Help, I’m just putting my feet back in the online dating pool after a breakup and need a good Lana reference for my bio. I did “money is the Anthem of success so before we go out what’s your address before but I want something new so any ideas?
Und was davon war vorteilhaft eurer Einschätzung nach? Gerne mit Geschlechtsangabe
Ach und Hallo. Ich bin neu in diesem Sub. Dies ist mein Zweitaccount, da ersterer mit meinem Klarnamen in Verbindung gebracht werden könnte.
A couple of you asked me about this, so I'm gonna take you through the process of how I got my own bio that worked quite well as we go through each phase.
Note: (Using this process, I've gotten over 1000 matches on one tinder account, and probably 3 or 4000 total over the years - edit: As one guy pointed out, this is mostly attributable to having good pictures - see my other post - but when I first started and tried no bio or a bad bio, I was getting basically zero matches, so your bio is definitely important as well. Don't neglect it.)
1. Brain dump
Ed Sheeran said something in an interview that stuck with me. You've just gotta get the shit out and eventually the good stuff comes out.
Get yourself in a good mood. Maybe have a glass of wine or a beer. Maybe grab a joint. Whatever you need to do to get loose and smiling. The good mood will come across in what you write.
then just sit down and write. Do it in a word doc, not on tinder itself so you're not worried about it going live or something.
If pen and paper is easier for you to think with, do that.
Talk about yourself. Funny stories, bad dates, good dates, things you like about yourself, things you don't like about yourself, what you're looking for, or basically anything else you can think of that relates to tinder.
DO NOT FILTER YOURSELF. Do not criticize what you write. You are not your thoughts, this is just a totally random word vomit exercise.
2. Choose The Winners
Once you're done, take the best parts from your brain dump and then clean them up a bit so they're standalone.
Here's the initial thing I wrote down in my brain dump that led me to my good bio:
"That time I mistakenly assumed that a blind kid's probing cane was a selfie stick."
We need to work with it, but that story presented well I thought could work, and it did. It also has the added benefit of presenting up front the fact that I'm kind of goofy and quirky in person, and often say ridiculous shit by accident.
Anyways, moving on.
3. Refining the Winners
How can we tweak the above phrase to be funnier?
(disclaimer, the below content is literally just copied and pasted from my blog on how to write a Tinder bio. Just don't want anyone to think it's plagiarized or something)
The first problem with the above bio is that it puts the surprise in front of the set up.
“I mistakenly assumed” warns them right up front that the punchline is the m
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Personally, my favorites are thalassophile, goal-digger, and sapiosexual. 😂 Ikaw? What are your favorites?
Pros:
- Gainfully Employed, can explain you stocks and Cryptocurrency
- Good addition to any party
- Can drive a bike
Cons:
- My cooking will make you fat
- never reads the software agreement before agreeing
Your turn 🍍 on 🍕?
Got lost on a subway in Japan. Could use someone who has a better sense of direction so I don't end up in another country next time.
Favorite conversations: Real-estate/stocks/crypto, Cars, future goals, or random nonsense
Hobbies: Cars enthusiast, DJ, adventurer, nap enthusiast
(Also added a pic of me next to my corvette being that it's a big part of my hobbies. But really don't want to come off like I'm flexing so should I take it out?)
Likes long walks, eating berries, and sending gifts to one another. If interested you can reach me at 436149521246 😘
Any advice will help greatly! I’m new to the app!
I don't have any romantic and dating experience and I'm really trying to put myself out there and improve my profile. I've been using bumble on and off for about 2 years now and I have gotten a few matches but nothing ever comes from it. Usually I leave the bio part blank and fill out the prompts but I want to have a bio and prompts this time. How do I create a good bio?
