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So many years ago like 20 years ago on a weight lifting community when I was a young teenager I befriend a guy who was a few years older then me, approx 5 years older then me. I was 13 he was 18. He gave me a lot of good weight lifting, dieting, advice and we ended up becoming gamer buddies.
Now we drifted apart for a few years and then rekindled our friendship years down the road. Going forward we will call my friend John.
When I was in mid 20s I ended up moving nearby John. I lived in a smaller town about 2 hours from him. And John and I knowing each for over a decade by this point decided to meet up
- First time I went to go see him, he showed me around his favorite spots, we ended up watching some sports at a sports bar, drinking having a good time etc.
- Second time John came down to visit me and I borrowed my dads motorcycle and John rode my bike. We smoked together, he went home
- Third time John said he was going deep sea fishing and a cousin dropped out and if I wanted to come along I could so I did
Well then a high school friend of mine who is this beautiful Asian/American woman (we shall name her Ana) got a job in Johns city. Like this woman was gorgeous. I also knew her type, she liked really musclar guys, guys who loved sports, etc.
Well Ana and I are talking on Facebook and she mentions she's single and I tell her about John, how he's a fire fighter, likes sports, is really in shape, loves to cook, etc. Ana is super excited about John and I think "Why don't I try and hook those two up?"
So I ask her if she'd be interested in meeting John and seeing where things go, she goes YES!
So I message John and I ask one question, "Are you single?" He said "yea" and I leave it at that. So a few weeks later I have some free time coming up and I ask Ana if she'd be up for meeting John, she says absolutely. So I message John and tell him I'm thinking of coming up to his city to meet a high school friend of mine and if he wants to join us. He says yea. So we agree to meet up at a restaurant I know John likes.
Ana and I get there first, and a few minutes later John comes in. Ana whispers to me that I was right on the money and I'm thinking score, John is single, Ana is hot and succesful John going fall for head over heels. We order some drinks, and our dinner, conversation stays pretty light. We decide to go to a bar.
We get to the bar, Ana get somes drinks in her and starts getting hitting on John, she wants him. It takes John a moment and John pul
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Purely hypothetical of course, but what would be the most effective way to hypothetically wire up a small additional speaker to the brake pedal of a 2007 VW Polo so that every time the brake pedal is hypothetically pressed, a goose's honk comes through the speaker?
I have several so here they are:
Ariana- Did you and Tom hookup while he was dating Kristen?
James- Is Pasta a code word?
Kristen- How many times have you and Bratney hooked up?
Stassi- Why did you REALLY leave the show?
Jax- I wouldn’t ask him anything because it’s safe to assume everything he’s ever said is a lie.
Schwartz- How many times have you cheated on Katie?
Katie- What do you do in your free time?
EDIT: wait I would actually ask Jax if he would get back with Stassi if she wanted him back
I (37F) went on an incredible first date with a guy (41M) on Friday. I ended up, for the first time ever, staying the night on the first date. We stayed up all night listening to music and laughing and had fab physical chemistry. We slept together. In the morning we were still cracking jokes and it didn’t feel uncomfortable at all. I messaged later to say I’d got home ok and that I had a fun night/great time. He replied agreeing it was a lot of fun, we had one or two more messages about how tired we felt and that was it. And now....nothing. I half accepted it could happen after one night as it’s the chance you take, but must admit this was seriously the best date I’ve been on in years and I wasn’t really expecting this silence.
I’m getting conflicting opinions from friends about whether to ask him out again but the old saying ‘interested people act interested’ keeps coming to mind and I can’t help but think I simply would have heard by now if he’d wanted to message me. I think I have answered my own question (🤣) but, dear people in my phone, what are your thoughts?
EDIT: thanks so much everyone for all your comments, really appreciate it. One thing I’m surprised at is how the majority of people are telling me to contact him, as if I haven’t already. To be clear, as I’ve seen it questioned below - he didn’t ask me to tell him I got home ok, I offered that information and told him I had a great time. He replied agreeing, we had one or two more messages and I was last to message (but it wasn’t anything he needed to reply to, just laughing at a joke). He hasn’t initiated at all since before the date, whereas I have.
BC, Canada. I seem to recall reading that a few times.
I'm not sure if it's wise for me to mention the name of the show, so I'm just gonna leave out that detail to avoid trouble. But the point of the show is basically to send couples to an island resort where all of them will have an opportunity to mingle with attractive single people and see if their relationship is strong enough to withstand "temptation". Based on what I've seen in some of the previous episodes, many of the partners end up sleeping with the singles and ruining their relationships.
I told my gf how uncomfortable I was with the idea of us "testing" our relationship on a public platform, but she argued that we will not be the couple that decides to fuck the first available hot person on the island. I jokingly asked "but what about the 2nd available hot person, or 3rd or 4th or 5th?". She encouraged me to think of it as a once in a lifetime experience before she reached into my pants and made me promise to trust her as much as she trusted me. We had sex and filed our conversation under "to be continued".
It's not that I don't trust my gf or myself around good looking people, but I'm just concerned that the show will go above and beyond to create situations that will manipulate us to act impulsively. It's an island paradise with romantic scenery, lots of horny young people walking around in swim shorts and bikinis, plenty of alcohol and "let's get to know each other" vibes.
I can see how night after night of that shit could increase sexual chemistry between strangers and lead to hook ups. Question: am I being an insecure guy or does this sound like an obviously terrible idea?
Loki and Loki sitting in a tree, who else wants them k.i.s.s.i.n.g ?
coz no way i’m alone here, can’t be
I am from a small town and my best friend is gay and he has a lot more sex than me. This didnt bother me until one day when I told him i started talking to this guy from grindr. And he suddenly freaked when i showed him the profile. He said that they had sex once and that I needed to stop talking to him bc "thats girl code". Now they were not in a relationship or anything nor actively talking. I understand it is a little weird but can I really not talk to him just because they hooked up once? Especially since we started talking before I even knew?
I feel like all my friends have done this at least once, but I’ve never successfully done it. And not for lack of trying, mind you.
I know I’m not repulsive-looking or anything, as I’ve gotten matches on Tinder. I just...don’t ever get hit on in real life.
Because of the six appeal.
Been together 4 years, getting married next summer, and about to put a bunch of deposits down. I've always had a sense my fiance wasn't being honest about his history. We met in our 30s, and he has a large friend group from college. We're close friends with the married ones, but he still occasionally chats with the rest. Some have moved.
After we started dating, info started to trickle out through jokes or offhanded comments from friends that he'd hooked up with one girl. But there were comments that made me think there were others. And then the way some girls behaved. He did tell me about two, but denied anything ever happened with any of the others. I knew that he hooked up with a lot of what he said were 'randos', but that never sat right with me. It certainly seemed when others would make jokes, that they knew these 'randos'. I pressed him a few times but he never let up, and I wanted to believe him.
Fastfoward to this morning. I just got a contract for the venue, was reviewing it, and saw his phone. I snooped. No excuses, I wasn't looking for anything else, I just snooped. And I found old conversations about how badly he wanted to hook up with 3 of the people I'd asked him about. I was also grossed out by the way he was talking about them - saying they'd friend zoned him and it was bullshit and they'll fuck anybody else except him. He also talked with people about wanting rough sex, and 'clubbing girls and bringing them back to his place', and joking about chloroform. Now, I've absolutely no doubt these were jokes, due to the context and knowing him as a human being...but I'm still grossed out that he'd talk about his friends, and women, this way. And while it was awhile ago (2013/14), he was still an adult. It wasn't like he was 22 and saying these things. He was 30.
It just doesn't sit right with me. I'm freaking out a bit. And while his recent convos with these people mention absolutely nothing sexual wise, and I didn't find him talking about me in anything other than glowing and respectful terms...it's still making me not sign this document, not send the venue this money. Am I in the wrong here? Just leave his past alone? I know I'm a shit for snooping. And I know that since I did, and because my gut has always told me there's something about this dude I can't trust, that's probably my answer right there. But - who comes out any says "Before I met you I wanted to bang all my female friends"? Of course he wasn't going to say any of that. Mayb
... keep reading on reddit ➡like i'm so sick of seeing random guys on my tiktok fyp just like going shirtless w/ fucking BTS playing in the background or some shit. you can't even fault the social media platforms bc these dudes literally will tag #EXO or w/e on their posts so they specifically come up on kpop stans feeds
i'm sick of seeing fucking Ryan from Boston trying to hook up w/ underage girls on tiktok just bc he works out & is Korean like jfc what is this shit
ik this isn't like a new thing, british dudes did this at the height of one directions popularity, but i feel like since korean wave has exploded worldwide & social media is more than just twitter & facebook, there are a lot of more ways for these creeps to exploit young girls
not to mention them literally fetishisizing themselves which is an entire other issue in of itself but since i'm white & have never been fetishized (at least i hope not jfc) imma just leave that topic for those more qualified-
edit: this felt like it didn't need an explanation but obviously i am not talking about all asian guys or guys who genuinely like kpop. i'm talking about the ones who clout chase off of kpop stans just bc they are asian. but the even bigger issue i wanted to shine light on was the fact that a lot of these young (mainly) girls are underage & these guys are taking advantage of their naivety.
Which anime has the best first episode which made you hook up to the entire series? & Which anime has average first episode but the entire series is amazing?
I was ghosted yesterday after guy kept saying " We are still on". I was suppossed to meet at his hotel room.
I am watching RHOBH for the first time and I am currently on season 10 episode 11. They are in Rome and talk about the rumour that Brandi spread.
Honestly, I find it hard to imagine that after everything they believe Brandi without question when she tells this. I found it so strange that at Kyles childrens hospital fund raiser (or something like that) she said to Denise and Aaron that she wanted to be a throuple with them. If the topic was so sensitive, as Brandi described it, she would have never said that right? It seems to me like she is really jealous of their relationship/sex life and wants to insert herself in it to gain attention.
Ofcourse there is still a possibility that it happened, but havent we learned in the past that brandi sometimes lies or at least blows things out of proportion? I was just amazed how quickly everyone believed her.
Any thoughts on this?
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