Because the thing is I often use dark humour to cope with my mental health but only ever towards myself. I would never ever ever even think about making a dark joke about somebody else's mental health as I think that's really disrespectful tbh in any circumstance but particularly if they've told you that they aren't comfortable with it

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This sub has actually helped me a lot in the past years. Thanks everyone. ADIÓS

I'm trying to build a better sense of how people spoke and/or wrote about surviving grief and trauma prior to the development of a medicalized understanding of those human experiences. Do any of you have favorite quotes that give voice to this experience? Perhaps someone describing the loss of a loved one, someone witnessing a disaster, someone surviving cruelty/slavery, someone feeling overwhelmed or stuck due to their experience in war, etc. ? Any help would be very appreciated. Thanks!

EDIT: Wow, so much of what folks have brought has been really beautiful. For context, I'm a therapist in training, and I'm looking for more ways to speak to clients without invoking medicalized language about trauma, which can make people feel pretty pathologized/not heard/not seen. Hoping to continue to integrate some of these passages in session, and to have recommendations for clients who connect well to reading and history. Thanks, and keep them coming!

It's not the 1300's and I don't have the plague so I can crack jokes.

Been streaming for years but fell off the radar and now I’m back so stop by and say hi! Always Active and talkative! Giveaways each month hop on in! https://www.twitch.tv/bunnyblesslive

Apologies for the midnight shit post. These sleeping pills are doing a better job at making me loopy than falling asleep

This spell, the earliest writings of it being found as early as the late 800s DA, has been passed down and recorded in various grimoires and in manuals of physicks and doctors with the purpose of healing the sick and freeing the accursed from their afflictions. Note that while recovery is demonstrably much faster from such afflictions, it is difficult to gauge whether the spell itself purifies the subject, or whether it simply improves the benefits of medicine when treating illness. The spell is wildly inconsistent when used alone with no other treatments, and some theorize it is a matter of flawed execution or failure to abide by unknown restrictions that have been lost to history. Due to the structure and language taught by the mystery traditions that practiced this spell, pronunciation of the names mentioned and the final line of the spell are very hard to decipher, understand, and perform, which gives great difficulty to modern doctors and priests who attempt to cast this spell.

> Spirits of the worlde and of the worlde beyonde, heed my wordes and obey my commandes. From heaven through hellfyre, my will be done. I bring forthe this wretchèd soule, destitute and of ill humeur, that his/her dreaded afflictions be curèd and his/her soul brought back to the gotts' sides. I laye my hande upon him/her, that I channel the forces magical from one healthy soul to an ill soul, from one healer to a wretche in neede of healing. The humeurs shall balance, the skin shall be piercèd open, and all of the forces wicked be purgèd from the body. May the gotts of good health and fortune, almighty ELSR, TLRN, SNDR, LMRA, and GNET, blessèd and exaltèd be their names, take pity on a wretche such as he/she, and bestowe their graces upon him/her. ELSR, mother of the fyre and of the hearthe, bring forthe thy love and grace into this wretchèd body, ill and broken, and bequeathe them upon it. TLRN, father of joye and goodness, bring forthe thy gentleness and light into this wretchèd body, ill and broken, and bequeathe them upon it. SNDR, mother of labours and healthe, bring forthe thy perseverance and forgiveness into this wretchèd body, ill and broken, and bequeathe them upon it. LMRA, queen mother of the waters and physick, bring forthe thy wisdome and thy healing waters of creatione into this wretchèd body, ill and broken, and bequeathe them upon it. GNET, king father of the earth and life, bring forthe thy patience and life abundant of creatione into this wretchèd bod

If you’re wondering why it took me so long to watch such a small amount of shows, it’s because I still watch a lot more American animated shows than I do Japanese. Gotta make room for both.

Above all, I am now a fan of animation. I don’t really care which country it comes from anymore. Neither side is inherently better, and both have proven that they’re capable of blowing me away.

I’m gonna talk about each of these shows in the order that I watched them, and then rank them at the end. And I’d love to hear what everyone’s opinions are on these shows. I’d also love to know your opinions on my opinions. Whether you agree or disagree with me, I’d love to hear your thoughts. That’s why I’m posting. I really wanna talk about these shows.

I really don’t expect many people to read this thing in full. Just look for the shows you care about!

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#One Punch Man:

It’s been a while since I watched this show. I’ve only seen each season once but I still remember it being really good. Even if S1 is significantly better than S2.

S1 was nearly perfect. It has a rough start and a few characters I just couldn’t get into, but damn that season was so much fun. The action was stunning, the comedic writing was on point, and the characters were just so much fun to watch.

Saitama & Genos have a perfectly balanced dynamic, and Saitama is just a really interesting character in general. Being so powerful that it makes you feel depressed? Because what once brought you a sense of accomplishment just isn’t challenging anymore? That’s weirdly compelling.

Probably the best moment in the season was when Mumen Rider fought that fish dude. I was so wrapped up in that scene that I nearly cried. I didn’t actually cry though. That comes later in my anime journey.

I also liked the show’s more unstructured and episodic approach. That's part of why S2 didn’t sit quite right with me. I wasn’t really into the more linear narrative that they were going for.

There wasn’t nearly enough focus on Saitama, and that tournament went on for WAY TOO MANY episodes. I liked the main conflict with Garo but the season was just kinda messy overall.

The best scenes by far were whenever Saitama, Genos, King, & Blizzard were just vibing at Saitama’s apartment. Something about those scenes were so fun to me. Also, King is an excellent character in general. He’s conceptually hilarious and has several great moments. I especially loved that legitimately impactful speech he gave

Part Two Part Four

And off we go...

Beacon found himself in a dark vent, hearing only the hiss of chilled gas sweeping through the pipes. He inhaled a deep breath and analysed it...oxygen was running at nearly thirty per cent. He chewed through the numbers, running estimates on what that could mean. On Terra that could indicate large scale creatures or some seriously inefficient design. Gravity was around .7, so it could be both. He would investigate when he had a sample. Time to begin…

He punched a hole through the vent and dropped the three meters to the floor. A quick scan found several doors nearly, one with what passed for security around here. He didn't bother with the Camo, merely moving to his hunting pace.

The door was some composite metal. Useless against him but sufficient to block any audio. A surprise then. He forced a probe into the security system and quickly overrode the lock, pushing silently to open it. Now he could hear the mumbled grunting of his enemies so he pulled his blade closer and pushed open the door.

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Silver Wisp announced to his passengers that boarding was complete. He had created ten different committees, each with slightly overlapping responsibilities and had asked them to elect a Speaker. That should keep them busy. With a thought he sent himself hurtling towards the edge of human space, weapons foundry now complete and busily at work.

Probably time to visit the Ambassador.

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Ambassador Rowan was still entranced with her quarters when a low bell told her that she had a guest. The present rushed back in, the prospect of a bloody war of vengeance with her name on it. When the door vanished into the walls she saw the Commander waiting for her permission to enter. She nodded and watched as his body reflected the dappled light, taking on a tinge of green and the patterns flickering across his skin becoming almost organic. She bowed and said, “Welcome Commander. You have made me welcome in ways I cannot explain. Thank you.”

Silver Wisp nodded and smiled, “Thank you. I had hoped you would treasure this place as much as I do.” He allowed his glance to wander, enjoying the tall and verdant trees and the calls from irritated wildlife and took a deep breath, “When I was a child I loved the forest, even if space called louder.  I’m old enough to remember the forests burning an

I don't want to step on anybody's toes here, but the amount of non-dad jokes here in this subreddit really annoys me. First of all, dad jokes CAN be NSFW, it clearly says so in the sub rules. Secondly, it doesn't automatically make it a dad joke if it's from a conversation between you and your child. Most importantly, the jokes that your CHILDREN tell YOU are not dad jokes. The point of a dad joke is that it's so cheesy only a dad who's trying to be funny would make such a joke. That's it. They are stupid plays on words, lame puns and so on. There has to be a clever pun or wordplay for it to be considered a dad joke.

Again, to all the fellow dads, I apologise if I'm sounding too harsh. But I just needed to get it off my chest.

Album: Donda

Artist: Kanye West (Ye)

Label: GOOD (Def Jam)

Tracklist and Lyrics: Genius

Release date: July 23 August 6 15 20 27 September 3 August 29, 2021

r/popheads [FRESH] thread: Here

Listen: Apple Music (Deluxe) | Spotify (Deluxe) | YouTube Music (Deluxe)

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When someone comes up and says something like "I am a god", everybody says "Who does he think he is?"

I just told you who I thought I was. A god.

I just told you. That's who I think I am.

The man I describe in the introduction as being so decidedly different:

Welcome to the 19th installment of Popheads' Album of the Year series: Kanye West's Donda.

Writing about this album is overwhelming. Kanye is controversial and always has been. To an extent he invites this; he's brash, he's a provocateur; simply, he's a troll. He thrives on having an audience, loves attention and has an absurd ego. He is so over-the-top that he is a living, breathing meme. He's also an artist who has changed the course of music and often been called a genius. He's also called himself a genius, and a god, and an asshole. Kanye has made albums that are seen as some of the best of all time. He's also, to borrow a memorable phrase from one of his songs, fuckin' ridiculous.

**Well, that's a pretty ba

Been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months. I don't know if I'm paranoid or have reason to be concerned. Also, I just needed to write this down to order my thoughts.

Met over the summer. First two dates were great. We really clicked, conversation was easy, free-flowing. An intoxicating mix of humour, personal, sharing opinions. Finished the second date making out near her bus stop. We had planned a third date but she cancelled early that day. I got a little worried and went a bit cold although she had suggested meeting on Sunday. We didn't end up meeting.

We were due to meet up again two weeks later before she was due to go home for holidays. She told me on Monday we could meet on Thursday or Friday and would let me know Tuesday. In the end, she didn't let me know till last minute - and it didn't happen. I got angry and said I wouldn't accept being dropped at the last minute. She apologised sincerely. We said we'd talk when she returned from visiting her family a few weeks' time.

Fast forward two weeks, she returns, says she wants to meet two days after. Has brought presents. We meet that evening, end up sleeping together for the first time. The next three weeks we meet every weekend and things are going well. Great sex, very enjoyable time together, fun easy going. Everything seems to be going great.

The next two weekends I'm due to be out of town but I try to make time on Thursday evenings. Each attempt is rebuffed out of hand with: I'm busy. The second weekend in particular she's very hard to get hold of, she doesn't return my calls. I have an uneasy feeling in my gut. When I'm back in town, she messages me on the Monday to say hi. We talk Tuesday. She said she went out and got very drunk that weekend, lost her phone (she had already bought a new one). She said at one point she ended up dancing with a guy but her friend intervened. She could tell I was unhappy but in the moment like that I tend to freeze a bit and it takes me time to understand my feelings.

The next day I tell her we need to talk. She said she'd be busy that evening but I told her this was important and that she needed to make time - she did. I told her I didn't like what had happened, asked if she was seeing other people. She said no to this. She told me she was getting cold feet, was starting to feel attachment and was unsure. She said the fact we hadn't discussed whether we were in a relationship or not was a blocker to her. I hadn't planned to bring up the topic of a relati

The nurse asked the rabbit, “what is your blood type?”

“I am probably a type O” said the rabbit.

The doctor says it terminal.

Alot of great jokes get posted here! However just because you have a joke, doesn't mean it's a dad joke.

THIS IS NOT ABOUT NSFW, THIS IS ABOUT LONG JOKES, BLONDE JOKES, SEXUAL JOKES, KNOCK KNOCK JOKES, POLITICAL JOKES, ETC BEING POSTED IN A DAD JOKE SUB

Try telling these sexual jokes that get posted here, to your kid and see how your spouse likes it.. if that goes well, Try telling one of your friends kid about your sex life being like Coca cola, first it was normal, than light and now zero , and see if the parents are OK with you telling their kid the "dad joke"

I'm not even referencing the NSFW, I'm saying Dad jokes are corny, and sometimes painful, not sexual

So check out r/jokes for all types of jokes

r/unclejokes for dirty jokes

r/3amjokes for real weird and alot of OC

r/cleandadjokes If your really sick of seeing not dad jokes in r/dadjokes

Punchline !

Edit: this is not a post about NSFW , This is about jokes, knock knock jokes, blonde jokes, political jokes etc being posted in a dad joke sub

Edit 2: don't touch the thermostat

Do your worst!

How the hell am I suppose to know when it’s raining in Sweden?

Mathematical puns makes me number

We told her she can lean on us for support. Although, we are going to have to change her driver's license, her height is going down by a foot. I don't want to go too far out on a limb here but it better not be a hack job.

Ants don’t even have the concept fathers, let alone a good dad joke. Keep r/ants out of my r/dadjokes.

But no, seriously. I understand rule 7 is great to have intelligent discussion, but sometimes it feels like 1 in 10 posts here is someone getting upset about the jokes on this sub. Let the mods deal with it, they regulate the sub.

I’m English. I’ve known my husband since we were both 14. We are now early 50’s. We have four boys, the youngest is 16. We have both been poor in the past but my husband has made good money so we’ve been well off for years. I’m so lucky, I am the main focus of his life, even above the children. I’m spoiled and loved. He is model handsome, fit and strong, has been written about in books and newspapers, flies helicopters, races cars rides motor bikes, shops and cooks. We have been through a lot together, illness, cancer, addiction and we love each other more than ever. We have a wide circle of loyal friends. He was my first lover and hopefully my last. That’s all I want to say. It’s good and positive!

Edit: Some are curious how we have managed our relationship over the years.

As I have said, we have coped with real adversity and difficulties. It’s a long story. I’ll try to be brief. Mainly we both love and respect each other enormously. Even if there are day to day issues, ultimately we have the biggest amount of respect for each other. We don’t put each other down in front of anyone, we never argue in front of anyone (yes, we argue sometimes) we are always united to family and friends, they can rely on us to always be happy, together and in charge which leads to confidence - no one likes to be around couples who are constantly bickering and horrible to each other.

Our children see us being loving and supportive of each other. We try not to undermine each other in front of them if we disagree and we believe it’s tremendously important to cohesive parenting and respect from the children. They know we are a team. Our youngest has had really bad behavioural problems and has been by far the biggest test. He has pushed our parenting skills to the limit over the years, but we have persevered and I have allowed my husband to take the lead with him, he’s needed it as an emerging man. I’ve had to trust his skills as a father to handle a very headstrong and difficult child. I’m really happy to see it paying off. He’s the sort of child who, if I had been left to parent him alone, would have walked all over me, done as he liked and ended up in a bad place.

Now, he’s left school at 16, been working for 8 months, moved out and is managing his life and his work fantastically with our close supervision. It’s what he needed. I dread to imagine the outcome if his father hadn’t been as strong as he is.

So, our relationship is built on trust - THE most important, fund

They were cooked in Greece.

I'm surprised it hasn't decade.

He lost May

I(29F) am a French Canadian. I am terminally ill and have max 1 year left. My husband(31M) is Indian and together for 6 year married for 3. He is very good human being and i think he love me very much as much i do. It is hard for family on both side. He is making me comfortable and we are doing fun activity so that I can spend my last days happily.

Yesterday husband made dinner for me and then surprised me that he have a guitar which I did not know about he can play(Borrowed from a friend) and sing a song for me and was crying pretty hard and the ending of song. It was in Hindi language so did not understand meaning of it. So I asked him the name of the song and I was named “Mann Bharryaa 2.0” . I found the video and watched it with subtitle and got very emotional because of it. I am going to attach the lyrics which I copied from internet.

You Are Done With Me

You Have Changed

You, Will, Leave Me

Your Actions Suggest So

You Are Done With Me

You Have Changed

You, Will, Leave Me

Your Actions Suggest So

You Doubt Me In Every Moment

You Don’t Trust Me

In Your Eyes…

I Don’t See Love For Me Anymore

I Have No One Other Than You

You Will Find Another Support

You, Will, Leave Me

Your Actions Suggest So

I Wish It Could Be So

That God Would Grant My Plea

In Your Place, Love

Death Would Take Me

If You Are Not To Be Mine

Then What Is Left To Be

God Would Be A Lie

In A Place Of Such Cruelty

God Snatches The One

The One Dearest To Us

You, Will, Leave Me

Your Actions Suggest So

You Know Everything,

That I Cannot Leave You

And So You Lead Me On

You Make Me Dance To Your Tunes

You Know Everything,

That I Cannot Leave You

And So You Lead Me On

You Make Me Dance To Your Tunes

I Pray To God, In The Next Life

I Want Him To Turn The Tables

I Want To Be Born As You

And I Want You To Be Born As Me

But We Live Only Once

We’ll Never Again Meet

You, Will, Leave Me

Your Actions Suggest So

You Are Done With Me

I know he is very sad and heartbroken which he trying to hide. What can I do to reduce his pain and I want to say goodbye happily. Throw away because he knows about my reddit id. Please advice me.

English is not my first language so sorry about my errors.

Please give Advice.

Thank you.

Edit :-

Thank you all of you. Sorry for my late reply. We have many video of us together. I always recorded and clicked picture of us because it was like living in a dream and I don’t wanted it