort of things does your WS do to help you regain trust, especially in the beginning?

Update. All is well!!

After DDay I (43f) told him (43m) she-his coworker (29f) was just a blip on the radar, and took him back. Since then (2.5 yrs) I have started a new successful business (alone, my decision) as well as working full time (always!) and looked for other ways to move myself forward. What are some other things you've done to prepare for a possible next DDay, separation or divorce? Our relationship is currently great, but...after the last 2.5 years, I would be a FOOL to think its not a possibility in the future.

Looking for some stories from people who have been able to trust their WS again post D-day, and people who are still in the process.

D-day was three months ago for me and in the last week or so I've started to think more on the process of trust and if it's something I'm capable of doing again. It'd be useful to hear from other people in similar situations.

FWIW, my husband is doing everything 'right' - full access to all devices and accounts, GPS tracking app, he tells me where he's going to be and checks in when he's there, etc. My suspicions aren't based on his current behaviour, there are no real flags that he's still lying/deceiving me.

So, how long did it take you to trust your WS again? Did you relapse or was it pretty set? Did it feel like a conscious choice?

[I am very much not interested in 'you can never trust them again, get a divorce' responses. We are trying to reconcile, currently, and deliberating keeping myself in a non-trusting state for fear of being hurt isn't something I want to prolong.]

This is my first time posting.

It has been 6 months since D-day. I am currently finishing my PHD and cheated one time with a colleague.

Since that time both myself and my BS* (edit for clarity) have been through a lot. It has been painful, confusing, and raw. I don’t think I can accurately explain the shame I feel for my actions or the love and appreciate I have towards my BS for giving me a chance to work through this together.

I have been in therapy working on and talking about my choices. I have put steps in place to ensure that the road that let me to cheating is completely blocked off. I have tried to be there for my WS as best as I can, through understanding and compassion. I’ve released all forms of communication. He has my passwords as well as we use life 360.

We are doing better. Our communication is stronger than it ever has been and I am trying to be the best partner that I can be. I’m really proud of the work we have done together.

Leading up to D-Day and past it I have been struggling with bipolar. Both therapy and medication have helped, and I have slowly been trying to reintroduce things that make me happy; pottery, old friends, cooking. Those things fell to the side a bit when we were both putting so much energy into making us a unit again. One of the things that I also dropped was rock climbing.

This is where the advice comes in. I live in a small university town. I have climbed for over 10 years. There is one climbing gym in town. It is something that I deeply miss and honestly one of the roots of what makes me happy. However, the AP also visits this gym from time to time. (This is not how we met and we have never visited the gym together).

I’m struggling because I want to add climbing back into my life but I also do not want to reverse any of the change and safeness that we have made together.

I’m looking for advice on approaches to make my BS comfortable. I know there’s the possibility that they will never be 100% comfortable and rather it not be an option. That’s okay. I just want to approach the conversation making sure that I’ve thought of various options to make him feel more safe.

One was including our mutual friend in climbing with me. Never going alone, always with her and checking in before and after. He trusts her.

The other is brining my BS but I’m worried that a run in may be too traumatic, in addition to my BS doesn’t enjoy climbing. I don’t want to force him to come out of fear.

If anyone has mechanisms or

When my WS disclosed and we agreed that we were committed to reconciliation, I felt a great deal of anxiety and fear regarding how I would ever be able to trust her again after her decisions and actions. Together we found some very helpful resources, and I'd like to share them with you. These are steps that my WS took to help me feel safe again and to begin the long and sometimes emotionally exhausting journey to rebuilding trust. Here is the link in case you want to head right there without any of my commentary:

http://dearpeggy.com/2-affairs/trust.html

And here is the text from the first two points Peggy makes:

Restoring trust takes a lot of time and work—most of which must be done by the person who HAD an affair (WS). (There's not much the spouse (BS) can do to restore the bond of trust. It was broken by the one who had the affair, and can only be restored by the actions of the one who had the affair.)

Here are some specific guidelines for the person who had an affair:

1. Don't expect your spouse to trust you again for a very long time.

While your spouse may want to trust again, trust cannot be "bestowed;" it will only come as a by-product of your willingness to do everything possible to gain their trust. While your commitments and promises are a good starting point, it's your actions (over time) that will dictate the course of rebuilding trust. Actions speak louder than words.

This was so true in our case. I believed that the relationship with AP was over, and I believed that my WS was committed to helping me recover and to doing whatever was necessary to rebuild trust, but I didn't feel that way most of the time. My mind was incapable of trusting her for about 6 months after dday, so it was very important that she was willing to be excessively open and transparent with me so that I could see that she was making an effort. Over time, as she remained open and and transparent, I gradually began to feel the anxiety erode and begin to accept her word as valid again.

2. Sever all contact with the third party.

*This means no more contact of any kind: no telephone, email, nothing! (The only exception to this is if the third party is a family member or there is a child born from the affair. In those cases, most people try to accommodate to some kind of contact in the future.) For any other situation, it's a matter of being clear about the priority—to help your spouse recover—which may involve major life changes. For instance,

My husband travels constantly for his job (airline industry), there is no way around it. The affair took place at his hotel while away for work.

It's been 3 weeks since D-day and we have made some pretty great progress towards rebuilding. He has given me full access to everything, completely apologetic and doing everything he can to answer all questions and support me during this.

We have couples therapy scheduled, but he has taken off all the time he can and will be returning to work soon.

I was hoping for some tips for both of us on how to navigate this next inevitable step. Having the GPS tracking doesn't help me much in this situation because I will just see he is in his hotel room. FaceTime and pictures only go so far before we have to say goodnight.

Thank you.

We have an environment that uses AD, behind the scenes we have a SSO provider to streamline things. We also use cloud based services for mail. Users connect via clients (Outlook, sync clients, etc.) on their PCs and at times via web interfaces. People start talking about our credentials going WSFed, WSTrust or SAML and they lose me. What drives the differences, is there a good way for me to understand?

I don't want to step on anybody's toes here, but the amount of non-dad jokes here in this subreddit really annoys me. First of all, dad jokes CAN be NSFW, it clearly says so in the sub rules. Secondly, it doesn't automatically make it a dad joke if it's from a conversation between you and your child. Most importantly, the jokes that your CHILDREN tell YOU are not dad jokes. The point of a dad joke is that it's so cheesy only a dad who's trying to be funny would make such a joke. That's it. They are stupid plays on words, lame puns and so on. There has to be a clever pun or wordplay for it to be considered a dad joke.

Again, to all the fellow dads, I apologise if I'm sounding too harsh. But I just needed to get it off my chest.

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It's foolish to think open source isn't possible on Android and you not reading this entire post is a proof that you're a fool.

0. Introduction

I was a fool just like that, I though the apps my phone's vendor made were simply too aesthetically pleasing to switch from. I thought there were barely any good free (as in freedom) apps, and they were all limited in functionality compared to closed source alternatives. I never realized the apps I was using were filled to the brim with corporation branding, useless features, and bugs (which I thought were acceptible for some reason). But I digress, I'm here to show that there is a world where you install only free software and still use your phone to do whatever you'd like. I needed this years ago, so I'll take you on a journey down the rabbit hole to prove it.

Assuming you already have some idea why free software is preferable, the first step is embracing minimalism. Of course, you will not find open source versions of the exact same proprietary apps you love and use on a daily basis. Though, an open source alternative will aways exist in some form. If you embrace minimalism and identify what you want from an app with precision, you won't be carried away with extra featues that may be simply bloat.

Disclaimer: Some of the open source communities may be nasty, but at least they don't hide their dirt.

1. Basic phone features

You need to replace your default system apps. You didn't choose to install them, you were fed those apps. Just because the vendor doesn't want you to replace them doesn't mean you have to keep using them. Root your phone (Why is it dangerous and letting a company you know nothing about have control over your device and data isn't?) and delete those apps.

Phone app (Dialer): Go ahead and install Koler or Simple Dialer. NoPhoneSpam can be used to block based on patterns. Call Recorder can be used to record your calls, use Call Recorder - Skvalex (closed source) with its Magisk module if it doesn't work. Use Share my number if you need to share your number with a QR code.

Contacts: [Simple Contacts](https://f-droid.org/en/packages/com.simplemob

Sorry if I use the terms wrong.. first time here and I'm just kinda writing to get things out.

I (BH) have been married for almost 9 years, together for 13 and have 2 kids. My wife (WS) got into a physical affair (although no sex) starting about 5 months before our wedding. She continued it through the purchase of our "forever" home, up until about 4 months after our first year anniversary.

She continued contact with the guy up until I found out about 3.5 months ago. She says everything was platonic on her end since we started trying for our first child, but he had been over a few times since then and made moves on her, or pulled himself out in front of her. They've also gone out to dinner several times, but she didn't try to hide that from me. I've never been jealous as I trusted her completely, so I was fine with her having a male friend.

So when I found out about 3.5 months ago, they had been "just friends" for about 7 years. During the time after she cut off physical contact, she didn't feel like she was having an affair, but has come to the realisation now that it was.

How I found out:

We recently both got fitness watches and they pair to our phones. One night, she received a text, and when I asked what it was, she said it was just a "get moving" reminder from the watch. I knew it was a lie because the reminder is only 1 line, and the message was multiple lines. I got upset and just went to bed. She came in a few hours later and was apologizing saying it was from the guy who I would later find out is her AP. I got angry with her and said I've been fine with their relationship so far, but now the fact that she is hiding things from me, I'm no longer comfortable with it.

She agreed to cut him out of her life, but I was still angry so I spent a few days sleeping on the couch.

After about 3 days sleeping on the couch she wrote me a letter saying how sorry she was and how she loves me and so forth. I forgave her and everything went back to normal for a few days. About 4 days later she left her phone on our bed. Mine was in the living room and the kids were entertaining themselves so I was going to watch netflix on her phone (something I've done plenty of times). I brought up all of the applications to tab to Netflix and saw a message she sent him at 1:30AM.. it was an innocent message, but the fact she messaged him at 1:30 and after she said she was cutting off contact, I had to look.

She was asking if he still had photos of her, and he responded

I'm surprised it hasn't decade.

• How long did it take before you actually believed and/or started trusting you WS?
• Were you worried or scared that it was still going on and wonder if you were still being lied too?

I am working on believing my WS that she is done with the AP and there is no contact. Granted they work in the same building and sometimes they will see each other in a meeting or walking down a hall but not very often. She lets me know about these encounters, even with her telling me I start to wonder if there was more than just seeing him in the hallway or in the meeting. I am more worried while she is at work as that is where most of everything happened. She calls and text me here and there thru the day but I still can't help my thoughts most days.

We are 2 months out from DDay to give our time frame.

Was reading about the recent move by Kenny G to acquire a copy of the constitution when Metric's song, "Gold Guns Girls" came on the radio. The lyrics played in the background as I was skimming an article and I suddenly thought of Sun Tzu and his thoughts on knowing your enemy.

Ken seems fitting to these lyrics, he can never have enough and (prob) can never get off. This move was fatal, by him, it showed how desperate he is to send a message...

On the one hand we have a mayo slurpee drinking, Ken G, making appearances on MSM and professing that everything is hunky dory (despite contradictions in body language) to appease his WS investors and buddies. On the other we have RC and his poker faced cryptic memes and a classified war plan. He inspires confidence and rallies millions with one tweet...

Well as Sun Tzu said, "If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.” I truly believe RC and GME will win, it seems they know themselves and us as well as their enemies as to not make such a colossal error to show desperation.

TLDR: Ken and co. have shown desperation again. Hedgies r fuk. Buy, DRS, trust in RC. Not financial advice.

Edit: Some spelling errors, cause who likes those?

LOOOOOOOORE SUNDAAAAAAAAY

#What is this thread for?

Curious about the lore for a TM franchise you haven't consumed? Got theories and need cited source material? Want to know how the laws of Nasuvese works on a fundamental level? Need to find that one line you can't find proof of anywhere because TM wiki is hilariously unreliable?

This is the place!

This thread will be a Q&A sort of location that will serve as a "lore library" of sorts that you can use for any inquiries.

This is NOT meant to be a place for containing all lore discussion and theory posts, as those are still highly encouraged to be submission posts outside of this thread so more people can see your ideas!

#Translated Source Material Links

• TMdict - contains all Side Material translated
• Chaldea Records - Compilation of in-game profiles and materials
• Grand Order Wiki - Some NA FGO story Transcripts available

##FGO Materials

• Story Summary Compilation
• Event Summary Compilation
• Interlude Summary Compilation
• Material Profile Translation Compilation
• FGO Arcade Lost Jerusalem Part 1 Translations
• FGO Arcade Lost Jerusalem Post-Raid Translations
• Camelot Zero, premise of Camelot singularity written on Nasu's Blog

##Anime

• Kara no Kyoukai Movie Series
• F/SN Unlimited Blade Works - Ufotable
• Fate/Zero
• Fate/Kaleid Liner Prisma Illya - Trust me, just read the manga.
• Fate/Grand Order - First Order
• Emiya Gohan
• Lord El-Melloi II's Case Files {Rail Zeppelin} Grace note
• [Fate/Grand Or

For context I'm a Refuse Driver (Garbage man) & today I was on food waste. After I'd tipped I was checking the wagon for any defects when I spotted a lone pea balanced on the lifts.

I said "hey look, an escaPEA"

No one near me but it didn't half make me laugh for a good hour or so!

Edit: I can't believe how much this has blown up. Thank you everyone I've had a blast reading through the replies 😂

It really does, I swear!

Exactly 9 months ago today I (48m) found out that my wife (50 ish f) of just under 18 years, had been cheating on me for a couple months. I found out when the wife of the man my wife was cheating on me with called me. She also sent me screen prints of quite a few texts between my wife and her husband. When I confronted my wife with this information and the texts, her response was, "I F***ed up!". We argued horribly for a week maybe two ( I won't lie I don't remember the period so well I was seething mad ) and eventually started MC and IC.

I wish I could say everything is great now, but I'd be lying. Has my wife cheated on me again since? I don't know. I don't think she has because she has been very transparent about everything she does and I have free reign to go through her phone or social media accounts etc. The problem? I just don't know how to trust someone that does something like that. I don't like or even want to go through her things. I don't think a couple should have so little trust.

I won't sit here and pretend our marriage was great prior to the affair. We have both had issues allot of mine because I work so much in a job I'd prefer not to to disclose. My wife has had issues with depression and we take care of her elderly mother. But no matter how rough things got I always held out hope we, just like any other time would get through it. Then in 1 phone call my world comes crashing down around me. Even 9 months later sometimes I just start crying for no reason or I can't catch my breath. I get to retire in just under 3 years. We were making plans to cruise around the Caribbean and spend a few years travelling. Now I just don't know.

The aforementioned texts were only from a couple days and according to my wife she was only "intimate" with her AP 3 times. I know that doesn't make it any better. My wife has to my knowledge been as forthcoming as she could be. Our therapist said she had to answer every question I had truthfully no matter how bad it made her look or how much she thought it would hurt me. I have grilled her more than once just to see if she is being truthful or has to remember which lie to tell. My wife swears she wants nothing more than to save our marriage. She seems genuinely remorseful for her actions, but I can't help but wonder is she remorseful of her actions or remorseful she got caught.

The texts I saw are to say the least........ the most painful thing I have ever read. In them her AP tells her he thinks his wife kn

LOOOOOOOORE SUNDAAAAAAAAY

#What is this thread for?

Curious about the lore for a TM franchise you haven't consumed? Got theories and need cited source material? Want to know how the laws of Nasuvese works on a fundamental level? Need to find that one line you can't find proof of anywhere because TM wiki is hilariously unreliable?

This is the place!

This thread will be a Q&A sort of location that will serve as a "lore library" of sorts that you can use for any inquiries.

This is NOT meant to be a place for containing all lore discussion and theory posts, as those are still highly encouraged to be submission posts outside of this thread so more people can see your ideas!

#Translated Source Material Links

• TMdict - contains all Side Material translated
• Chaldea Records - Compilation of in-game profiles and materials
• Grand Order Wiki - Some NA FGO story Transcripts available

##FGO Materials

• Story Summary Compilation
• Event Summary Compilation
• Interlude Summary Compilation
• Material Profile Translation Compilation
• FGO Arcade Lost Jerusalem Part 1 Translations
• FGO Arcade Lost Jerusalem Post-Raid Translations
• Camelot Zero, premise of Camelot singularity written on Nasu's Blog

##Anime

• Kara no Kyoukai Movie Series
• F/SN Unlimited Blade Works - Ufotable
• Fate/Zero
• Fate/Kaleid Liner Prisma Illya - Trust me, just read the manga.
• Fate/Grand Order - First Order
• Emiya Gohan
• Lord El-Melloi II's Case Files {Rail Zeppelin} Grace note
• [Fate/Grand Or