4 years together, ended up by her breaking up with me. Frankly a grown up woman 30+ should act more mature than this. But she's been acting like the most cold hearted person I've ever met the last week.
She's dating other while we live together, always on her phone and probably met a specific guy. I get that and I accept that how hard it is.
1,5 week ago (2,5 weeks post breakup) we still slept in the same bed. Cuddled like we were a couple. She kissed me gently, held my hand and even told me she still loves me. Said in a couple of month we can try to date again. Gave me hope.
It was too confusing (especially when she was using dating apps at the same time) so I moved to the couch. But I couldn't stand her texting/dating others so I left to sleep at a friends place. I had to come back (unfortunately) 5 days later and has slept on the couch for 3 nights now.
After I came back it started out okey but we had a fight about the same thing again but it went okey. We talked (well I talked and she looked at her phone). She got fed up with it after awhile but I just had to get a closure.
Now I don't talk about us, I just try to be friendly. Asking normal stuff like "How was you day?" She ignores me. She might say something but then it's one word, not more. She don't even look at me. She's like a completely other person. If she was in post breakup pain I would understand it, but she has moved on completely.
She is so damn cold hearted now I cannot believe it. She even said she don't understand why I still grieve. "Just forget about it! Learn by your mistakes and let go. It's that easy!" - she said. How can she not understand even intellectually it's not that easy to forget about a girl you still love, that left you after 4 years - just a month ago?
From now I will totally ghost her too. She's not the same person anymore. A stranger is living in my apartment for two more weeks.
"We've been together for 3 years now and by no means has it been easy. We've gone through a lot and I have made mistakes and done things that I know have made her lose trust in me, I also know she doesn't feel I am committed in our relationship.
One of the goals I put down this year is for us to get on the same page. I mean it's the only way I see us prospering as a couple.
As I said we have been together for 3 years and it mainly been long-distance, the first year I was on a gap year from uni and she was studying and I would frequently visit her, the second year I was in my final year of uni and the final year she was in her last year of study in which she studied in the country I am in, which due to differing expectations of what it would be like was actually difficult for both of us (she understandably wanted me to come alongside her completely as she was in this country alone and I thought making sure that I was always there for her but not necessarily always around her was enough (because I like to be left to do what I want if I'm in a new place so stupidly i thought she would feel the same)).
She's now on a gap year and after graduating for the past year and a half I have moved back in with my family.
In regards to living together, we spoke about what we both hope to do in the future She was happy to come to London and live together and would love that scenario .
The issue is that I currently live with my family (my mum, 18 year old brother and 4 year old sister) and living with them I don't live a life of my own with independence. I am currently still there because it's expensive in London and my family are struggling and i support them monetarily and physically.
I want to live on my own for a temporary period even if it's just for 6 months because I've always had the goal to help my family since I am the man of the house and when viable move out on my own to really experience an alone life before getting married or moving in with anyone. Only for reasons of embracing personal development.
But my girlfriend doesn't want any of it, she wants to move in together as soon as possible and wants me to go from my family house straight to living with her.
I understand we have been in a long distance relationship for a long time now and she's eager to move in together and I want to too, but for me it's just about the right timing. I don't want to jump into it with my gut feeling telling me that I still should take some time to live alone and
... keep reading on reddit β‘EDIT - within 50 minutes this community provided enough input that I can run with it from here. I sincerely appreciate everyone who helped. To those that doubted me or my project - I understand your concerns - this is an intense situation and there many bad actors involved. If / when this project comes to fruition, I will be sure to let you know - even better - I hope that you will see it for yourselves.
I wish you all the best.
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I have the opportunity to get verified, cited and comprehensive DD into the hands of people that can get it into the public arena in big way. I've messaged the MODS, CRIAND and others for help, but have not heard back. I can verify this opportunity with the MODS easily.
We have the same goals in life, to settle down and have a family. The main issues are heβs work stressed and always will be, heβs in a high paying job and wants to climb higher so that if we have a family, he can look after me and he can retire early. When we first got together, he never showed me this stress but after moving in together, I saw him change. He began to be less affectionate, fall asleep as soon as he walked in the door, stop initiating sex and rejecting me, lose his temper and flip out easily. I seemed to annoy him or as he put it βgive him shit all the timeβ Apart from that, heβd tell me he loves me, cook every night, take me out on dates, spoil me etc. So I always thought it was worth me staying. He still to this day tells me he loves me everyday and Iβm beautiful and he only wants me etc. Lack of sex in another issue which heβs seeing his doctor about, heβs been diagnosed with low testosterone and he has trouble keeping it up so that makes me feel rubbish and unwanted. I recently have been trying to be more loving, which heβs asked me to be. I gave him a massage and play with his hair which makes him smile but things are still not great. Thereβs always an argument between us, at home, in public, he has no patience anymore. I donβt know what to do? I keep thinking about leaving, Iβm not scared to be alone. I need some advice
I'm preparing to start DMing some games for friends and we'll be trying out a few different systems (currently looking at Troika, Mork Borg, and Mothership).
Lately I've been playing some longer D&D campaigns but I've found lots of shorter material for each of these games. I like the idea of being able to prolong our time with each by adding modules, or stopping after we finish just one module without leaving a story hanging. I'm also not in love with the idea of going full homebrew just yet.
Given that I have, say, a dozen short adventures in any one of these games, do you think it's worth the time and energy trying to string them together in some kind of larger meta-narrative? Have any of your tried this, and do you have any feedback on the experience?
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I read this short story in a collection of O. Henry stories - it was very short, maybe 3 or 4 pages. I do remember that the man, when he met the woman for the first time, presented her with a flower or a leaf or a ribbon or something, and she kept it until the day of her wedding. Then she destroyed it because she knew she would never again see the man who gave it to her.
It's a haunting tale and it would be great if anyone knew which one it was. I've looked for ages, but there's just so many short stories by O. Henry that it's impossible to find.
We got married a few months ago and I am just so in love with him and our lives right now. Weβre laying in the living room right now, after just waking up, and had a debate about what life would be like if humans evolved to walk on their hands instead of their feet. Heβs the only one I can discuss random topics with as if they are scholarly discussions and just laugh about it afterward. Our lives are pretty simple right now, but we purchased our first home together a few months before our wedding (and moved in 2 weeks after seeing it!). At the time, I was unemployed for the 3rd time, severely depressed, stressed, having daily anxiety attacks, and beating myself up about not finding a job that I could stay at. He had no issues with boosting me up when I was clearly down and took on the payments for the house until I was able to find work. Coincidentally, I got a call for an interview on the day we moved, interviewed on that Tuesday, got the job by Friday, and Iβve now been there for 9 months and love it. I truly feel as though we had to go through all of that in order to feel as happy and content as we do now. These are the weekends I had been craving. Being able to come home after a long week of work and really appreciate being able to relax with him and do it to our own schedule. Itβs amazing what just a few months can do.
Older one was tall thin and yellow the younger was short green and round. The shorts had english subtitles so they were either foreign language or the characters spoke harsh gibberish. They would always feature the young one doing something gross, dangerous, destructive or stupid and the olfer would get mad and sometimes abusive.
I remember one short where the green one didn't wash his hands after using the washroom and left a smear of the bathroom door. The Yellow one grabbed him by the wrist and slapped him, saying 'That's disgusting!' He commanded the green one to go wash his hands, which he does while crying.
In VEXAG 2021, PRL (S. Jitarwal et al) has submitted a poster and a small report on the sensitivity analysis and test of the dipole antenna of Shukrayaan-1's LIVE instrument
https://www.hou.usra.edu/meetings/vexag2021/eposter/8042.pdf
https://www.hou.usra.edu/meetings/vexag2021/pdf/8042.pdf
