Throwaway account here. My GF and I have been in a healthy relationship for over a year now. Overall, our sex life is good. We have similar sex drives and we genuinely seem to both enjoy each other. With that said, she apparently has never orgasmed and I feel like I've tried every trick in the book. I've done plenty of research, I've gotten pretty damn good at foreplay, and we've even used a magic wand. Nope, nothing yet.
I'll even have her shaking/convulsing pretty dramatically during sex, but when I ask her if she was having orgasm she'll either say no or she's unsure. According to her, she just cannot let go at the moment...She also tells me she doesn't masterbate, which I've been trying to encourage for a long time now. I mean I don't want to turn this around on her...but goddamn how am I suppose to know what to do if you won't give me the manual?
Any suggestions on being able to "let go" in that moment?
Hey guys! I hope this is on toppic enough for this sub:
So, I love "Every trick in the Book" by Ice Nine Kills (after I slept on them until December last year) , and it got me really interested in reading the referenced books, but I'm somebody who loves oversharing my opinions and discussing stuff, and so I'd really love to have some people who come from the same background and love to discuss them.
So, my thoughts were to find likeminded people here and then go through the books in order of the Tracklist, and then talk about the book, the track and references.
The question obviously would be where the discussion would be. Nothing beats a real conversation but I guess this would not work out, so I thought about making a post on a more appropriate subreddit, maybe every two weeks, but ideas are of course welcome.
So that's my pitch basically. Tell me what you think!
This is a deal for those looking for this record. Typically when found its $35 + S&H (3rd party). This was my first purchase through merchnow and have no complaints. This is the White W/ Blood Red Splatter vinyl limited to 1000. If not familiar, this band is along the lines of I Prevail, Beartooth, Palisades etc. If I'm not mistaken this album is of songs adapted from classic books. Enjoy!
https://merchnow.com/products/v2/272162/every-trick-in-the-book
I'm using the vapor cigarette (Blu), with nicotine gum as a supplement, and just put on a patch. I've also got one last cigarette in a pack with my lighter, telling myself that it's my last one, and can have it whenever I want it. Almost did it a couple of times, but I'm still managing to hold on to it. I'm pretty sure I'm intaking more nicotine than I ever did smoking, but it still doesn't seem like enough.
I don't really have a question. Just needed to talk.
I was halfway through my eight reread of Harry Potter and the Philospher's Stone (it's the shortest book I own, so rereading is way better for my total than actually expanding my horizons or something) when I realized that every chapter has its own title, author, and collection of words.
Now I'm making it through multiple books a week, and I'll have the challenge done in no time!
Other tips:
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Scour the "children's reading" section; I've found the books are much shorter and there are only a few words I don't know!
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Expand the definition of "book"; a newspaper is still reading, right? You're reading this post right now, aren't you? That advert on the side of a bus had words on it, didn't?
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Just lie about reading the books. I finished Finnegans Wake 30 times in one day, and then flipped through the entire works of Shakespeare for a bedtime read.
uj/ lol I'm doing ths 52 book challenge thing and I've counted two audiobooks to it already I'm literally more guilty of this than anyone
The trick to the post-it notes is to put them where you'll see them when it's time to use what's on them. Keyboard, car dash, front door, on your wallet, etc. Whatever it takes, you do.
