My big bro passed away unexpectedly, I know the grieving process is different for everyone but how long does it usually take for the pain and heart ache to ease off a little?

I posted for support the day after he passed on this sub and had so many heartfelt replies that genuinely helped me through the initial shock of his death.

He died in his sleep, next to his wife at 35 years old. He left behind two children and his wife is expecting their third in a few weeks. He had almost 10 days of autopsy related tests and the cause of his death was never found. He was a popular pretty boy and heart breaker during his life I just never expected he’d break my heart too.

It’s been 18 days since he past but only a week since his funeral. I flew overseas to be with him and my family but flew back 4 days after the funeral because I thought I could run away from the grief. I’ve found myself finding small dark spaces to shut myself in and sob everyday since I’ve flown back to my home. I accept that this is part of the grieving process and eventually it will get better, but can anyone give me their experiences dealing with sudden family deaths? How long did it take you to settle after it? How long until it starts to get better?

I’m sorry if this was a pretty scattered post, my mind is just kind of writing everything I’m thinking.

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πŸ‘€︎ u/KyIieJenner
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Lost her at the beginning of the year but the pain of missing her is still here- I wanted to share some of my favorite photos of June to maybe ease my heart a bit reddit.com/gallery/pb0um1
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Clean buttery soft semi oversized T shirt done from the ground up. Not some gildan or bella canvas. Logo is chenille embroidery. Care labels are replaced with printing on the side on t shirt done for ease of care and as a design. Made for you boy at hearts out there. boyatheart.com
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πŸ‘€︎ u/simple_man_1988
πŸ“…︎ Nov 13 2021
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Hello, we are two parents that have a son who will being attempting a thru hike this April and we would like some information to put our little hearts at ease

Is there a device that sends out a constant signal to ID where he is or one that he can use if he is in distress? The smallest and lightest would be the best for his sake.

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Sancho great little run to beat two players with ease. v.redd.it/7i2atot1m1t71
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Nac224
πŸ“…︎ Oct 12 2021
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Got some basic charting help from trader. Having a little knowledge might help ease your paper handed woes
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πŸ‘€︎ u/LITTLEN3MO
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This little Teapot is an absolute mood! But what I really love is the ease of steep especially of my loose leaf teas. This morning made myself some lovely Darjeeling summer tea, fresh from the gardens of Makaibari. Steeped for 4 minutes and received notes of honeysuckle and muskmelon.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/One_Novel6931
πŸ“…︎ Nov 25 2021
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(24M) What's a book to make loneliness a little more tolerable? Hooked up with an old friend this past weekend and she's not interested in taking it further. The extent of my loneliness is kind of setting in. Any books to ease the pain?
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πŸ‘€︎ u/theIinhappiness
πŸ“…︎ Aug 17 2021
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Replaying β€˜Silent Hill 3’ and I still can’t decide if this or SH4 deserves the title of β€œscariest Silent Hill”! The way this game can make me feel or shoot up my heart rate is just something only SH3 can accomplish with ease. I have a sub machine gun with unlimited ammo but I’m still afraid!!!
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Lordberic420
πŸ“…︎ Jun 20 2021
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Heart's Ease, me, Krita/digital, 2021
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πŸ‘€︎ u/wandering_ravens
πŸ“…︎ Jul 30 2021
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I had an accelerated heart rate after second vaccine, a positive experience to ease your mind a bit.

I'm seeing a lot of people concerned about getting an accelerated heart rate and I want to ease some minds. The first night after my second shot sucked a lot. Fever, chills, fast heart rate and some crazy fever dreams. Although I was admittedly a bit worried I tried my best to stay calm and remember that I'm being exposed to a new virus to strengthen my immune system. Getting covid would suck a lot worse. Anxiety and fear can play a big part in making your symptoms worse. Just take deep breaths and lay in bed for the next day or 2 as if you had the flu. Don't try and self diagnose yourself with something more than a normal reaction (not discrediting people who have had real worse symptoms.) We are all going through this together and you are not alone by any means. Stay safe and stay strong everybody.

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πŸ‘€︎ u/not_wholsome
πŸ“…︎ May 27 2021
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Brexit 'sausage wars': EU plans 'dramatic' changes to ease Northern Ireland protocol row [Sorry for the spam on this but its a little useful to know that a change is coming] euronews.com/2021/10/08/e…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/funkimunk
πŸ“…︎ Oct 09 2021
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Anyone find wake up multiple times with fast heart rate ,, and when take iron tabs mine are ferrous fumurate 210mg x twice a day that your stomach bloats nausea and the palpitations get worse like just not bedtime throughout day - if so does it ease and how long roughly my ferritin is 9 if helps x

Edit : also like heartburn chest into shoulder blade pain the next day after taking them ? The same happens in gentle iron 20mg from Holland and Barrett’s any solutions please

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πŸ‘€︎ u/Blazinjewels86
πŸ“…︎ Jul 07 2021
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Opinion: Tuesday does little to ease worries of election fraud thelibertyloft.com/2021/1…
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πŸ‘€︎ u/TheLibertyLoft
πŸ“…︎ Nov 03 2021
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I was rereading ILY and felt upset about the lack of new content so I decided to draw Nol to ease my heart
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πŸ‘€︎ u/saiiyaann
πŸ“…︎ Mar 05 2021
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Please ease my heart Connelly, I beg of you.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/FrankerZ_123
πŸ“…︎ Nov 17 2020
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M'Goodboy needs a little suspension to ease getting his healthy frame out and about!
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Swipe to ease your heart attack (constructive criticism welcome) reddit.com/gallery/mt042x
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πŸ‘€︎ u/OrgasmsForFreyja
πŸ“…︎ Apr 17 2021
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Little old lady purring her heart out, trying to get my sleeping dad to give her pets 😍 v.redd.it/q80cvy3xj7a81
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πŸ‘€︎ u/surdejsleg
πŸ“…︎ Jan 07 2022
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Yeah, we’re runnin’ a little bit hot πŸ”₯tonight! I can barely see the road 🩸from the heat πŸ”₯comin’ off! I reach down between my legs n’ ease the seat back She’s runnin’, I’m flyin’ Right behind in the rearview mirror now! Got the fearin’, power steerin’-Pistons poppin’, ain’t no stoppin’ NOW!! (VH)
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Broad-Ad5187
πŸ“…︎ Jul 20 2021
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Some light-hearted kdramas to ease my depressive mood, please?

So I have been feeling quite low recently and am slowly losing interest in kdramas and movies, stuff that gave me immense joy, because of it.

Please recommend a drama to put me in a better headspace.

Comedy kdramas I have already watched:

  • Welcome to Waikiki 1 (this has done it for me before, singlehandedly brought me out of a slump) and 2
  • Chief Kim
  • Mad for Each Other
  • The Fiery Priest
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Okay, I was wrong. I was never on board before, but the animation convinced me. The little bidoofus has won a place in my heart.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/onepostandbye
πŸ“…︎ Jan 12 2022
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I didn't have a lot of friends growing up, so seeing my kids' backpack along with her friends' backpacks in our hallway made my heart melt a little today.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/quirkyhermit
πŸ“…︎ Nov 19 2021
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My most adorable little heart pieces. Best part of my life.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/M_C_Hawk89
πŸ“…︎ Dec 03 2021
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It won’t ease the pain in his heart
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πŸ‘€︎ u/venomouspotato69
πŸ“…︎ Sep 27 2020
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Fiance is in labour how can I help ease the pain a little.

Hi everyone. My fiance has recently been induced. She's in a little pain but I know she's got a long way to go. Luckily I can stay with her the whole labour but I'm feeling fairly useless to be honest. Can anyone give me some tips to help her through it or just let it go a little easier?

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πŸ‘€︎ u/Fowleyman7
πŸ“…︎ Aug 22 2021
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9-10 DPO. FRER and easy@home. Almost didn’t post because this was our first cycle TTC but I’m still in shock and I think I need validation to put my heart at ease? More in comments reddit.com/gallery/kj47d1
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DAE like to watch an episode of Malcolm in the Middle after an episode of Breaking Bad to ease the tension a little bit?
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πŸ‘€︎ u/HourPayment4500
πŸ“…︎ Sep 08 2021
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Lady Mai crossed the rainbow bridge this morning. At nearly 17 years of age with a bad heart murmur and other health issues, the hard decision was made to use a veterinary home hospice provider to ease her pain. If love could've saved her, she would've lived forever.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/IronFather66
πŸ“…︎ Mar 29 2020
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My beautiful boy is crossing the rainbow bridge tomorrow & my heart is breaking. Hold your vizslas a little bit tighter tonight for me
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πŸ‘€︎ u/ivorygoldmine
πŸ“…︎ Nov 26 2021
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My dear husband of 42 years passed away last night, of heart complications. I greatly appreciate the outpouring of love from those closest to him, and I hope it would ease you to know is that he only said _____, before he left our world.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Kanga_nonamesleft
πŸ“…︎ Jan 08 2021
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It seems SMT V has a little bit of heart after all.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/timbs69
πŸ“…︎ Nov 10 2021
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Fanfiction Eases Our Broken Hearts

I just wanted to share this touching comment on a fic I read that was posted today. The author had written a sweet story to console their fellow shippers because one half of the ship recently died in canon.

>Thank you for writing this. You are just one example of why these past seven years were not a waste. The best thing that came out of this show are writers like you. Writersβ€”struggling writers, accomplished writers, young writers, old writers, new writers, exhausted writers, depressed writers, happy writersβ€”from all over, came together to create a new kind of literature. It’s the first literature I consumed, and one that I have continued to do so for years. You, the writers, all took these characters .... made them your own through language... and then delivered them back to us, the fandom, and we deeply appreciate you for that. I hope you always continue writing. I wish you, and everyone else who sees this, the very best <3

I hope the commenter wouldn't mind that I re-post it here. It's meant for you. All of you.

Edit: Thank you for the awards!

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πŸ‘€︎ u/Goudeneeuw1665
πŸ“…︎ Sep 10 2020
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My little baby just turned 1 year. I never thought I would be a Cat person. She stole my heart. Say HBD to QiQi.
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Sankunb
πŸ“…︎ Jan 09 2022
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Her name is Mellypup and she melts our hearts a little bit more every day. We love her so
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πŸ‘€︎ u/Fishmike52
πŸ“…︎ Nov 20 2021
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He may be 13, but he's still a little ole kitty at heart. reddit.com/gallery/qxt1v0
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πŸ‘€︎ u/gimpers420
πŸ“…︎ Nov 20 2021
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Western Heart's Ease (Viola ocellata)
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πŸ‘€︎ u/MentalBlur2
πŸ“…︎ Apr 07 2021
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Went a little overboard with some recent purchases. I’m really liking the At Ease collection. reddit.com/gallery/o6r4pc
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πŸ‘€︎ u/IUsuallyForget
πŸ“…︎ Jun 24 2021
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there’s a little heart on my pink princess leaf :’)
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πŸ‘€︎ u/spirit68123
πŸ“…︎ Jan 15 2022
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Big Milestone for me: First time ever pulling an engine! What a total PITA of a job! Hopefully it's new body will accept this heart transplant with a tad more ease (I pray).
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πŸ‘€︎ u/rhodesman
πŸ“…︎ Nov 10 2020
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The 'Confessions' website promised it would do the most to ease a guilty heart.

He finished typing up his story, pressed 'Post', and... wait, why was he even looking at this site?

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πŸ‘€︎ u/SerpensLumens
πŸ“…︎ Jan 27 2021
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Blushing Totori to ease the heart
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πŸ‘€︎ u/EvangelineOfSky
πŸ“…︎ Nov 01 2020
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Hot painful purging? I’m week 2 now, not sure if purging or not as it’s stayed pretty much the same hormonal cystic acne, but my face is so hot has anyone got any tips for the purging? Just stick to the same and wait for it to pass or is there anything to do/use that may help ease this a little :(
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I lost my 13 y/o shihtzu Sam in Sept. I rescued him 8 yrs ago and he was the center of my world. His loss left me devastated. This week we brought Loki home…and although he will never replace Sam, he’s already worked his way into his own little place in my heart. They even sleep the same way! ❀️ reddit.com/gallery/qwtkbv
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πŸ‘€︎ u/QDCays
πŸ“…︎ Nov 18 2021
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Issac and Vivi singing happy birthday to Jo warms my heart a little on this cold sunday ❄️ v.redd.it/wtmzm0o9bmz71
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